For those who are new to this group, we offer a network of loving, caring individuals who understand the grief journey and will offer support and assistance. We will never tell you how you shoudl feel or act, but accept all of your feelings as normal and will share our experiences in similar situations to try and help.
I have taken another step forward in my journey....for the longest time, I couldn't use the room that we had intended to make into Bill's music room when we moved shortly before his death. I finally cleaned it out last week and turned it into a fairly presentable family room/guest room.
I'd like to echo Tim's sentiments; I am not a host here, but I have made this journey many times and I am certainly available as a shoulder to lean on if needed.
For each of us, the grief journey takes its own sweet time...some are never able to change rooms, etc...I think it's great that you have taken that step - it will always be his music room in your mind...