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This is Your Life Calling

This is Your Life Calling

A carpenter decided to change careers. He had two children and his wife was expecting twins. They needed a larger house, and he needed a job that made more money. He went to his boss to explain. The boss was reluctant to see him go, as he was a very fine carpenter. But the carpenter was determined. Finally the boss asked if he would build just one more house. The carpenter agreed. And he did build the house. But preoccupied and distracted with his family and his future, he just went through the motions. He worked on autopilot and the house wasn’t up to his usual standards.

Finally the day came when the house was done. The boss came to inspect. As the two stood at the doorway, the boss handed the carpenter the key. “This is my gift to you for all the fine work you’ve done over the years.” The carpenter was in shock. If only he had known this was to be his own house he would have paid better attention to what he was doing.

In many ways, we all live our lives like this carpenter on his last house. On automatic pilot. We go through the motions of our day without paying attention to what we’re doing and end up living a less-than-stellar existence. Scientists tell us that 90 percent of our daily lives are spent in routine. Depending on what our habits are, they can become prisons of misery. Habits of negative thinking, of self-destructive behavior, of patterns of inertia that are very hard to overcome. We’ve practiced those things over and over so they’ve become automatic. And so now we are living in the shoddy house of our own making.

That’s why when we want to create new habits or change old ones, our most important ally is intention–making a commitment to what we want. And the first step is to truly see your life as the precious, limited-time opportunity it actually is. You can make it a beautiful mansion.

Each of us holds the potential for our unique form of greatness. Whenever we bring something positive in ourselves into being, we come closer to living that greatness in all its dimensions. No matter what new habit or dream we choose to cultivate, we’re also growing our souls. For the process of change itself teaches patience, humor, resolve, gratefulness, tenacity, and compassion for ourselves. These precious soul qualities alone are worth the effort.

You can achieve what you set out to. As Christopher Reeve, one of my heroes of greatness, reminds us: “So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable.” In one of the last interviews he gave, he exhorted all of us to “Go forward.” May his example inspire you as you begin this month-long journey to finding and fulfilling your intention.

To try: What are the soul qualities you want to grow in yourself this year? Write them down.

Ready to get started? Post your intent and find community support and content to help you achieve it!

In this monthlong learning series, M.J. Ryan, author of the best-selling book This Year I Will…: How to Finally Change a Habit, Keep a Resolution, or Make a Dream Come True, will take you through four steps, each lasting one week, to help you figure out what your most important intentions are and give you the tools to make each a reality. Just joining the learning series? Go here to start at the beginning. provides content and community for who you aspire to be–personally, socially and globally.

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10:55AM PDT on Oct 10, 2011
Thanks Ryan.

1:10AM PDT on Jun 21, 2011

read story b4 a few times. it's a great teaching tool

4:35AM PST on Feb 3, 2011

Thanks for the info.

8:42PM PST on Jan 17, 2011


12:42PM PDT on Nov 3, 2010

Awesome! Haven't seen that familiar old story in a while. Great reminder thanks!

10:48AM PDT on Jun 10, 2010

MJ, OMG! I LOVED this story! It actually gave me goosebumps. Thoughts for all of us to live by. Thank you SO MUCH.

11:51AM PST on Jan 18, 2010

Thanks for the info.

10:09AM PST on Jan 8, 2010

Noted thanks

7:40AM PST on Jan 8, 2010

I first learned about intentions when I taught history at a Catholic girls' school. They would say"I'll pray for your intentions". Since then I've heard others say"The road to hell is paved with good intentions". This aritrcle puts intentions in its fullness, and I appreciate it, need to do it. Thanks.

1:36AM PDT on Jun 15, 2009



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