I FEEL YOUR PAIN. I KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE A VICTIM. THEY SAY TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS, BUT ACTUALLY ALL IT DOES IS MAKE A MEMORY OLD. THE PAIN CONTINUES WHEN THERE IS SOMETHING TO REMIND YOU OF IT THEN THE MEMORY BECOMES FRESH AGAIN IN YOUR MIND.

SOME PEOPLE STUFF THEIR MEMORIES NOT WANTING TO REMEMBER AND SOME PEOPLE CHOOSE TO RELIVE THEM IN ORDER TO CONQUER THEM.

I CHOOSE TO LIVE THEM OUT SO AS NOT TO EVER BE A VICTIM AGAIN.

I HOPE THAT LIFE GIVES YOU MANY ROSES MY DEAR FRIEND TO HELP HEAL YOUR WOUNDED HEART.

I can feel the pain, as I've been down similar pathways in life.

To be free of it (or most of it), I went through it.  Intese pain, but I faced my fears.  And now through friends and loved ones, I more on.  I can never forget, but at least most of the pain is gone.  My prayers and good thoughts are with you, and hopefully give you strength.

Our lives are just a staging post in this universe and we come into this dimension of our own choice and we choose the journey to learn how to overcome and improve ourselves.

So when its time to transmutate, the degree of it will be decided by how we met the criteria we set ourselves at our birth.
Our parents never chose us, we chose them and our life's journey.

Since I have put a positive slant on all my misfortune in life I have found a jewel of truth more precious than all the jewels of the earth.
Now my days are filled with Love and understanding of,Who I Am, Where I came From and Where I am going To.
There is no right or wrong, only our intent in how we use our freewill.

With love of self we are able to conquer all obstacles in our path with love for others.

but is is not something that comes to me easily... not when it breaks down the safty that a father is supposed to bring. I have a hard time understanding the concept of "we choose our parents" or the "journey" of life that my father set me on. No soul would "choose" a childhood of abuse. No, place the blame where it should be... with the abuser, and may Karma get them all.
(Although I would pick my mother time and time again!!!!!!)

for me i am not a victim, i am a survival. i will never forgetm, u can't it is like molded to ur brain. so i am not trying so so hard to live with it. if  that is even possible.  and forgiveness, well right how , how do u forgive? for me i have to start with myself, and that is not easy. i have been running from my nightmare for all my live i am tired. tired of feeling crazy and tired  of it all. but, i have faith , it took my father 16 years to mold me ,so i know it will take time. i need peace. maybe these groups and others can help. peace to us all

peace out!

I learned thru years of sadness & depression to let it go and move on.
One thing that helped me was to write a letter to the man who took so much from me and left me with hatred in my heart for him.
He never received the letter, as it was retuned "address unknown", but at least I let my feelings out and I do now feel free of him.
Forgiveness is just one process on the road to freedom.
Shirley H.

Its important in our journey through life that we are personally responsible for everything that happens to us as we choose our life before we come here and our choices are all about us learning lessons and growing in strength by the way we handle our lessons. The key is our 7 natural laws in our DNA when we live by these laws their is no choice but when we are out of harmony then we create our life experiences so we can learn to get back into harmony.
1, The first law is your freewill to choose what you think and do.
2. The law of cause and effect, ie what you think is what you create.
3. the law of resonance or attraction. what you do is what you get back in one of your lifetimes.
4.The law of service. doing without expectation of a return.
5. the law of forgiveness. Only the creator or a jury can judge other humans the rest of us must forgive as the person concerned may not have known any better.
6. The law of unconditional love. you need to love and respect yourself to live these laws.
7. the law of transmutation this occurs at your death and will be decided by what measure you lived the preceding 6 laws.
The creator said live by my laws and you shall become as one with me.

this poem and most of the others are written along time ago..........