Want to know God's will for your life?
Let me ask you to stop, look, and listen. God makes His desires known
to those who stop at His Word, look in with a sensitive spirit, and
listen to others. When we go to His Word, we stop long enough to hear
from above. When we look, we examine our surrounding circumstances in
light of what He is saying to our inner spirit (perhaps you prefer to
call this your conscience). And when we listen to others, we seek the
counsel of wise, qualified people.
1. Stop at the Scriptures
The Bible tells us that the entrance of God's Word
gives light (Psalm 119:130). That it is a lamp for our feet and a light
that shines brightly on our path (Psalm 119:105). God has placed His
Word in our hands and allowed it to be translated into our tongue (both
were His determined will) so we could have a much more
objective set of guidelines to follow than our dreams, hunches, and
feelings. Sixty-six books filled with precepts and principles. And the
better we know His Word, the more clearly we will know His will.
Precepts.
Some of the statements that appear in the Bible are specific,
black-and-white truths that take all the guesswork about God's will out
of the way. Here are a few:
For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality. (1 Thessalonians 4:3)
See that no one repays another with evil for evil, but always seek
after that which is good for one another and for all people. Rejoice
always; pray without ceasing; in everything give thanks; for this is
God's will for you in Christ Jesus. (1 Thessalonians 5:15-18)
These specific things are stated to be the will of God. There are even times that suffering is directly the will of God for us.
First Corinthians 7 says a lot about remaining single as well as
being committed to one's marriage. Clearly, this chapter (along with 2
Corinthians 6:14) states that a Christian is definitely not to marry a
non-Christian. These are finely tuned precepts that reveal God's will.
Principles. But the Bible also has principles, general
guidelines to assist us through the gray areas. Not so much "do this"
and "don't do that," but an appeal to use wisdom and discretion when
such are needed.
We have both precepts and principles in our traffic laws. The sign
that reads "Speed Limit 35" is a precept. The one that reads "Drive
Carefully" is a principle. And that principle will mean one thing on a
deserted street at two o'clock in the morning, but something else
entirely at three-thirty in the afternoon when children are walking
home from school.
Just remember this: A primary purpose of the Word of God
is to help us know the will of God. Become a careful, diligent student
of Scripture. Those who are will be better equipped to understand His
desires and walk in them.
2. Look Around and Within
Philippians 2:12-13 presents a good cause for our cooperating with the Lord's leading:
So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my
presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation
with fear and trembling; for it is God who is at work in you, both to
will and to work for His good pleasure.
These verses highlight three specifics: There's a willingness to
obey. There's the need to "work out" or give ourselves to doing our
part with a sensitive spirit (fear and trembling). And then there's the
promise that God will "work in you" to accomplish His plan. As we
remain alert to His working, paying close attention to doors He opens
and closes, He directs us into His will.
Closed doors are just as much God's leading as open ones. The believer who wants to do God's will must
remain sensitive and cooperative, not forcing his or her way into areas
that God closes off. The Lord uses circumstances and expects us to
"read" them with a sensitive, alert conscience.
We must stop and check His Word. We must look around and within. And there is one more helpful piece of advice to remember. We must . . .
3. Listen to the Counsel of Qualified People
Solomon the wise once wrote:
A plan in the heart of a man is like deep water, But a man of understanding draws it out. (Proverbs 20:5)
Iron sharpens iron, So one man sharpens another. . . .
As in water face reflects face, So the heart of man reflects man. (Proverbs 27:17, 19)
Well,
we are nine months into the year. Throughout the past months we've
reaffirmed the significance of pacing ourselves and not allowing the
tyranny of the urgent to blind us to the value of the important.
Well . . . how's it going? Pause long enough to review and reflect as you answer these questions.
Is my pace this year really that different from last year? Am I enjoying most of my activities or just enduring them? Have I deliberately taken time on several occasions this year for personal restoration? Do I give myself permission to relax, to have leisure? Would other people think I am working too many hours and/or living under too much stress? Do
I consider my body important enough to maintain a nourishing diet, to
give it regular exercise, to get enough sleep, to shed those excess
pounds? How is my sense of humor? Is God being glorified by the schedule I keep . . . or is He getting the leftovers of my energy?
Renewal and restoration are not luxuries; they are essentials. Being alone and resting for a while is not selfish; it is Christlike
(see Mark 6:30-32). Taking your day off each week and rewarding
yourself with a relaxing, refreshing vacation is not carnal; it's
spiritual. Nor is an ultra-busy schedule necessarily the mark of a
productive life.
If
you are courageous enough to make needed changes, you will show
yourself wise. But I should warn you of three barriers you will
immediately face.
First,
by saying no to the people to whom you used to say yes, you'll feel
twinges of guilt. Ignore them! Second, most folks won't understand your
slower pace, especially those who are in the sinking boat you just
stepped out of. Stick to your guns. Third, by not filling every spare
moment with activity, you will begin to see the real you, and you'll
not like some of the things you observe, things that once contaminated
your busy life. But within a relatively brief period of time, you will
turn the corner and be well on the road to a happier, healthier, freer,
and more fulfilling life.
My desire is that all of us remain "in." In balance. In our right minds. In good health. In the will of God.
Are you?
Don't allow the tyranny of the urgent to blind you to the value of the important.
