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Seven Steps to Sex Magic!

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Seven Steps to Sex Magic!

By Dr. Elsbeth Meuth

Sex Magic! What is it? How does it work? Actually, does it really work? It’s been talked about and practiced in some places on the globe for millennia. Yet what relevance and implications does it have for us today?

I came across sex magic in the context of my tantric studies and teacher training a number of years ago. That is when I learned about the power of sexual energy as creative force and how to cultivate and channel that energy. I learned to marry my orgasmic energy with an intention to manifest what I wanted to bring into reality.

The business of creating our reality has been of course brought into the spot light via the popularization of the “Law of Attraction” through the movie The Secret as promoted by modern success leaders such as Jack Canfield, Abraham Hicks, Joe Vitale, and many others. While these leaders teach about how to direct desire and raise emotional vibration in order to achieve one’s goal, they don’t speak, however, “to the power of sexual desire used to fuel to have our wildest dreams come true. This is the secret beyond the secret: sex magic,” as my colleagues and friends, Baba Dez Nichols and Kamala Devi, wrote in their book Sexual Healing: The Shaman Method of Sex Magic.

So let’s look more deeply at what’s meant by sex magic. Baba Dez’ and Kamala’s take on it is that “…sex magic is a spiritual practice that uses sexual desire to manifest tangible effect in the physical world. One of the most powerful experiences that we have as human beings is orgasmic energy, and if we can pair it with intent, then we can direct the most powerful manifesting force available on earth.”

Let’s listen to another master in the field of sex magic, she wrote a whole book on it, called The Art of Sexual Magic. The author of course is Margo Anand, one of the pioneers of the modern Tantra movement in the West. She writes, “…basic principles of sexual magic [are]: generating sexual energy as a fuel, or power, for making magic and realizing your personal goals….by planting the seeds of your deepest desires in states of heightened orgasm you create the alchemy through which they become reality…”

In this post I’d like to offer a practical approach to Sex Magic so you at home can explore via solo or partner practice as you see fit. The steps I am suggesting here for your sex magic ritual apply to both, doing the practice by yourself or with your partner.

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12:42PM PDT on Sep 2, 2014

Always remember that love sex and orgasm start in the head.

7:31PM PDT on Aug 27, 2014


4:55AM PDT on Aug 8, 2014

It's extremely important to make a deep connection with you partner in all aspects so it will bring about openness and closeness between each other!
Good article, thank you :)

11:42PM PDT on Aug 2, 2014


8:20PM PDT on Aug 1, 2014


7:49PM PDT on Aug 1, 2014

thanks....some days I think just having sex would be magical.....

9:48PM PDT on Jul 27, 2014

thank you

4:06PM PDT on Jul 13, 2014

Thanks--useful post.

2:08PM PDT on Jul 10, 2014

Forwarded this to those who will use it...

7:01AM PDT on Jun 19, 2014

I feel like this would be something you would do with a partner you have been with for a period of time and are looking for a deeper connection with, or want to deepen your connection outside of sex. You know... once the love haze has passed and you both settle in to the relationship ;)

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