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True Femininity: No Razor or Wax Needed.

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True Femininity: No Razor or Wax Needed.

It’s May 2013, and I haven’t shaved to any great degree in… about two years. It is also worth noting that I am a young woman of partial Italian descent. Thus, the visible hair on my body does not blend into the background in thin translucent wisps, but rather, presents itself upfront with authentic auburn passion and style. All this is to say, not shaving the visible hair on my body makes a statement, whether I am ready to or not. So I might as well be out with it.

Letting my body hair simply be wasn’t anything new to me when I stopped shaving two years ago. I graduated from a rather liberal college in 2006, so I had seen many a strong woman walking around as God had made them, body hair and all. I, on the other hand, shaved regularly throughout college.

I was shy about wearing shorts when even the slightest amount of prickle began to reappear. I even tried a hair removal cream once or twice, which only partially worked and was accompanied by the enticing smell of burning hair. I eventually went as far as waxing, first on my own (which left my legs blue and purple) and then through a professional. No matter whether you do it in the privacy of your own home or have someone else do it for you, ripping hair out of your body is just that: ripping-hair-out-of-your-body. IT HURTS!

I first experimented with a new simplified grooming regimen after college, when I was all about doing what I wanted to, when I wanted to, and taking care of myself while I did it.

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10:24PM PDT on Aug 20, 2014

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1:27AM PDT on Jul 18, 2014

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12:13AM PDT on Apr 25, 2014

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4:47PM PST on Feb 5, 2014

I hate when women shave their pubic region and don't have a problem with a woman with hair, just no facial hair. I dated women in the 80's and 90's and they never shaved. It has become a disturbing trend and I hate the look of a woman who shaves it all off. Twisted thinking has led women to think they must be smooth all over, which is why I would love to go to France or Italy!

12:57AM PDT on Aug 3, 2013

this man does not care, I could not imagine being a woman putting on makeup......or doing the shaving thing......hair......Billy Gibbons, Dusty Hill.........Janis Joplin, Mama Cass......I've worn my hair long and face hair of varying degrees since 1973....It has cost me lots of jobs and other opportunities.....there is a saying I started using in response......I bet you would have shaved Jesus before crucifying him, appearances are everything........live and let live and I would not look down on someone no matter how ''un-norml '' they choose to be.....rock on.....we are actors on the stage of each others life, lets enjoy the drama......

3:16PM PDT on Jul 23, 2013

I can't wax (as it literally rips my skin off with the hairs I'm removing) and shaving tends to leave me with bumps and such unpleasant things. As for creams, they just do not work for me (they take forever to do the job properly, smell terribly bad and give me burning sensations). Even though I've been struggling with hair removal for years (the perfect solution for me would be pulsed light hair removal, which I just can't afford right now), I cannot bring myself to leave it au naturel. I always feel uncomfortable after a few days and, strangely enough, not as "clean" as I would like to feel. This being said, I totally understand you & your choice. You should embrace your feminity, hairless or not ! Society does influence us, either we admit it or not. And I believe it is important to question our own decisions from time to time. Ultimately, you should do what makes you feel the best.

6:48AM PDT on Jul 7, 2013

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4:01AM PDT on Jul 2, 2013

When I was a 20 y/o single college student in the early 70s, I also decided au naturale was a more honest expression of femininity, and I quit shaving for several months. Then, one day, I wanted to try on a pair of great shoes. The shoe store was not a self-service store - clerks assisted customers by placing the shoes on their feet. A good-looking young man who worked there seemed very glad to help me until I raised my jeans and he saw my hairy leg. His reaction told me he likely had nightmares of being pursued by women with hairy legs for weeks after that. I don't remember if I bought the shoes, but I did buy a razor.

8:21AM PDT on Jun 28, 2013

The problem is people trying to convince young girls their bodies are disgusting and they should feel ashamed for. I accept my body and my body hair is in my body so I accept it.

7:15AM PDT on Jun 26, 2013

Razor/waxing may not be a factor in ones femininity..but it helps.
Growing up I had seen 2 women with unshaved armpits and legs in swimsuits....it really was disgusting...not because of any preconceived notion I had (I was preteen) but by the sight of that thick long hair growing like a plant on a human body......especially from the armpits
That sight said to me SHAVE! SHAVE! SHAVE! or I'd be watering the growth like a houseplant

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