“Sex without foreplay is like song’s refrain without the intro.” Toba Beta
I have been grappling with the statistic that the average amount of foreplay that couples engage in is between 1-4 minutes as reported on a recent Dr. Oz segment.
I don’t doubt it, because I have received my share of calls and emails from customers who have shared similar stories and then wondered why the lubricant didn’t work. I am sorry to be the messenger here, but the best, most magical lube in the world is the foreplay.
When I sell my bottles of lube one by one at conferences and trade shows, I say this to our customers: “Lubricant is the grand finale, the bottle you reach for when you can’t stand it anymore. This is when lubricant can do its real job of extending the pleasure, comfort and glide of sensitive tissue in friction. I also tell them not to waste it on someone they don’t love, which is the other great secret about lubricant, it works better in the presence of loving energy given intimately.