The history of
great civilizations reminds me of a giant revolving door. It turns on
the axis of human depravity as its movement is marked by the perimeter
of time. With monotonous repetition each civilization has completed the
same cycle, having passed through a similar sequence of events. One man
summarized it like this:
From bondage to spiritual faith From spiritual faith to great courage From great courage to strength From strength to liberty From liberty to abundance From abundance to leisure From leisure to selfishness From selfishness to complacency From complacency to apathy From apathy to dependency From dependency to weakness From weakness back to bondage
Whether Roman or
Athenian empires . . . Egyptian or European cultures, the chronicle
tells its own tale. Regardless of geography, origin, achievements, or
level of prosperity, each one has sunk deeply into the vortex of ruin.
Consider Babylon.
It can hardly be found today. It is nothing more than a lonely whistle
stop along the Baghdad railroad. Its beauty and significance now lie
buried beneath tons of dirt, rocks, and debris in a forlorn and
forgotten land. How she has fallen!
Israel can also teach us the same lesson. Inquire at the gate called Judges.
That place reaffirms the truth of humanity's cyclical habit. Time after
time---for over three hundred years---the Jews went through the
succession of events mentioned above. Like pawns on a chessboard, they
lived under the bondage of superior powers until God gave them a
deliverer, who fired the furnace of spiritual fervor . . . which
inflamed their courage . . . which kindled military strength . . . then
liberty . . . then abundance . . . then leisure---and then right back
down the tube again into bondage. The age-old path of that same
revolving door has etched itself upon the tablet of Israel's antiquity.
It was about two
hundred years ago, while the thirteen colonies were still part of Great
Britain, that Professor Alexander Tyler [sometimes referred to as Alexander Fraser Tytler] addressed himself to the fall of the Athenian Republic. He declared:
A democracy
cannot exist as a permanent form of government. It can only exist until
the voters discover they can vote themselves excessive gratuities from
the public treasury. From that moment on the majority always votes for
the candidates promising the most benefits from the treasury, with the
result that a democracy collapses over loose fiscal policy, always
followed by a dictatorship.
It's a stunning
fact of history that the average age of the world's great civilizations
has been approximately two hundred years. According to that reckoning,
America may be living on borrowed time. The age-old revolving door is
turning and we are---as I see it---somewhere between apathy and
dependency on the historical cycle. It doesn't take a meteorologist to
predict rain if the sky is black and drops are starting to fall.
Neither does it take a prophet to predict future bondage if we are now
a majority of apathetic and dependent people!
Hope for our
great nation rests upon independent thinking and individual effort. The
revival of discipline, integrity, work, determination, and healthy
pride is not a national matter but a personal one. Inward
change and godliness are not legislated by Congress---they are spawned
in the heart and cultivated in the home before they are bred in the
land. Frankly---it boils down to one person, you.
A revolving door has to be pushed by those within it. When we stop pushing, it will stop turning . . . but not until.
A
number of years ago I read that, believe it or not, the average
American is exposed to about three hundred advertisements a day. Today
that number has very likely increased!
The
magazine in which I read that fact had more pages dedicated to
advertisements than articles of interest to the reader. Shiny, slick,
appealing print and pictures designed to hijack your concentration and
kidnap your attention. Before you realize it, the Madison AvenuePied Piper has led you into a world of exaggerated make-believe, convincing you that you simply cannot live without . . .
· a new digital camera stuffed with extra zoom and more memory
· an elegant diamond solitaire (a diamond is forever!)
· a fully-loaded SUV to pull your new outboard
· a set of Firestone's finest
· Carter's Little Pills "specially coated to pass right through your stomach releasing their action only in your lower tract"
Or
two dozen other double-page, full-color missiles that explode in your
mind with the messages, "Try me, you'll see" and "You deserve the very
best."
Such
bombardments do a number on us. Some of the results are obvious. They
stimulate our curiosity, they urge us to buy goods or services, they
make us aware of what is available, they announce new products,
and---of course---they shape our tastes, habits, and customs. That's
all well and good, since it's "the American way" and intricately interwoven into our economy. After all, it's a mega-billion-a-year business.
But
there is a subliminal message that detonates deep down inside our
heads---silently yet forcefully. Like shrapnel, thoughts are embedded
in the brain, conveying a damaging message if we're not careful.
And what is that message?
In a word, it is discontentment.
Dissatisfaction. It creates (if we let it) a restless drive for more .
. . or better . . . or bigger. Three hundred times or more a day it
chips away at the dam that supports one of the last reservoirs of inner
peace known to man---contentment. What a beautiful scene in the soul is Lake Contentment!
Any
of this sounding familiar? Is the dam of contentment in your life being
chipped away? We'll talk more about this important topic tomorrow.
I
strongly suggest that you stop right now, print it, cut it out, and
save it. It is your own special "tuit." Because they are rare, you
should lock yours up in a safe place. "Tuits" are not easy to
obtain---especially the round ones. Wow . . . are they hard to find!
You hear that people are looking for them all the time, but you seldom
meet anyone who finds his. So---better hang on to this one. You'll need
it!
Okay,
now that we all have our very own (round) tuit, many of our problems
should be over. No longer will there be the necessity of such remarks
as:
"I should take care of that---and I will as soon as I get a (round) tuit." ---or--- "Just as soon as I get a (round) tuit, I'm going to finish that job."
No
problem. Now you've got it! Fantastic, incredible, magnificent
accomplishments can suddenly be achieved. Why, you might get that
closet or garage cleaned out before the new year . . . you could fix
the leaky faucet
or hinge on the cabinet door . . . or you might even get your bills
paid and start the year in the black (watch out for a self-induced
coronary brought on by shock, by the way).
