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Toys for Boys: Enhancing Male Pleasure

Working with prostate massagers and identifying how to locate and stimulate this very erogenous area does require a leap of trust for both partners. The multitude of nerve endings in the area between the anus and the scrotum is a revelation for many men, but these sensations respond better to a gentle and patient hand at least initially. Strong communication skills and a healthy curiosity in your sexual relationship are the keys to discovering this wide range of sensations that will enhance both your enjoyment and connection.

Another boy toy that is worth adding to your love arsenal is the C Ring which are also sometimes referred to as P-rings. C-Rings are also frequently referred to as erection rings. Most have vibrators attached, and some have a double ring system to fit around both the base of the penis and wrap around the scrotum. These toys are popular because they help many men maintain an erection. This is because with the use of the ring, there is a certain amount of blood flow that gets caught in the erect penis and depending on the use, the scrotum. The vibrating part of the ring can be turned to face behind the scrotum stimulating the nerve rich male perineum or toward the woman which directly stimulates the clitoris during penetration. Regardless of the location of the vibrating element, the sensation of the penis vibrating inside the vaginal cavity adds a whole new dimension to lovemaking.

The Lelo luxury version of this multi-use toy is the rechargeable Bo. The medical grade silicone stretches to truly fit any size and is softer and more supple than the single use models I have come across. Just like their female vibrators, they recharge like a cell phone. It can be used with or with out the vibrating attachment. For all penis rings the standard safety recommendations are to use no longer than thirty minutes at a time. Some men have difficulty ejaculating with them on, so removal prior to orgasm makes sense. For other men, orgasm is easy and more exciting with the ring in place.

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, you might consider investing in one of these handsome tools to help your man unlock the keys to a lifetime of pleasure and satisfaction.

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Wendy Strgar

Wendy Strgar, founder and CEO of Good Clean Love, is a loveologist who writes and lectures on Making Love Sustainable, a green philosophy of relationships which teaches the importance of valuing the renewable resources of love, intimacy and family.  In her new book, Love that Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy,  she tackles the challenging issues of sustaining relationships and healthy intimacy with an authentic and disarming style and simple yet innovative adviceIt has been called "the essential guide for relationships."  The book is available on ebook.  Wendy has been married for 27 years to her husband, a psychiatrist, and lives with their four children ages 13- 22 in the beautiful Pacific Northwest.


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3:17AM PDT on Mar 19, 2014

This site is awesome! If you want a great read then this has to be the best and funniest review of a male sex toy I have ever read!

10:23PM PDT on Apr 24, 2013

will try it out with my partner

6:01AM PDT on Apr 19, 2013

Does it mean that they're playful?

9:52AM PDT on Apr 17, 2013

All I got to say is different strokes for different folks!

1:21AM PDT on Mar 20, 2013

A man who dares to be left explored... that.

3:16PM PDT on Mar 14, 2013


12:29AM PDT on Mar 14, 2013

Thanks Wendy.

9:25AM PDT on Oct 17, 2011

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6:05PM PDT on Sep 29, 2011

Personally i would like a fleshlight;

9:53AM PDT on Aug 19, 2011

An excellent article on a controversial subject...and Lelo products probably appreciates the free advertising.

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