Dispatches from Ethiopia

Editor’s note: a group of ONEMoms are in Ethiopia, and we will be running updates from them daily. Here’s the first installment. Read more here.

Yesterday we visited the Mary Joy Organization. We were greeted by children, and by singing, dancing, flowers, and thousands of smiles. It was awesome. These were happy, happy kids. The organizers shared a presentation about the center. Then the kids performed — songs and juggling and acrobatics. Then we all danced. And danced and danced. I love dancing! I did my best to copy their moves, but that mostly made them laugh. Or in some cases, challenge me with harder moves. : )

Mary Joy is a community center that serves at-risk children. “At risk” in many cases meaning: their parents have died and the children are left to fend for themselves on the street. The thing that’s especially cool about Mary Joy: it was started by local residents. Community members saw a need and took action. They created a center and are working to locate children in need and make sure they’re getting an education, and enough to eat. The work they’re doing is amazing and impressive and the adults involved have dedicated their lives to making this center a success.

And the kids. Oh man. The kids!

You read about the kids. You see the numbers and hear the descriptions of poverty. But being there and having them in your arms will take every speck of mothering instinct that might be in you and put it high gear. You will mug on those kids for as long as you possibly can, laughing and grinning and blowing kisses until the bus pulls out of sight. And then you’ll cry into your scarf for a long while as you think about their stories, as you think of the 13-year-olds with babies slung on their hips — their own babies. And you’ll think of your 13-year-old daughter and how you’ve seen her standing exactly like that, with Baby June on her hip. But Baby June is her sister. Not her baby. (Because how in the world does a 13-year-old raise a baby?)

And when you’re done crying you’ll think this: Kids is kids. The toddlers need to be picked up so they can get a better view of the acrobatics. The 5 and 6-years-olds are affectionate. They want to sit close and lean in, and they like your arm wrapped around them. The 10-years-olds want to impress you with the cool things they can do. The teenagers want acknowledgement — no hugs, but eye-contact and high-fives are welcome.

And every single one of them deserves an education, a shot at a happy future.

You can sponsor a child at Mary Joy for about $300 per year. That amount provides food, an education — and a school uniform! There are a million ways to do good things, and of course we can’t do them all. But if we read a story, or see a cause that touches our heart and we feel compelled to take action, I hope we will.

This post was written by Gabrielle Blair.


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All images by Karen Walrond


Lucie G.
Lucie G5 years ago

the children look so happy. such a uplifting story

anne r.
Tom R5 years ago

Great kids, great story

natalie n.
natalie n5 years ago

a lovely, inspirational story of hope that some people out there are making a difference.

Rin S.
Rin S5 years ago

Beautiful story, thank you

Spirit Spider
Spirit Spider5 years ago

I want to be in ethiopa

Pamela Tracy
Pamela Tracy5 years ago

I knew a person a man who worked for CARE in Ethiopia in the past...long ago..met him in Sierra Leone...never been to Ethiopia...HOWEVER WHEN I WAS AT THE AIRPORT IN NIGERIA IN 1991 I SAW THE PRESIDENT OF ETHIOPIA'S PLANE FROM THE PASSENGERS VIEWER AREA BEING READIED WITH HIS ENTOURAGE OF GUNMEN....KIND OF SCARY.

Beth M.
Beth M5 years ago


Sue Matheson
Sue Matheson5 years ago


silja salonen
silja salonen5 years ago

with gratitude
this article is joyful
full of hope
full of love

J.L. A.
j A5 years ago

when communities themselves are at the table for making decisions about community needs and solutions, wonderous things can happen