The
possibilities are endless. You might be able to lose that extra weight
or stop that needless habit. Once you've done that, you could free
yourself from such mental anchors so that proper priorities in your
life might start to emerge. Big chunks could actually start falling
into place. Your own (round) tuit will help plug the undisciplined and
careless leaks in your time dike. Because it is round, it will roll
over and crush your fixation on procrastination. At last!
Sound pretty good? Think we can find some (round) tuits in the Bible? We talk about that in Part Two.
life.
Of that I am sure. When she left over nine years earlier, something of
him died as well. And so---to her he has been joined and they are,
together, with our Lord. In the closest possible companionship one can
imagine.
In this my sister, my brother, and I find our greatest comfort---they are now forever with the Lord---eternally
freed from pain and aging and death. Secure in Jesus Christ our Lord.
Absent from the body and at home with Him. And with each other.
That
night I said goodbye. You'd think it would have been easy, since his
illness had persisted for more than three years. How well I remember
the Sunday he suffered that first in a series of strokes as I was
preaching. God granted him several more years to teach many of us to
appreciate the things we tend to take for granted.
He
leaves in his legacy a well-marked Bible I treasure, a series of
feelings that I need to deepen my roots, and a thousand memories that
comfort me as I replace denial with acceptance and praise.
I
await heaven's gate opening in the not-too-distant future. So do other
Christians, who anxiously await Christ's return. Most of them
anticipate hearing the soft strum of a harp or the sharp, staccato
blast of a trumpet.
Not me. I will hear the nostalgic whine of a harmonica . . . held in the hands of the man who died that night . . . or did he? The memories are as fresh as this morning's sunrise.
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He
left like he had lived. Quietly. Graciously. With dignity. Without
demands or harsh words or even a frown, he surrendered himself---a
tired, frail, humble gentleman---into the waiting arms of his Savior.
Death, selfish and cursed enemy of man, won another battle.
As I stroked the hair from his forehead and kissed him goodbye, a hundred boyhood memories played around in my head.
When I learned to ride a bike, he was there.
When I wrestled with the multiplication table, his quick wit erased the hassle.
When I discovered the adventure of driving a car, he was near, encouraging me.
When I got my first job (delivering newspapers), he informed me how to increase my subscriptions and win the prize. It worked!
When
I mentioned a young woman I had fallen in love with, he pulled me aside
and talked straight about being responsible for her welfare and
happiness.
When I did a hitch in the Marine Corps, the discipline I had learned from him made the transition easier.
From
him I learned to seine for shrimp. How to gig flounder and catch trout
and red fish. How to open oyster shells and fix crab gumbo . . . and
chili . . . and popcorn . . . and make rafts out of old inner tubes and
gunny sacks. I was continually amazed at his ability to do things like
tie fragile mantles on the old Coleman lantern, keep a fire going in
the rain, play the harmonica with his hands behind his back, and keep
three strong-willed kids from tearing the house down.
That
night I realized I had him to thank for my deep love for America. And
for knowing how to tenderly care for my wife. And for laughing at
impossibilities. And for some of the habits I have picked up, like
approaching people with a positive spirit rather than a negative one,
staying with a task until it is finished, taking good care of my
personal belongings, keeping my shoes shined, speaking up rather than
mumbling, respecting authority, and standing alone (if necessary) in
support of my personal convictions rather than giving in to more
popular opinions. For these things I am deeply indebted to the man who
raised me.
Certain
smells and sounds now instantly remind me of my dad. Oyster stew. The
ocean breeze. Smoke from an expensive cigar. The nostalgic whine of a
harmonica. A camping lantern and white gas. Car polish. Fun songs from
the 30s and 40s. Freshly mowed grass. A shrill whistle from a father to
his kids around supper time. And Old Spice aftershave.
Because
a father impacts his family so permanently, I think I understand better
than ever what the Scripture means when Paul wrote:
Having
so fond an affection for you, we were well-pleased to impart to you not
only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become
very dear to us. . . just as you know how we were exhorting and
encouraging and imploring each one of you as a father would his own
children, so that you would walk in a manner worthy of the God who
calls you into His own kingdom and glory. (1 Thessalonians 2:8, 11-12)
Admittedly,
much of my dad's instruction was indirect---by model rather than by
explicit statement. I do not recall his overt declarations of love as
clearly as I do his demonstrations of it. His life revolved around my
mother, the darling and delight of his
Pressure,
its everywhere. It sneaks into every part of our lives. We have pressure in
marriage, pressure to keep up and have more, and pressure to give our kids the
latest gadgets. We even experience pressure for our time. No doubt about it,
life today is stressful! And with stress comes fear. We fear losing it. We fear
we wont be enough for our families. We fear failure. So, we work longer and do
more, all in the name of fear. Even though adding more is not the way to handle
pressure, we do it anyway. Before we know it our lives can resemble a three ring
circus as we try to juggle it all on top of a high wire. One of our greatest
fears is having someone discover the truth: We cant really juggle it
all.
Think about your own life for a moment. What stressful circumstances
are you facing that seem hopeless? Do you often feel like everything depends on
you? Perhaps, you fear that you wont measure up or you fear what others think
of you. Maybe you fear missing out on opportunities so you stretch yourself thin
dipping your controlling fingers into every pot. Could it be that discontentment
with life is adding undue stress and pressure?
