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Hello March 24, 2005 5:34 PM

I am new to the group My name is Anjee, i was sexually abused as achild and its all just coming out now when i am 35 yearsold in threapy. My boys were being curious and playing Dr with a couple of girls there age and have been prosecuted by our state and one of my boys is in a group home in Va., the other is home because no facility would take him because he had brain surgery in September and if he gets hit in th ehead it could kill him so he has threapists that come to the home and one we go to see. at the time of the incidents the boys were 11 and 12 and the girls 10 and 11 and they were approached a few times by the young ladies. It has also came out thru all of this that my babies were abused at the ages of 4 and 5 by 2 teenage girls i had baby sit them. This really tore me up inside and still does and because of all of this my one sons threapists has been pushing me to remember my child hood which i really dont want to because he cant be punished because he is dead. He would be my own father and the memories that have been coming are not what i want to know. the threapists told me that if i had had treatment before this I would have seen the signs with my boys. Hugs Anjee  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
 March 28, 2005 8:40 AM

Sorry to hear of your troubles.. Hopefully things will get better and sometimes it helps to talk about it cause it takes a loud off of you ..... and when you do talk to someone about it, you can feel the heavy load release off your mind, chest, and shoulders. I know it's a hard thing to talk about but it does help to talk about it in the long run so if you ever need to talk I am here to listen. That's what this group is for....  [ send green star]
 
anonymous SORRY April 16, 2005 2:18 PM

I am really sorry for u and anyone who is involved with abuse in a family it can cause poison through the generations unless that genration it is hurting now is strong enough to stop it, the devil lived in my house. Bless and Love  [report anonymous abuse]  [ accepted]
 
feeling sick April 19, 2005 7:42 AM

I have been in threapy and the last few times I have literally gotten sick because of some things that i remember from my childhood. How could a father do such things to there own child? How could my mother not stop what hppened? She was there and knew what was going on. He may be dead and buried six feet under, but in my heart she is also dead I am so glad that all these times I have tried to be the aduly in this that she has been so childish and wanted to argue because if i knew then what I know now I would not know what I would have done.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
 April 19, 2005 7:48 PM

Well you are in a sitution like my niece is. Her step dad is doing it to her and she has told her mom and he mom doesn't believe her. I don't give a damn if she is only 4 years old the kid knows what's going on with her and who touches her where. She has no reason to lie and my mom even took her to the doctor and had her checked and the cops still won't do anything about him. I guess they are either scared of him or they are being paid under the table to keep there traps closed and sit back and do nothing. But I got knews for her mom thou, I will meet up with her again and she's gonna know what an ass whooping is after I am done with her. Cause when my own brother done it to my daughter back in January and I caught it with my own eyes, I had him put in jail and if my husband would have made it here 15 minutes sooner before the cops showed up my brother would have been a dead man. And now most of my family holds a grudge against me for putting him in jail for what he done cause they don't believe that he did it when I sit right here and caught it with my own eyes. My God How much more proof does one need ?  [ send green star]
 
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