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Seven Steps to Sex Magic!
By Dr. Elsbeth Meuth
Sex Magic! What is it? How does it work? Actually, does it really work? It’s been talked about and practiced in some places on the globe for millennia. Yet what relevance and implications does it have for us today?
I came across sex magic in the context of my tantric studies and teacher training a number of years ago. That is when I learned about the power of sexual energy as creative force and how to cultivate and channel that energy. I learned to marry my orgasmic energy with an intention to manifest what I wanted to bring into reality.
The business of creating our reality has been of course brought into the spot light via the popularization of the “Law of Attraction” through the movie The Secret as promoted by modern success leaders such as Jack Canfield, Abraham Hicks, Joe Vitale, and many others. While these leaders teach about how to direct desire and raise emotional vibration in order to achieve one’s goal, they don’t speak, however, “to the power of sexual desire used to fuel to have our wildest dreams come true. This is the secret beyond the secret: sex magic,” as my colleagues and friends, Baba Dez Nichols and Kamala Devi, wrote in their book Sexual Healing: The Shaman Method of Sex Magic.
So let’s look more deeply at what’s meant by sex magic. Baba Dez’ and Kamala’s take on it is that “…sex magic is a spiritual practice that uses sexual desire to manifest tangible effect in the physical world. One of the most powerful experiences that we have as human beings is orgasmic energy, and if we can pair it with intent, then we can direct the most powerful manifesting force available on earth.”
Let’s listen to another master in the field of sex magic, she wrote a whole book on it, called The Art of Sexual Magic. The author of course is Margo Anand, one of the pioneers of the modern Tantra movement in the West. She writes, “…basic principles of sexual magic [are]: generating sexual energy as a fuel, or power, for making magic and realizing your personal goals….by planting the seeds of your deepest desires in states of heightened orgasm you create the alchemy through which they become reality…”
In this post I’d like to offer a practical approach to Sex Magic so you at home can explore via solo or partner practice as you see fit. The steps I am suggesting here for your sex magic ritual apply to both, doing the practice by yourself or with your partner.
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add your comment »Francis S... I resonate very strongly with what you said and appreciate your loving and articulate response. Many blessings to you and all who read this...
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Great article.I have got lot of information of it.But have never ever tried all such things.Thanks for sharing such a nice post here.I will definitely try this and response the review of it...
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Mmm, sex magic does work. Funny how many of you are alarmed by it. Just be careful what you cast for and use safe sex practices.
Mel, you should also include an spell to block out any negative elements. You really don't want something nasty showing up.
I'd add salt, candles, and purification of the ritual space at least. If your doing the Great Rite, at least do it the correct way.
Lovely article though. Just remember to cleanse your space, set up protections, and end the circle afterwards with a thanks to the protctive elements and so forth.
There are a lot of creeps in any realm, not just ours. Those good astral friends do a lot of work keeping them away from you, so thank them too.
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Wow, seems there are a bunch of cynical people who replied to this article... Love, peace, and grace to you all.
Interesting idea. Spiritually speaking I have used strong physical feelings as an effective tool to help in my quest of spiritual growth. Like fasting. This takes it in a completely different direction.
Hmmm. Maybe there are many paths to the Divine. Or perhaps we cannot escape the Divine we are just continuously distracted from It.
Blessings!
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This article above is written by an absolute ignorant with egoistic name DivineCaroline. What makes you so divine? Feel of self importance by trying to teach people something you don't really understand, but sounds cool?. To make yourself feel good by showing how your personal ego is so sophisticated, so different and above the others? Methods of using sexual energy for personal=egoistic gains is known and kept in secret for thousands of years already. Sexual energy is the only one that can be multiplied. But it must be transformed into Life Force and then to the higher spiritual energy. If not, then it leads to all kind of deviations. This alchemy is known to yogis and and all advanced spiritual practitioners. Also known to power seeking and domination ones. When this practice is used with selfless intention for a greater good - it brings benefit to all, especially to a giver included. When practiced with selfish intention, then .. look at the state of our World now, look at the people. You already know the correct answer.
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From the second I knew there was someone, perhaps even many people in the world who can take on the look, voice and personality of *anyone at all*, and when I heard them say that they thought they could now "sleep with all of you" that's when I chose celibacy. Your theories are fascinating tho. Maybe on another plane it's true, I suspect you've been 'away' there. To some that place would be Heaven. To others (like me) Hell.
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I do not believe that there is a thing such as magic sex, but I do think that time interrupted and communication with your partner are a very important part. While making love my solo purpose is to feel 100% connected with my someday husband. Our intent is to become one; mind, body, soul. Neither of us really worry about the climax or the orgasm, in fact sometimes we just lay with him inside and talk about our days, and this allows our emotional connects to create pleasure beyond comprehension.
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Well, gracie_b and any others who feel like you - you are likely to get exactly what you expect when you lump "most men" into a class thus dismissing any chance for discovering otherwise. How representative you think a poster with the handle "Shrub the war criminal" is likely to be may be part of the problem. The other woman who commented seems equally convinced (in the apparent absence of any confirming experience) that she would get an "eye roll". Well, expect it and you'll most likely get it. You may get it anyway, but it might be better to at least try, n'cest pas?
I've been a man for 60 years and have never rolled one single eyeball at the mention of a shared revelatory experience. If it involves emotional/spiritual/sexual contact with a woman, I'm all for the exploration wherever it might lead.
Neither "women" nor "men" exist as a separate class unless we impose that on them. Screw societal imposition of stereotypes (but only in a figurative way!) and maybe we'll *all* be farther along this evolutionary trip both emotionally and spiritually.
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The article fails to present dangers associated with tantric techniques such as described. These practicess are originally designed for people as part of a total lifestyle in which purification and related techniques are part. Taking them out of this context, typical of western usage of eastern philosophies and religions, makes them dangerous, including heightening sexual arousal to the point of losing control over ones life, and mental degradation.
In other words, when you play with fire you can be burned. So, it is best to think less of oneself and what we can gain for ourselves, and more about unselfish giving, which anyone can do right now. This path is safer and puts us on a road where when we are ready, we will naturally receive what we need.
Let those with ears, hear.
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why is there a picture of a woman & a man? most men, as the comments below show, would not "get" this. i can really only see this working between two women, for the most part. ladies, maybe you should try this with one of your girlfriends instead! you'd be a lot less likely to get the eye roll...
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