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Wisdom from Orna and Matthew Walters

Wisdom from Orna and Matthew Walters

Love is not something that happens by accident. It is something you choose to create each and every day of your life. We know this from our own relationship and from coaching thousands of clients. Between the two of us, we’ve made almost every mistake you can make in a relationship. We didn’t connect until after 40, and when we did, it was different than any other relationship we’d ever experienced.

So how did we learn to create love on purpose? We learned from our past, and made the changes necessary to have a successful relationship.

Here are the steps for you:

Discover your patterns in relationship. You are the common denominator in all of your relationships. Looking at past relationships, what pattern can you discover? How is it blocking you from love?

You are not broken. You learned how to receive love at a young age from people who were unable to meet your needs. You made assumptions that because your parents didn’t give you the love you desired that you were broken in some way. We refer to this as your Love Imprint.

Your Love Imprint is driving your choices in love. Knowing your pattern and the beliefs that support it will open you up to receive the love that is your birthright….Continue reading at

Orna and Matthew are Master Relationship Coaches for Singles and Couples and founders of the global online movement, The Love On Purpose Revolution.

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5:44AM PDT on Apr 11, 2013

thanks for sharing

12:13PM PDT on Apr 9, 2013

thank you!

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2:09PM PDT on Apr 8, 2013

If everyone could learn to love themselves and others, the world would be a better place. Thank you for your efforts to that end.

2:03PM PDT on Apr 8, 2013


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10:43AM PDT on Apr 8, 2013


9:36AM PDT on Apr 8, 2013

"And in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make" ~ The Beatles

9:23AM PDT on Apr 8, 2013

We can learn from parents who don't give us love, by becoming the person that they never were. You gain more love by focusing on giving it than receiving it. When you are rejected, simply move on. Someone, somewhere, is waiting for you to come.

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