When the pressure is on in
my life, its a sign that my priorities are out of balance. When this is true, I
need to make some adjustments.
As a Christian, my life doesnt belong to
me. I shouldnt be the one ordering my days. When I do, my life becomes
unstable. When this happens, Ive learned to do a quick review of my life by
using this acrostic on priorities in order to re-prioritize my
life:
P - Pray. Ask God for wisdom. Ask Him to
show you His priorities for this season of your life.
R - Review God's priorities for your life. Study God's Word
to determine His priorities for you as a woman.
I - Take Inventory Examine the activities that consume your
time. Keep a time log for a week. Then ask hard questions. What are my true
priorities? Are they the right ones?
O - Order
your schedule. Ask, What is important? Make the hard choices based on God's
priorities for your life.
R - Resist the
"tyranny of the urgent." Don't let the urgent keep you from focusing on the
truly important.
I - Input from others. Seek
input, counsel, and accountability from authorities, your husband, godly
friends, and mentors.
T - Take advantage of
the time God gives you. Don't waste time. Do all to the glory of
God.
I - Identify time robbers. What saps your
energy and robs your time? Activities, attitudes, distractions,
interruptions?
E - Experience this season
fully. Be all there in this season of life. Weep, rejoice, work hard, and
celebrate with all your heart. Don't waste time living in the past or
future.
S - Sabbaths. Take regular time outs
to refresh, regain perspective, reflect and evaluate, and reprioritize. Make
adjustments accordingly.
I hope taking this assessment helps ease some
stress in your life and helps you make time for whats truly
important.
Micca
Campbell
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I
like Joshua's style in Joshua 24:14-15. Like a good leader, he laid out
the facts. He exhorted those about him to get off the fence and get
their spiritual act together. He encouraged personal authenticity and
strong commitment . . . but not once did he pull rank and fall back on
intimidation to get his way. He risked being ignored and rejected when
he left the final decision
up to them. He respected their right to follow his advice or walk away
when he told them, in so many words, "Make up your mind!" But there was
never any question where he stood. He had weighed the evidence,
considered the alternatives, and come to a settled conviction---he and
his family were going to serve the Lord God, no question about it. But
what others would do was strictly up to them. They would have to decide
for themselves.
Unusual combination. A strong leader who knew
where he was going, but gave others the space they needed to choose for
themselves. No threats. No name-calling. No public put-downs. No
exploitation or manipulation or humiliation. He didn't play on their
emotions or attack their alleged ignorance or use some gimmick to gain
strokes in defense of his position. He knew what God would have him do,
and he realized the consequences of their choosing differently . . .
but they needed to weigh those issues for themselves. It needed to be
their decision, not his. At that point, he backed off and said, "Now
you decide."
That's not only smart, it's an evidence of two
admirable virtues: security in himself and respect for others. Today,
it is clear to all of us that Joshua made the right decision
back then. From our objective perspective, he chose the correct
alternative . . . as they also did later on. But note again that he
didn't hurry his people to opt for his position. Joshua knew that if
they didn't wrestle with the issues on their own, the resulting
decision might be superficial . . . fragile . . . a commitment that
might very well melt under the inevitable heat of difficulty and trial.
Nevertheless,
there will always be some who want others to make their decisions for
them. Many individuals in Christendom are continually looking for some
evangelical guru or superstar pastor or bionic authority figure to
cosign for their lives.
It takes the restraining power of the Holy Spirit
to withstand such tempting invitations to take control. It is helpful
to remember that every time we yield to that destructive desire for
power we retard others' growth toward maturity. Making one's own
decisions develops healthy mental muscles. But I repeat, there will
always be a few who crave to be told what to do. They are the ones who
remain so indecisive their favorite color is plaid.
Eagle thinkers ask the hard questions, take strategic risks, search hard for the whole truth, and soar high above mediocrity. Parrot people enjoy the predictable, routine, rehearsed words of others.
As we discussed yesterday, the church is overrun with parrots and virtually devoid of eagles. Too harsh? You decide. Who are the eagles today who offer fresh-from-the-mountain insights about world missions, biblical doctrines, evangelism, Christian education, apologetics, and the disciplines of the faith? Who are those who forge out creative ways of communicating the truths of Scripture so that it's more than a hodge-podge of borrowed thoughts and rehearsals of the obvious which tend to paralyze the critical faculties of active minds?
Eagles are independent thinkers.
It's not that they abandon the orthodox faith or question the authority of God's inerrant Word . . . it's simply that they are weary of being told, "Stay on the perch and repeat after me." Eagles have built-in perspective, a sensitivity that leaves room for fresh input that hasn't been glazed by overuse.
The church today is in desperate need of eagles---people who come to their tasks with the abandonment of that keen-minded Jew from Tarsus. If you need an illustration, read Romans. Like a careful midwife, Paul assists in the birth of doctrine, allowing it to breathe and scream, stretch and grow, as God the Creator designed it to do. And he isn't afraid to say it for the first time, using a whole new vocabulary and style that is as original as it is accurate. There's not as much as a parrot feather on one page of that one-of-a-kind letter.
So then, which will it be? If you like being a parrot, stay put. But if you're an eagle at heart, what are you doing on that perch? Do you have any idea how greatly you're needed to soar and explore? Do you realize how out of place you are inside that cage? Even though others may not tell you, eagles look pretty silly stuck on a perch picking over a tasteless pile of dried seeds.
