Airline Bans Babies in 1st Class: In Search of Cry-Free Skies


Earlier this year, low-cost European airline Ryanair said it would offer child-free flights in what turned out to be an April Fool’s prank. Nonetheless, the notion of “cry-free flying” sparked a discussion about whether, as the Los Angeles Times opined, there out to be “Every Child Left Behind” flights. The issue has been raised again with the recent announcement by Malaysia airlines that it is banning infants in the first class section of its Boeing 747-400 jets, and also plans to do the same in their new Airbus A380 superjumbo jets, as noted in AOL Travel. The ban is only for long-haul flights from Kuala Lumpur to Amsterdam, London and Sydney; travelers with babies will now have to book flights in economy or business class.

Other airlines including British Airways and Virgin Atlantic have considered creating child-free/adult-only flights. Last November, the New York Times noted that annoyed business travelers have also pushed for creating “family/kid-only sections” on flights:

In July, Qantas settled a lawsuit from a woman who claimed that she suffered hearing loss after sitting next to a screaming 3-year-old boy on a 2009 flight from New York to Australia. (Terms of the settlement were not disclosed.) In January, AirTran removed an entire family from a flight before takeoff from Fort Myers, Fla., because their 3-year-old girl was hitting the parents, making noise and refusing to take her seat. And in March, a 42-year-old woman allegedly grabbed a boy (3 years old, again) for kicking her chair during a Southwest flight to Las Vegas.

While few travelers would advocate outright assault, a survey of 2,000 travelers released by Skyscanner, a fare-comparison site, in August found that 59 percent of passengers support creating special sections on flights for families. Nearly 20 percent said they would like to see airlines offer child-free flights.

The airlines themselves are unwilling to implement the equivalent of the church “crying room” anytime soon, no matter how big a cry adults or kids raise. David Castelveter, spokesman for the Air Transport Association, points out that, with the airlines industry struggling to turn a profit, they are hardly inclined to prevent passengers from taking one flight over another. Furthermore, the logistics of getting every seat filled make airlines quite disinclined to mark out swaths of seats only for certain passengers:

“There are many markets in this country where airlines offer one, maybe two flights a day,” Mr. Castelveter said. “You’re now going to limit people from flying one of those times? As a parent, I would be pretty annoyed if I were forced to take an 8 a.m. flight instead of one at noon.”

Family-only sections would present their own set of headaches, he said, and are just as unlikely to become reality. “What about the person who says, ‘I want to sit up front, but my son wants to sit with the family?’” he said. “What about last-minute plane substitutions, where instead of 12 rows for families you suddenly have only 7?”

Some parents themselves are in favor of family-only sections, where their kids could kick at seatbacks, cry and watch kid shows without being subjected to the harsh, and often downright mean, looks (and “advice” — why does everyone who isn’t holding your squirming, screaming child have “the answer” to stopping the squirming and the screaming?).

Also, it bears saying that it’s not only babies who can be unhappy travelers vocalizing their woes.

I’m afraid my son has irked at least a few passengers on airplanes. As a babe in arms, he scream-cried for pretty much all of a 4-hour flight; after we finally got off, we got a load of “interesting” looks as we were waiting to get our luggage and a few “so THIS is Charlie” remarks. Charlie is on the moderate to severe end of the autism spectrum and has had his share of  ”exciting moments” on flights; now when I hear a baby or child crying on an airplane, I want to get out of my seat and tell the parents, I’m with you. Given the challenges of flying with Charlie, we’ve often flown red-eye and non-stop so he’s more likely to sleep, making it easier for all parties.

Flying is not, though, an option anymore for Charlie and — I’m sorry to say — the fear of a crying baby in-flight is one reason. Charlie (who refuses to wear headphones) is extremely sound-sensitive and often puts both hands over his ears (or one hand over one ear while scrunching the other onto his shoulder, if he’s holding something), from hearing the hum of fluorescent lights to, indeed, airplanes far over his head. As he’s almost 5′ 9″, he is therefore not going to be comfortable squashed into economy-class seats). Charlie upset and overwhelmed by such high-pitched sounds as a baby crying would not be an easy situation to deal with on an airplane. We would like him to visit my family, all of whom reside in California, but short of driving the 3,000 miles from New Jersey, my husband and I have concluded we just can’t. There’s simply no reason to put Charlie (and us, and the whole plane) through the potential ordeal of a trans-continental flight with him in “behavioral storm mode.”

Something else that advocates of “child-free flights” need to keep in mind is that one day they could have their own weeping baby-whom-everyone-wishes-would-just-shut-up. Or, they could themselves be a traveler with a health issue or a disability in need of a little patience, not to mention human kindness.

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Martha Eberle
Martha Eberle6 years ago

I would LOVE to be able to afford first-class or a child-free flight. But I don't blame the children, but the parents who haven't disciplined them properly at home for years, and so they are the privileged little darlings who think the world revolves around them (so do their parents) and they act like brats. I am not talking about an infant who can't help crying because the change in cabin pressure hurts their ears, or the autistic child who hasn't control over his sensitivity to sound. You know who I'm speaking about: the 3-12 year olds who haven't been taught manners. Children should KNOW that when you're in a public place, there are certain behaviors which are appropriate: quiet voices, "please" and "thank you", no banging feet on seat in front of you, etc. I am a bitch, but is this too much to ask?!

KrassiAWAY B.
Krasimira B6 years ago

Just have a family section.

Jane L.
Jane L6 years ago

I'd be part of the 59% who would support having a family-section on the plane. I don't understand how parents can let their kids go so crazy, and if I were that parent, I'd be embarassed enough to WANT to be in that family-section of the plane!

mary k.
mary k6 years ago

the childless "adults" seem to be the whiney little brats.

ryan b.
Ryan B6 years ago

I think that all children under the age of 18 should be forced to sit in the last 10 rows of a plane. They are all whiny little brats these days and the parents do nothing to control them. Maybe because they are idiots or maybe it's because we have allowed too many lawyers and psychologists tell us how our kids should be raised and disciplined, not beaten as so many would have you believe, but disciplined.

Rachel Beckford
Rachel Beckford6 years ago

I fear your thoughtful decisions re flying with Charlie - i.e. take redeye - are not shared by most parents of children taking to the sky!

Kecia W.
Kecia A6 years ago

It's not the children I take issue with. It's the irresponsible, disrespectful, self centered parents that not only lack control of their offspring, but expect everyone else to deal with it that I have a problem with.

Susan Duncan
Susan Duncan6 years ago

While I'm sure most parents are thoughtful about the rights of fellow passengers, to allow a kid to kick seatbacks, climb over seats, scream, spill things or otherwise torment others is unacceptable. There should be a designated area where families can contend with their kids while others who wish to have a more peaceful flight can also be accommodated. To those who would remind us that we were all kids once, that is certainly true. However, what is also true for some of us is that we had parents who would never have allowed us to infringe on the rights of others by behaving unruly or wild. If my siblings and I had been too young to control through proper teaching about manners, then my parents would never have inflicted us on a planeful of already-nervous passengers. It's all about the perspective of the parents and their willingness to be thoughtful of others. I'm all for childfree flights or at least designated areas for families.

Marie W.
Marie W6 years ago

Just have a family section- at the rear of the plane with noise proof panels separating it from the rest.

Danny W.
Danny Wilson6 years ago

In the 'real' world, crying babies are a natural part of the socio-economic, emotional, family, ecological, planetary, cultural etc. etc. landscape. So stop whining and get over it, celebrate or at least tolerate this new life. That's what it's all about right?