Is Caring Too Much Hurting You? How to Cope with Compassion Burnout

Upsetting daily news. Thousands of petitions to sign everyday. More causes to care for than we have the time for.

Life can sure get you down if you’re a compassionate person. Add to that a job or a personal situation where caring for ailing individuals is part of your daily reality and you’ve got yourself a combo that might lead you to burnout.

Compassion burnout‘ or ‘activist burnout’ is a very real thing. Recognized by psychologists as compassion fatigue, the phenomenon can make you feel mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted. In fact, being preoccupied by the suffering of humans or animals you care about can go as far as to give you secondary traumatic stress.

How to Deal with Compassion Burnout

Here’s what you can do to help yourself cope when ‘caring too much’ is hurting you.

Establish Clear Boundaries

Taking a step back to honor yourself may be easier said than done, but it’s essential.

After coming to terms with the fact that you do have compassion fatigue, you have to create a divide between what it is you care for and yourself. Not doing so will only let your emotions pile up and prevent you from processing them.

Whether it is taking a temporary break from work or shutting out the news for a few days (whatever your personal situation is), giving yourself space to heal is a good first step.

Seek Help

Once you’ve had a little time to go through your emotions, it’s time to speak up. Talking to friends or co-workers who might be experiencing similar feelings but aren’t opening up can help everyone. It’s okay to have a bad day and vent about it!

Having just one focused and meaningful conversation a day can make all the difference. Research on compassion fatigue reduction suggests that internal support, such as a mentor or close friendship, can help you build more resiliency.

It’s also important to reach out to a licensed professional, if your feelings are getting in the way of normal daily functioning.

Be Patient with Yourself

Caring for others comes with a load of personal responsibility and self-imposed pressures. Setting time for yourself to heal from your compassion fatigue can lead to feelings of guilt. Being patient with yourself as you slow down your pace to deal with everything is essential.

It takes time to build yourself up again to a point where you can successfully manage and balance your altruistic nature with the secondary stress it brings.

Practice Self Care

Adopting and practicing healthy lifestyle habits go a long way to improve our mental health in general. As such, it should be your number one focus. A healthy diet coupled with a regular exercise routine has been shown to help people manage their stressful environment.

Pursuing hobbies and creative endeavors are also good ways to relieve secondary stress caused by compassion fatigue.

Want more self-care tips and advice on how to reduce stress? Check out How to Practice Self-Care in the Face of Triggering Headlines and our 11 Ways to Reduce Stress in 5 Minutes or Less.

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Marija M
Marija Mabout a month ago

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Dot A
Dot Aabout a month ago

Never underestimate the positive release of stress by talking honestly with a very trusted person. Remember that the operative word in this sentence is trusted. Otherwise, more stress may follow. Good to keep all these coping strategies in mind. Just know that human beings are social creatures, and we need to find someone to share our ideas and feeling with that won't betray us or use our words against us. If someone passes on the words you wanted private, just between the two of you, then the message invariably is altered to service someone else's intensions. There may be revenge issues or it could be innocent. But, always take time to evaluate whether or not a person can be trusted completely with your personal and private conversations. There aren't that many people who will measure up to such an important test of character. FYI

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danii pabout a month ago

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danii pabout a month ago

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danii pabout a month ago

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Elizabeth M
Past Member about a month ago

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Alexandra Richards1 months ago

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