I've never heard anybody ask, "Eagle want a cracker?"
The Bible is filled with references to water. From the creation account where we read that "the Spirit of God was moving over the surface of the waters" (Genesis 1:2), all the way to the last chapter of Revelation where we're told of "a river of the water of life, clear as crystal" that is flowing from God's throne (Revelation 22:1), we find literally hundreds of occasions where water is mentioned in the Scriptures. Because water plays such a major role through so many scenes found in the Bible, it should not be surprising to us that water is vital to our health and well-being. It not only cleanses our bodies from impurities, it refreshes and satisfies us when we are thirsty.
But we must not overlook a spiritual dimension. We read in the ancient book of Psalms,
As the deer pants for the water brooks, So my soul pants for You, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. (Psalm 42:1-2)
Do those words express your feelings? Do you find yourself thirsty for a deeper relationship with the living God? Has your world become parched and barren, leaving you like that deer, panting for the kind of water that can satisfy your soul?
Jesus once made a statement that is worth serious consideration: "If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, 'From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water'" (John 7:37-38). Be sure that you don't overlook the importance of "living water" in your inner life as you become aware of the value of water in your physical body. Those who hope to be fit to serve God need to keep both in balance.
Before you move on with your day, pause and ponder this: am I giving sufficient time and attention to the cultivation of my inner life? If not, what changes are needed to bring my inner life and my outer life into balance?
We've all heard the expression "mind over matter." For the sake of our thinking today, let's alter the saying to "mind over emotion." To tie it in even more directly to a story from the Bible where these words would really apply, we should change it to "mind over madder."
Adam and Eve's firstborn was a son they named Cain. Their second, you'll recall, was named Abel. Cain grew up to be a farmer. When Abel became a man, he was a shepherd. It came time for an offering to be made to the Lord, so Cain brought some of the fruit he had grown while Abel brought of the firstlings from his flock. We read in Genesis 4:4 that the Lord accepted Abel's offering but rejected Cain's. Rather than accept the Lord's decision, we read, "Cain became very angry and his countenance fell" (Genesis 4:5). Interestingly, in the Hebrew sentence the term translated "countenance" is literally the word for "face." Cain's face fell. Unable to hide it, his anger was reflected in his face.
Let's not go deeply into why the Lord rejected Cain's offering, except to say that it was the wrong kind of offering to bring. He brought one that pleased him but not the Lord. What really interests us here is Cain's emotional reaction to what happened. Plain and simple, he got mad.
The Lord didn't simply look the other way; He chose rather to confront it head-on: "Why are you angry? And why has your countenance [face] fallen?" (Genesis 4:6). He then adds a comment that I find extremely important. "If you do well, will not your countenance [face] be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it" (4:7).
The Lord knew that if Cain allowed his anger to simmer and seethe, it would dominate his life and lead to violence---like a bloodthirsty animal crouching nearby, ready to pounce. How could Cain call a halt to that happening? Go back and read God's advice: "If you do well, will not your [face] be lifted up?" (4:7, emphasis added). By doing what's right, Cain would gain the mastery over his anger and experience relief. He would feel so much better . . . even his face would show it! Best of all, he would not take revenge through out-of-control rage by allowing his anger to fester.
Here's the principle: our mind must take charge of our emotion, which will prompt our will to obey. That's the only way to live! But if we allow our emotion (in this case, anger) to continue, something much worse can happen; in fact, it will happen. And what is that? As God warned Cain, our beast-like nature will ultimately leap into action.
Mediocrity is fast becoming the byword of our times. Every imaginable excuse is now used to make it acceptable, hopefully preferred. Budget cuts, time deadlines, majority opinion, and hard-nosed practicality are outshouting and outrunning excellence. Those forces seem to be winning the race. Incompetence and status quo averages are held up as all we can now expect, and the tragedy is that more and more people have virtually agreed. Why worry over the small stuff? Why bother with the genuine now that the artificial looks so real? If the public buys it, why sweat it?
To make it painfully plain, why think clearly since most folks want someone else to think for them? Why live differently in a society where it's so much easier to look the same and swim downstream? Why fight fiercely when so few seem to care? Why stand courageously if it means risking ridicule, misunderstanding, or being considered a dreamer by some and a fool by others?
Why, indeed? To quote young David just before he took on that Philistine behemoth in the Valley of Elah, "Is there not a cause?" Must we wait for someone else to establish our standard or to set our pace? Not on your life! It is my firm conviction that those who impact and reshape the world are the ones committed to living above the level of mediocrity. There are still too many opportunities for excellence, too much demand for distinctiveness, to be satisfied with just getting by.
Excellence is a difficult concept to communicate because it can easily be misread as neurotic perfectionism or snooty sophistication. But it is neither. On the contrary, it is the stuff of which greatness is made. It is the difference between just getting by and soaring---that which sets apart the significant from the superficial, the lasting from the temporary.
A commitment to excellence is neither popular nor easy. But it is essential. Excellence in integrity and morality as well as ethics and scholarship. Excellence in physical fitness and spiritual fervor just as much as excellence in relationships and craftsmanship.
Since it is the living Lord in the final analysis who appraises our excellence, it is He whom we must please and serve, honor and adore.
The world in which one person lives is too limited and restricted. When rubbing shoulders with another, we gain a panoramic view, which allows us to see the whole picture. "As in water face reflects face, so the heart of man reflects man" (Prov. 27:19). That's so picturesque! People provide a clear reflection of what is in the heart. A mirror goes only skin deep. The counsel of a friend reflects what is down inside.
