do true love truely come by once? November 25, 2004 7:19 PM
i have to wonder ya know they say Your one True love only comes around once.i have to wonder if that is true.i here all these men tell there wifes and g/fs that they are there true loves.than ya here they cheats.So do you believe it comes by once and if ya mess it up it doesn't come back around again?
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No! Not in my opinion........ November 26, 2004 2:33 PM
I would say that usually your first sticks with you because of the intensity. But as a whole, I personally would disagree with that statement.
I think that their are Millions of people out there just for you Not just One! I think that is truly amazing how one wrong or right move that one make throughout their day can change thier corse of life. Whether it is on the Love scale or on any other.
I mean there have been many times when I have gone to the market and walked down Isle 9 and ran into someone that I have not seen in years. Where as if you were 2 minutes early or 2 minutes late that confrontation never would have taken place!
So in short, I believe that one can have many loves throughout their life.
I believe true love exists all around us in many forms. You can love your parents, children, siblings, good friends, people of the same sex, people of the opposite sex, and each of these types of love may be different but they are all true.
I think it is ridiculous the limits people put on love saying such things as you can only have one romantic love at a time, or only one in your lifetime. That is crazy talk and leads to some very morose people. There are many lonely people in this world, and some of them have had real loves in their past, but that doesn't mean they can't find another true love if they are open to it.
In fact, if parents can love multiple children, why is it so hard for people to believe that an adult can truly love multiple lovers? Love is eternal and limitless.
Not everyone is able to receive or give love. However, for people who can receive and give love, there are numerous others out there who would be compatible with each of them.
At the same time I know there are a few people I would have been compatible with who are not my husband, I am very happy with him and glad we have each other. I believe that if anything happened to one of us, the other would be able to find someone else to be happy with. That is a comfort to me.
I know there are those who are so jealous that they would prefer their loved one be alone if not with them. I believe that is flawed and not "true love" because "true love" means you would want the best for the other person even if it hurts you. In a healthy relationship, both people feel that way about each other, which means they will be honest and fair in their treatment of each other. Therefore, they will not lie and cheat.
Of course, people are flawed, so even if we are truly in love, we sometimes do stupid things, but true love leads us to be honest with each other. Couples may decide to be in an open relationship if the decision is mutual. This is not any less loving. In fact, it is more loving to be honest and accepting than to lie and cheat on each other. I digress.
The point is, love takes many forms and is endless. There are many people out there for each of us.
Since I've never found true love, it's hard to comment, but I'd like to think it is out there and it does come by more than once.....you just have to recognize it when it does........
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