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Does age really matter when it comes to love? March 07, 2005 2:29 PM

do you really think age matters when it comes to true love...to me age is only a number...but do any of you disagree with me?  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
age and love? March 07, 2005 3:16 PM

I dont think it does cuz there is 14 yrs beteewn me and my husb and. He is 60yrsold, Im 45. linda c.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
NO March 12, 2005 8:25 PM

My opionion is absolutly not! My boyfriend is 29, I'm 20! We've been together for over 3 years and love each other to death. As long as the two people invovled are okay with it, it should be okay! Cassie  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Age Matters Not March 23, 2005 8:27 PM

I disagree with age being a factor in love. I'm only 17 and I'm told a lot that I "don't know what love is." But I have been with my boyfriend for the last 2 and a half years, and I love him more than anything. Our love is frowned upon, but I fight day in and day out to make sure we get to see each other and that nothing goes wrong. I absolutely love him and would do anything for him, and I go through Hell a lot just to stay with him. So when people tell me I'm too young to understand what love is, I tell them they can eat %#&!*% and die. :) What matters is your maturity level. Living by a number is severely overrated.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Age does sometimes matter March 24, 2005 8:53 PM

I think Age can matter. You don't really choose you fall in love with, but I don't think a relationship between a seventy year old and a twenty year old would really work. I doubt you'd have much in common or be able to do many of the same activities. Who knows... I'm not seventy or twenty. All I know is usually attraction is the first thing and then love follows. :)  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
No March 25, 2005 2:23 PM

I do not think age matters, at least I hope it wouldn't. The most beautiful thing in life shouldn't have rules or any kind of club. Love is a wonderful thing and what makes it up is shared thoughts and caring for one another and I don't believe that something that great only ewxists for people within a 2-year range. I think anyone can flal in love with anyone else, and to put a label on what love should be is unfair and no one has that power. Some may disagree but you don't have to lve who I do, and if I fall in love with someone 10 years older or however many years, that's who I am supposed ot be in love with. Cassie.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
"Age April 07, 2005 11:52 AM

I have had this experience in a previous dateing relationship. The guy was 32 years old. I am 30. I feel that this might have been 2 young for me. I broke up with him a bout 3 months ago. The reason was because he had no job and a terrible gambling problem plus I am now in a financial mess. I work partime in retail. I need some advice on how to recover my money. My family is yelling at me for it. I then thought I was pregnant but that turned out luckily to be know.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
No it doesn't. April 08, 2005 12:45 PM

In my VERY strong opinion, love doesnt have a number to it. You cant tell a person who is 22 they cant marry someone who is 55. I also believe you can fall in love at any age. Im 16, yet i have felt both the pain and the joys of love. Sometimes it doesnt work out the way you want it to. I am currently not in love but i look forward to it everyday. I look forward to my prince charming who may sometimes be....well.....not so charming. And it doesnt matter his age. Love flys on wings and only the angels who carry them really know anything. Katie Rose Flannigan  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
no May 01, 2005 10:44 AM

no age does not really matter  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Heck no May 01, 2005 7:20 PM

am 44 and have fall in llove w a 23 yrs old. She loves me. what is age. age has nothing to do w your heart, your feelings your desires  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Age dosent make a differents May 03, 2005 12:41 PM

Hello I am new to your group and my husband and I been married a year and 3 months now and we have had are ups and downs.my husbands 22 and43.so there is a wide spread and there was a few people was against it like his mom and my kids which are 18 17 16. But they told me that we thing of him not as a stepfather but as a brother instaed.And his mom seems to be excepting it I think.But anyways Like I said we have had ups and downs which at times i wonder if he was ready for marriage he is in the aemy but getting out soon cause his knee.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
 May 06, 2005 4:34 PM

No I wouldn't think that Age should make a difference in the way you love someone or not or whether or not other people accept you as a couple. Me and my fiance are both 20 (with a couple months diff) and we're getting married pretty soon here in July. We both love each other very much and we cannot wait to spend our lives together. Other people however can't accept that we are so young. That is probably one of me biggest PET PEEVES ever.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
 May 06, 2005 4:34 PM

No I wouldn't think that Age should make a difference in the way you love someone or not or whether or not other people accept you as a couple. Me and my fiance are both 20 (with a couple months diff) and we're getting married pretty soon here in July. We both love each other very much and we cannot wait to spend our lives together. Other people however can't accept that we are so young. That is probably one of me biggest PET PEEVES ever.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Loves sees not with the eyes... May 20, 2005 10:54 AM

"True love sees not with the eyes but with the mind, therefore is wing-ed cuped painted blind." Shakespeare, Twelfth Night. All that matters is what's in the heart. All else can be resolved. _True_ love is unconditional. If something as superficial as age makes a difference to you, move on - don't get involved. Michael  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
It should to young adults May 20, 2005 11:20 AM

Should age matter to ADULTS? No probably not. Should it matter to YOUNG adults...yes absolutly. When young adults get into a long term relationship to soon, it robs them of precious years they need to grow to be a productive adult. I myself, never had those years. I met my X husband at 14 (he's 4 yrs older than I). We married when I was 17 & pregnant. He was/is an excellent man, husband and wonderful father....but I had no idea who I was. I went from being a child, to being a couple and I lost myself in the shuffle. In the end my thirst for my freedom and teenage years won out. So 8 yrs. & 2 kids later we divorced, I was just 22. In short I think it matters more when the people involved are very young.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
my addition June 06, 2005 10:11 PM

Age is just too general to matter. Actually I think older guys are better for younger females because they are mature and more stable which is more fun for dating and they appreciate beauty more than younger but overall the age dosnt matter if the feelings are there. My thoughts :)  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Does age really matter when it come to love? June 21, 2005 1:10 PM

Age is only a number... Of course, with the age difference, it helps if both parties are of legal age. I am now a widow, but I was 2 years older than my now deceased husband. Love is caring deeply with an open mind and an open heart. Love is a connecting force that brings great joy to those in LOVE.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
hi every one ! June 29, 2005 11:31 AM

no way ! i like one girl ! she is litle bit elder then me ! she is just become my friend ! hey but the problem is arises she is very decent sensible and beautiful girl i have ever met . i dont hav dare to say anything and u know i dont dare to say tht i drop her to her house ! she is very conservative nature but very good nature i dont know what shoud i do ! if u knw then pl. give me the message u know my care2 ID . i want to say much more but not want to disturb the topic . Age is nowhere in front of love ! if u say age is matter then i say u dont knw what is love ? kamal !  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
A Change of Pace. July 09, 2005 10:16 AM

Hey guys. I'm against Separation of Age. Which means I'm against people who won't let people be with who they want to because of age reasons, race, etc for any reason... I believe everyone has there own definition of love for themselves. And I believe age is just a number. Who says you can't be happy with someone who is 10 years older than you? Who says because your 14 you only have to be with someone who is 14? I'm not against people who don't date outside the age limit, but if they do, that's awesome!. My happiness shouldn't have to make you happy, if I'm happy isn't that happy enough?  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
 July 12, 2005 10:57 PM

ur the man :D  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
 July 28, 2005 5:06 PM

I really do think that age is a number, if 2 people love one another, age shouldn't matter, as long as to people are happy with one another is the most important part  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
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