I'm talking about people who love you too much to let you play in dangerous traffic. They also love you too much to let you start believing in your own stuff. When they spot conceit rearing its head, they say so. But they also love you too much to let you be too hard on yourself. Like Jonathan with David, they are messengers of great encouragement.
"He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm" (Prov. 13:20). That statement is not a verse written to teenagers in high school, though it certainly would apply. I clearly remember my high school years, don't you? Many of us ran around with others who were tougher than we, so we could cover up our own feelings of inadequacy. My mother kept saying to me, "Charles, every time you run with the wrong crowd, you do wrong. When you are with the right crowd, you do right." Her counsel is still true. If I were to run with the wrong crowd, I would be tempted to do wrong.
And it doesn't stop when we turn twenty. It goes on into adult years as well. If you choose a wrong set of co-workers, you'll practice wrong things in your business. If you choose a wrong set of friends, you'll practice wrong things in your social life. Run with those who do drugs, and you'll wind up doing the same.
But---the flip side---those who walk with the wise learn from them. You need someone who will say, "I'm not sure how healthy that is. I'm glad you asked me. Let's talk about it." And that person will help point out the traps you could fall into if you keep tracking in that direction.
Other eyes, more perceptive and objective than ours, can see traps that we may fail to detect.
And on going into the house, they saw the Child with Mary His mother, and they fell down and worshiped Him. Then opening their treasure bags, they presented to Him gifts--gold and frankincense and myrrh (Matthew 2:11 AMP).
Today's Word from Joel and Victoria
Can you imagine what it must have been like for the Wise Men when they saw Jesus? Here He was just a child in a stable surrounded by animals, but these Wise Men recognized that He was the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords; the Savior of the world. Immediately, they fell on their faces to worship Him; but notice what they did nextthey presented Him gifts as part of their worship. And they didnt just give any old thing they had; they gave Him their absolute bestcostly gold, frankincense and myrrh.
When we give Jesus our absolute best; our time, our talent, our resources, it is an act of worship. We are saying with our actions, God, You mean more to me than anything. Because You are so awesome, I want to give You everything that I am. It pleases Him when we come to Him with an open and humble heart. When we draw near to Him, He draws near to us. When you give Him your best, He gives you His best in return.
A Prayer for Today
Father in heaven, I humbly come to You, giving You all that I am. I honor You as King of Kings and Lord of Lords. I bless You today for You alone are worthy of my absolute best. I love You. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Picture for a moment the barrenness and bleakness that happens in a life when compromise occurs. It doesn't come immediately. At first it's fun to run with the wrong crowd. There's some zip, a little excitement; there's a measure of thrill and pizzazz in being a part of the in-group. But inevitably the fleshly investment starts to yield its carnal dividends. And when that happens you suffer as you've never suffered before.
Perhaps the words "very low" paint a picture of bleakness that describes you at this very moment. You have ignored God's warnings and pushed your strong convictions aside as you associated with the wrong crowd. But now you are at the end of your rope. You're discouraged. You have failed miserably. You're thinking, What a terrible way to live!
All of us have spent time in that miserable camp called Reaping What Was Sown. En route, there's enough pleasure to make it seem like fun, but when it's all said and done, it's downright awful. There is no discouragement like the discouragement that comes from self-generated wrongdoing. Enduring the consequences of one's own irresponsibility creates feelings of grief and discouragement that defy description.
That's enough about the problem. What we really need are specific suggestions that get us back on track. First, you need to openly acknowledge what caused your condition. Openly admit that you have failed to stand alone as a true child of God. You see, you weren't built to live that way. You have allowed someone else to call your cadence. You're marching out of step with your Instructor. And the Lord speaks directly: "You have not obeyed Me."
Second, focus directly on the Lord, not on the odds against you. Everything depends on where your focus is. You must discipline yourself to focus directly on the Lord, not on those odds!
Get this straight and never forget it: You will not stand alone when outnumbered or stand tall when tested or stand firm when discouraged if your focus remains on the odds. Your eyes must be trained on the Lord.
by Charles R. Swindoll who />has already determined what it will take to encounter and triumph over life's enemies. And what will it take? A few strong, quality-minded champions whose commitment is solid as stone. And the cost will be great.
I think we need to sign a mental declaration of independence. Let's put our names on the line, pledging ourselves with firm resolve, much like those brave men did on July 4, 1776, in Philadelphia when they signed the Declaration of Independence.
Did you know that of the fifty-six courageous men who signed that original document in Philadelphia, many did not survive the war that followed? Five were captured by the British and tortured before they died. Nine others died in the Revolutionary War, either from its hardships or its bullets. Twelve had their homes sacked, looted, burned, or occupied by the enemy. Two lost their sons in battle. One had two sons captured. Yes, the price of freedom was high indeed for those men. But deciding to be free, to think and live independently, to soar above the masses is always a costly decision.
In today's vernacular, committed individuals live with shallow tent pegs. They may own things, but nothing owns them. They have come to terms with merchandise that has a price tag and opted for commitment to values that are priceless.
Denying oneself is not to be equated with losing one's uniqueness or becoming of no value. There have been great people in each generation who modeled self-denial as they made significant contributions to humankind.
