Love is not something that happens by accident. It is something you choose to create each and every day of your life. We know this from our own relationship and from coaching thousands of clients. Between the two of us, we’ve made almost every mistake you can make in a relationship. We didn’t connect until after 40, and when we did, it was different than any other relationship we’d ever experienced.
So how did we learn to create love on purpose? We learned from our past, and made the changes necessary to have a successful relationship.
Here are the steps for you:
Discover your patterns in relationship. You are the common denominator in all of your relationships. Looking at past relationships, what pattern can you discover? How is it blocking you from love?
You are not broken. You learned how to receive love at a young age from people who were unable to meet your needs. You made assumptions that because your parents didn’t give you the love you desired that you were broken in some way. We refer to this as your Love Imprint.
Your Love Imprint is driving your choices in love. Knowing your pattern and the beliefs that support it will open you up to receive the love that is your birthright….Continue reading at InspireMeToday.com.
Orna and Matthew are Master Relationship Coaches for Singles and Couples and founders of the global online movement, The Love On Purpose Revolution.
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