Parents Wrongfully Accused From Social Services 

On that not quite so warm spring day in May of 2011 the State of Nebraska after 3 years of fighting for the reunification of my three boys, they unjustly dragged me into court and gave me an option of either voluntary giving up my rights or having them terminated. Sometimes I believe I was the victim here. Those boys had a great child hood, always had food in their bellies and a warm place to sleep. If anyone would listen to my story they would understand why my life is so hard to continue on with after I lost my three beautiful boys. I am not a drug addict, even though it would make they why factor in my brain so much easier to understand, they tried to say that I needed a guardian ad litem because I supposedly had a mental illness , that had never been proved by anyone else, and the state appointed attorney I had, basically told me that I would have more rights to my kids if I voluntaryly gave them up, instead of having my rights terminated. I just don't understand, why this was all done to a family unit. I thought it was the goal of Health and Human Services to reunify children with their biological parents. Not to mention that the ages of my kids where old enough to know who their parents were. Isn't that harder on them as children? I guess I will never understand and as I stand here with my hands tied, crying every night wondering why me God?

I have read all of the stories and it has broke my heart to hear such sad stories. 6 of my friends have all had there children taken off them for being wrongly accused.I have heard plenty of peoples stories and they all end the same. I have noticed that everyone gets told that there are no problems to be said in the court papers but yet when the court hearing does come there seems to be so many problems and mistakes that the parent has "apparently" made. They say how they are doing it for the childs safety but yet they dont think on how it is affecting the child (mentally, emosionally). I am setting up a petition with in the nelson area with in the next month or so for the parents that have had there children or child taken away from them. new reporters will be there as people need to hear other peoples stories on how they were done wrong by social services. And to find out exactly what social services have really been up to.

I am a grandmother of 6 wonderful grandchildren.  The last two that was born were pre. newborns. One was born at 30 weeks and the latest one was Emergency remove at 29 weeks born at 2 lbs 12 oz on November 6, 2009.  The hospital he was born at was bagging, CPR, and chest compressing him to bring him back, and the CMH was on the way to pick him up to rush him to their hospital.  He was in bad shape.  He was released the middle part of January of 2010 with Oxygen, and machine.  In March I have noticed he had a leg that was not looking correct, so I informed my son and his girlfriend to have it looked at.  He had a O2 appointment the following day, and I was informed that he had got his leg caught in the babybed rail.  So when they took him to his dr appointment they done a xray seen nothing, done a bodyscan and told the parents he had 9 fractures but would not tell them where. They kept the child and then called the hot line.  I was there at the hearing and they mention 7 fractures, then handed my son a letter to take the child into protection care it said 5 fractures.  I asked how old is the fractures they could not tell me, and then I had mentioned that we will get a copy of the records and have another doctor look them over.  The next day the mother requested a copy of all the medical records and was deneid the doctor deneid her to get a copy of the records.  I see the Juvenil officers with his file, so the hospital gave her the file and do not want to be in trouble for letting it leave the hospital.  The baby's lawyer informed me that the doctor can not deny her those records and I informed her that he is.  So something is hiding in those files.  I also have pictures of him in the hospital at birth and it shows bruises on his legs, and his wrist bone and wrist is off set.  So the Juvenile and Social Service and the Hospital is wrongully accusing parents of abuse when the parents have passed the lie detectors and stuff.  This came from the Investigation of the police department.  They are still trying to take a (my) grandson away, and what makes me the maddest is I want those files to see what they have in them.  and the Social service and juvenile informed my son that he has to provide diapers, and formula for his son while he is the state care.  I had to hire an attorney to keep these animals from pressuring my kids.

Hello All,

I have read so many of your stories and each one brings tears to my eyes..My mom (who has a history of mental issues and also has a history of calling the authority's on anyone she is mad or upset at..its her def way to get back). Well on Dec. 15, 2005, I argued with her about how bad my husbands 2 girls from a previous marriage were acting out that weekend. My mom never liked my husband and def didnt like his 2 kids and his ex wife, who I'll admit also caused alot of drama. Well..my mom wanted me to take my son and stay the weekend with her..and leave my husb alone with his kids. She just HATED my husband and his kids..She wasnt even at the hospital when my son was born in Sept of 2004 b/c she didnt want to be near my spouse and was jealous that my husbands mom was there..She never even visited me until about 2 mths after he was born. Then she started coming around and trying to help with money..etc. But there was always a price. Anyway..I refused to go with her that weekend..We got into a vebal argument over the phone and she was MAD that I wouldnt do what she says..Im in my 30's..I didnt know I still had to obey her commands..Well she got really mad and called DYFS and said I was abusing my son by hitting him, neglect and that my son shouldnt be around my husb, his kids and his ex wife..DYFS came and removed my son and put him with my mom..About 2 yrs later she told her lawyer she wanted to recant her story..that she may have taken it to far..that she didnt know I could loose my son..She hired a big fancy lawyer to fight for adoption..and after 4 yrs of fighting..the Judge thought my son was better with my mom..My mom lied in Court about everything..But b/c she is a wealthy NJ housewife..she clearly looked better than me with my measley public defender..I see my mom periodically..My mom lives 10 min from me..My problem is I lost my son..a part of me died that day in Nov of 2008. I cant even move on..Im so depressedl I almost feel as if my son died..eventhough I know he didnt..I feel alone w/o my lil boy who is almost 6 now. I pray for everyone who has gotten into the system. I did everything and more for DYFS and everytime we'd go to Court..they'd miracously misplace my certifiates from my phyciatrist, therapist, etc. They even lied to the Judge one time and said I was kicked out of a parenting program..Thank God I had the certificate with me..

I guess i could go on and on with how awful DYFS was or is..But how can they take a child away with no proof of anything? They came to my house twice from 2005 to 2009. Awful. Bottom line is I lost my baby..Im NOT his mom anymore. I miss him..If anyone has any advice as to how to move on in some way..Id love to hear about it. Ty for reading my story...

Hello Everyone,

I have been reading through here and I have been seeing more and more that Children's Services have been comming hanus acts to Parents. just recently 2 of my close friends had their child taken away from them and wrongfully accused of horrific acts. Upon loooking up way to help them I see more and more that Children's Services which was once designed to help those in Dire need have now abused their power to help. I have seen that in some cases children are becoming even more problematic because parents become too afraid to even touch their child in fear of what Children's Services will do. I for one will not let this continue. I will currently do what I can to help and fight for those who have wrongfully had their children taken from them. I am tired of seeing good people being torn aparat, wonderful happy families seperated and slowly falling to shambles because of someone making a phone call and pointing a finger. I bet if someone called up Children's Services and told them a false acusation they would be knocking at the door and tearing a nother family apart. If anyone has a Class Action Lawsuit in Pa Let me know so I can help a few families out there.

Sincerely,

~L~