How to Create Balance in Your Home

Feng shui acknowledges that we are ancient creatures who naturally seek balance. If our living spaces are not balanced, our lives also feel out of balance.

Our homes are made up of active and restful spaces. The active rooms are called the “yang” rooms, and the more restful rooms the “yin” rooms.

The principle of yin and yang is at the foundation of the ancient practice of feng shui. It has to do with the recognition that the universe is made up of opposite forces of energy that cannot exist without each other. They are finely balanced and, like polar sides of a magnet, are innately attracted to each other.

In Feng Shui we apply these principles to our living space. First we identify the use of the room: is it an active or restful space? Then we incorporate objects, shapes, colors, furniture and art that supports activity or restfulness depending upon which quality we are working with.

Creating a Yin Restful Space:

Yin rooms would be the places you want the energy to support rest, relaxation and rejuvenation. These would be bedrooms, living rooms, possibly family rooms (if used for more restful activities), bathrooms and dining rooms.

This restful space has more Yin features but also has a nice balance of both

To make the room more restful, add yin details such as circular-shaped objects; darker, more muted colors; lower, darker and more cushy upholstered furniture; fabrics of soft chenille, velvet and corduroy, and fabrics with more detail. You can also add carpeting and area rugs, patterns and more circular shapes, such as floral prints. The lighting should be more muted and the paint colors softer or greyed-down. In building materials, adobe, brick and stucco would be considered more yin. In design history, the eras that incorporated yin qualities would be the Victorian era, Louis IV and V, and the Baroque period, all which incorporated curved lines, plush, over-stuffed furniture with lots of detail and intricacy.

How to Fix Your Too-Yin Room:

This too-yin room feels oppressive

You can fix a room that is too restful, and should be more active by removing patterns with detail and creating straighter, more modern lines with art and furniture, removing area rugs and pillows, and weeding out some of the plants and the smaller collections of things.

Think of making it zen, with more empty spaces that breathe (clutter clearing included!). For a larger fix, paint the walls a white, pastel or brighter color, removing the carpeting and bringing in hardwood or tile, replacing curtains with light-colored shutters and opening up the room to bring in more light.

Creating Yang Active Spaces

Active, yang rooms would be kitchens, home offices, work-out rooms, children’s play rooms (if separate from their bedroom), garages, laundry rooms, hallways and study spaces if they are not in the bedroom. (Study, exercise and work areas should not be located in the restful bedroom spaces.)

This active space has more Yang features, but also has a nice balance of both

To create a more active space, you can incorporate brighter lighting, whites or bolder colors, more angular or square-shaped furniture that is not upholstered, and accessories with less detail and straighter lines. Bold stripes and geometrical shapes in larger prints are considered more yang qualities along with slicker leathers, plastics, vinyl’s, silks and synthetics. Yang materials are hardwood, cement, tile and any hard-surface materials.

The more highly manufactured materials such as glass, metal, and plastic are also considered more yang. Think of a modern room with high ceilings, a lot of glass, light and metal, with angular shapes and straight lines. The period in history that introduced more yang features into architecture would be the Bauhaus era in Germany in the 1920s, the precursor to our modern-day architecture.

If you are attracted to a more yang, zen and clean look, make sure to still incorporate furniture with more rounded edges. Sharp-edged furniture is considered weapon-like in feng shui. Our homes always need to be “people-friendly” no matter the style of decor you are drawn to. A good rule of thumb is if you can bruise yourself, stub your toe, bump your head or knock into it and injure yourself, or if it looks like or is a weapon, it is not considered friendly and should be removed from your living space.

Modern Spaces Still Need Nature!

This too Yang office needs more Yin features. Sharp edges are never friendly in living spaces

The downside of much modern architecture is that it does not often bring in the natural world. As people who came from 100,000 generations of ancestors who lived in nature, we don’t feel truly “at home” unless we have it represented in our living and work spaces. This is a part of the Five Elements teaching and an integral part of Feng Shui. Bring in photos of nature, plants, animal prints (faux only please), shells, wood, earthen-ware objects, and water features to make your yang space more inviting.

How to Fix your Too-Yang Room:

You can fix a room that is too yang and should be more restful by bringing in chenille or cushy pillows and throws in muted colors and earth tones, more detailed fabrics, adding plants and trees, nature art, and area rugs. For a bigger fix, paint the walls a restful, darker color and create more muted lighting and bring in darker window coverings. Think of creating a cave-like, comfy space that inspires you to want to curl up and read a book.

Remember, the key is to have a balance of both yin and yang qualities in every room, emphasizing more yin or yang features depending upon the use of the space. Your very bright, yang bedroom will not support rest and rejuvenation and your dark and cozy yin home office will not support you getting anything done. Knowing how to apply yin and yang principles to your home will support the needs and lives of the people living there and allow everyone to flourish.

Once you have achieved an appropriate balance in each room, you will be well on your way to creating a balanced and harmonious home that supports, uplifts, and nurtures your lives!

Erica Sofrina is an International Feng Shui Consultant and the Author of the book Small Changes, Dynamic Results! Feng Shui for the Western World and the founder of the West Coast Academy of Feng Shui.

Top Kitchen Picture from portfolio of Erica Sofrina, Interior Design

Pictures: Living Room courtesy of Sylvia del vaille Garcia

Yellow and Green Kitchen courtesy of Jeannette Chasworth- The’ Color Whisperer’


Genoveva M.
Genoveva M4 years ago

Thanks for the information.

Edvanir L.
Edvanir L4 years ago

Thank you.

Ernie Miller
william Miller4 years ago

thanks good article

Edvanir L.
Edvanir L4 years ago

Thank you.

Danuta Watola
Danuta W4 years ago

Thanks for posting.

Autumn S.
Autumn S4 years ago

thanks for the article

Susan Allen
SusanAWAY Allen4 years ago

Thanks Erica. Some great ideas. Shared.

Cindy Rhodes
Cindy Rhodes4 years ago

Thank you!

Sandi C.
Sandi C4 years ago

interesting ideas.

Shanti S.
S S4 years ago

Thank you.