Chief among those models in history is Jesus Christ Himself. He is our champion of self-denial, the One to whom we look for guidance and strength in such a great task. And He is the King
If I choose not to risk, if I go the "safe" route and determine not to promote either salvation by grace or a lifestyle of grace, what are the alternatives? Four points come to my mind, all of which are popular these days. I'll share two points with you today and two points tomorrow.
I can emphasize works over grace. I can tell you that as a sinner you need to have a stronger commitment to Christ, demonstrated by the work you do in His behalf, before you can say that you truly believe. My problem in doing so is this: A sinner cannot commit to anything. He or she is spiritually dead, remember? There is no capacity for commitment in an unregenerate heart. Becoming an obedient, submissive disciple of Christ follows believing in Christ. Works follow faith. Behavior follows belief. Fruit comes after the tree is well rooted. Martin Luther's words come to mind:
No one can be good and do good unless God's grace first makes him good; and no one becomes good by works, but good works are done only by him who is good. Just so the fruits do not make the tree, but the tree bears the fruit. . . . Therefore all works, no matter how good they are and how pretty they look, are in vain if they do not flow from grace.
I can opt for giving you a list of dos and don'ts. The list comes from my personal and/or traditional preferences. It becomes my responsibility to tell you what to do or not to do and why. I then set up the conditions by which you begin to earn God's acceptance through me. You do what I tell you to do . . . you don't do what I tell you not to do, and you're "in." You fail to keep the list, you're "out." This legalistic style of strong-arm teaching is one of the most prevalent methods employed in evangelical circles. Grace is strangled in such a context. To make matters worse, those in authority are so intimidating, their authority is unquestioned. Rare are those with sufficient strength to confront the list-makers.
The disciples feared Saul. They couldn't bring themselves to believe he was a disciple. "But Barnabas . . . "
Isn't that a great opening? Out of nowhere comes Barnabas to encourage
Saul and be his personal advocate. How did Barnabas know Saul needed
his help? We don't know. Yet we do know that God is sovereign and has
his Barnabases in every town, every church, on every college and
seminary campus, and even on the mission field. Each Barnabas stands
ready at a moment's notice to come to the aid of someone in need of
encouragement.
So
rather than operating out of fear and prejudice, Barnabas stepped up
and "took hold of him." Saul was willing to accept his assistance.
That's a healthy dependence. Barnabas took Saul under his wing and
said, "Come with me, I'll set this thing straight with these men. They
trust me." So off they went, and the sacred narrative says that
Barnabas "brought him to the apostles and described to them how he had
seen the Lord on the road, and that He had talked to him, and how at Damascus he had spoken out boldly in the name of Jesus" (v. 27). That's what I call divine intervention through a lesser-known saint! Barnabas
basically said, "I've checked this guy out---he's the genuine item. He
saw the risen Christ, just like all of you. The man is on our team.
Make room . . . relax!"
The next statement describes the result of Barnabas's action on behalf of Saul: "And he was with them, moving about freely in Jerusalem,
speaking out boldly in the name of the Lord." For the first time in his
ministry, Saul spoke freely about Christ in Jerusalem, in the company
of respected disciples---set free to be himself for the glory of God. What made the difference? Barnabas!
You
may be a Barnabas today. Do you know someone who has been kicked in the
teeth because he has a bad track record? Someone who can't get a
hearing, yet she's turned her life around and nobody wants to believe
it? I urge you to step up like Barnabas did for Saul. Look for those
individuals who need a second chance---a large dose of grace to help
them start over in the Christian life. Everybody needs a Barnabas at
one time or another.
We
hear a lot about detoxing our physical bodies today from all the
chemicals, bacteria and pesticides in our foods. It does our body good
to go through deep cleanses and rid our bodies of toxins. In the same
way, there are all kinds of toxins that can build up in our mind. When
we go around dwelling on the wrong thoughts, thinking about what we
cant do, how somebody hurt us, what someone said we couldnt do, and
how well never get ahead; those thoughts are toxic thoughts. And toxic
thoughts left alone become like toxic waste. It will eventually
contaminate our whole life. It affects our self-image. It affects our
attitude and our level of confidence. It becomes a part of who we are.
Thats why it says in Proverbs 4:23, Above all else guard your heart
for it affects everything you do. The writer is saying to make
guarding your mind a priority. Put this at the top of your To Do list
because if your mind gets polluted, your whole life is going to be
polluted. Every morning when we get up, we should go through this
cleansing and detoxing. Forgive the people that have hurt us. Let go of
every disappointment. Detox low self-esteem. Detox the negative words.
Detox little dreams. If you will guard your mind and not let these
toxic thoughts take root, but keep it full of faith-filled thoughts,
youre going to rise higher and higher into new levels with God!
When
the day of reckoning arrives, God is always fair. He blesses those who
have walked with Him. He forgives those who bring their offerings and
humble themselves before Him. God restores. God rewards. God heals. God
honors Job, who prayed for his friends with an open heart.
God noticed it all. I suggest you underscore Hebrews 6:10 in your
Bible: "For God is not unjust so as to forget your work and the love
which you have shown toward His name, in having ministered and in still
ministering to the saints." Eugene Peterson, in The Message, renders those first words "God doesn't miss anything."
Some
who read my words have been terribly abused. You have been victims of
the worst kind of mistreatment. You have been taken advantage of by
someone you trusted. You have been abandoned by your mate, treated
unfairly, ripped off. You've lost a fortune through a fraudulent
scheme. Every one of us could give hell stories of abuse and neglect,
misrepresentation and unfair treatment that have never been made right.
