10 Signs of a Conscious Marriage

A conscious marriage is a marriage that fosters maximum psychological and spiritual growth; itís a marriage created by becoming conscious and cooperating with the fundamental drives of the unconscious mind: to be safe, to be healed, and to be whole.

What are some of the differences when you become conscious? The following list highlights some of the essential differences in attitude and behavior:

1. You realize that your love relationship has a hidden purposeóthe healing of childhood wounds.

2. You create a more accurate image of your partner.

3. You take responsibility for communicating your needs and desires to your partner.

4. You become more intentional in your interactions.

5. You learn to value your partnerís needs and wishes as highly as you value your own.

6. You embrace the dark side of your personality.

7. You learn new techniques to satisfy your basic needs and desires.

8. You search within yourself for the strengths and abilities you are lacking.

9. You become more aware of your drive to be loving and whole and united with the universe.

10. You accept the difficulty of creating a good marriage.

Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, PH.D. (c) reprint edition 2001 by Harville Hendrix (Owl Books).
Adapted from Getting the Love You Want: A Guide For Couples, by Harville Hendrix (Owl Books reprint edition 2001). Experience Harville Hendrix at Omega Institute 9/30-10/2. (www.eomega.org)


Danial W.
Past Member 5 years ago

Thanks for sharing good article

Daphne H.
Daphne H5 years ago

After 52 years couldn't agree more

Danielle Herie
Danielle Herie5 years ago


Danuta Watola
Danuta W5 years ago

Interesting! thanks!

Dave C.
David C5 years ago

interesting, thanks.

Teresa Wlosowicz
Teresa W5 years ago

Consciously being beaten?!

Frere Chatillon
Frere Chatillon5 years ago

Good article!

Elena T.
Elena Poensgen5 years ago

Thank you :)

Marianne Good
Past Member 5 years ago

Interesting points. Thanks for sharing.

Fiona T.
Past Member 5 years ago

In theory, a successful relationship nurtures both