Observe your mind. Often you will find that when you feel something is missing and cannot rest until you have achieved it, it is just an excuse to not be present and to suffer. These are the tricks of the mind that keep you separate from self: if you were totally present, without any distractions, you could no longer avoid the unknown depths that lie within.
In reality, there is nothing to fear, for how can you be afraid of love? Itís impossible: it would be like fearing the air that we breathe. Open to embrace the unknown, to let go of the control of what you think you need in order to be happy, and you will open to receive the wonderful, magical surprises life has in store.