So, please return to this great truth: God does not forget. He just
doesn't adjust His plan to our timetable. His Accounts Settlement desk
doesn't operate on a nine-to-five schedule. He doesn't handle our cases
when we want them handled. I wanted God to zap Eliphaz the very moment
he said that first insulting word to Job. He's waited through all the
sarcastic speeches, stayed silent through all the insults. Finally, He
says, "Eliphaz, Bildad, Zophar, you have been wrong."
God
heard! Yes, He heard! He didn't say anything at the time, but He heard
it all. He is not unjust to forget one idle word. And I can assure you,
He didn't overlook one wrong act committed against you. He has a
perfect plan. His plan is unfolding. When His timetable says, "Now,"
justice will roll down, and His Accounts Settlement desk will take
swift action.
God's
arrangement of things is not a frustrated plan. God is not sitting on
the edge of heaven, biting His nails, wondering what He's going to do
about our world. He knows exactly what He's going to do and when He's
going to do it. Job sees that clearly . . . now. He realizes, finally,
that God doesn't miss anything.
Thinking
God's thoughts is our highest goal. That's one of the reasons I'm such
a proponent of the discipline of Scripture memorization. You cannot
think God's thoughts more acutely than when you quote God's very words
back to life's situations.
What comes into our minds when we think about God is the most important thing about us. So what comes to mind when you think
about God? I remember as a little boy thinking of God as a very old man
with a long white beard, cheeks puffed out, blowing strong winds from
the north. I had seen His face portrayed this way at school on an old
map of the world.
What
comes to your mind when you think about God? Do you see Him as the One
who gives you breath and keeps your heart beating? Do you see Him as
the One who will call everyone into judgment someday? Do you see Him as
the One who watches over your children and your business? Do you
acknowledge His power as greater than any power you could ever witness
on this earth? Or, honestly now, is He a little remote, sort of out of
touch with today's hi-tech society to you? Your view of God makes all
the difference in how you view life.
Think
of Job's situation---he is now bankrupt, childless, friendless, and
diseased. Covered with boils, he is living with a high fever and
constant pain. On top of that he is misunderstood, being blamed for secret sins,
and is now rejected by those who once respected him. How in the world
does he go on? There's only one answer: his view of God keeps him
going, not what others are saying. And in light of that, he recommits
himself to things that matter. In a swirl of humanistic thinking,
coming from Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar, whom Job has mentally turned
off, he is now focused fully on the things of God.
What thoughts are distracting you from mentally dwelling on the glory of God? You can overcome them by spending more time in God's Word on the things that really matter.
January 24, 2008 -- Dealing With Our Guilty Feelings -- Psalm 40:1-31
Guilt comes from a feeling of responsibility for some wrongdoing. Certain convictions come from the Holy Spirit's efforts to turn us away from sin and guide us to our heavenly Father. But not all guilt stems from ungodly actions.
False guilt, which is not prompted by sin, can surface for a variety of reasons, such as disappointment in one's own performance, a sense of shame over past events, or criticism by others for unmet expectations. Rejection or a pattern of abuse from childhood can also trigger this emotion. False guilt is a powerful weapon the Enemy uses to direct our thoughts away from God.
Whether false or real, the emotion of guilt divides our mind, drains our energy, and creates a sense of insecurity. If it is allowed to linger, we can start to have doubts about God's goodness and love for us. Depression and hopelessness may follow. To cope, some people develop compulsive behaviors in an attempt to replace self-reproach with something pleasurable. Excessive amounts of shopping, eating, television, Internet, and physical activity are common ways people try to push away self-condemning thoughts.
Dealing quickly with guilt is important. Acknowledge the emotion to the Lord, and identify the reason behind it. If you've violated God's law, ask His forgiveness, and take steps to change the behavior. If you discover false guilt, confess it and ask God to adjust your thinking to match His. In either case, praise Him because He has promised to forgive His children's sins and remove guilt.
A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
by Charles R. Swindoll
Read Genesis 40:4-19
I smile as I read this, because if anybody ought to have had a sad face, it should have been Joseph. His plight was much worse than theirs. They were there on a whim of the Pharaoh and surely would not be there forever. But Joseph had been accused by the chief executioner's wife and didn't know if he'd ever see the light of day. But in spite of his own circumstance, he noticed the plight of these two men.
When your heart is right, even though the bottom may have dropped out of your life, it is remarkable how sensitive you can be to somebody else in need. They don't even have to spell it out. Rather than saying, "You think you've got a lot to complain about, listen to my tale of woe!" Joseph said, "How come you're so sad today, guys? What's wrong?" I admit it may be stating the obvious to ask this in a dungeon, but it shows Joseph's ability to think beyond his own immediate cares and needs in order to minister mercy to others.
One of the beautiful things about the right attitude is that, with it, every day has sunshine. You don't have to have cloudless days for there to be sunshine days.
Actually, it's rather amazing that Joseph would want to have anything to do with dreams. The last time he did that, remember what happened? He told his brothers about his dreams and it was "Operation Pit City." He wound up in an Egyptian slave market. You'd think he would say, "Not me, man! I'm off of dreams forever." But not Joseph. He said, "Oh, really? A dream, huh? Tell me about it."
That's what a positive attitude will do. It gets you beyond common hurdles. It will clear the deck. It will free you from hang-ups. It will show you an opportunity for ministry you never would have touched with a ten-foot pole.
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