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12 years ago

For many people forgiveness is one of the hardest steps of all in our progress toward freedom of spirit. Yet it is essential. For as long as we are unable to forgive, we keep ourselves chained to the unforgiven. We give them rent-free space in our minds, emotional shackles on our hearts, and the right to torment us in the small hours of the night. When it is time to move on, but still too hard, try some or all of these steps. (Note that these steps are appropriate for events resulting from an ongoing adult relationship with anyone. They may not all be appropriate for the random act of violence from a stranger, nor for someone who was abused as a child or while in some other position of true helplessness.)

1. Understand that forgiving does not mean giving permission for the behavior to be repeated. It does not mean saying that what was done was acceptable. Forgiveness is needed for behaviors that were not acceptable and that you should not allow to be repeated.

2. Recognize who is being hurt by your non-forgiveness. Does the other person burn with your anger, feel the knot in your stomach, experience the cycling and recycling of your thoughts as you re-experience the events in your mind? Do they stay awake as you rehearse in your mind what you would like to say or do to 'punish' them? No, the pain is all yours.

3. Do not require to know 'why' as a prerequisite to forgiveness. Knowing why the behavior happened is unlikely to lessen the pain, because the pain came at a time when you did not know why. Occasionally there are times when knowing why makes forgiveness unncessary, but they are rare. Don't count on it and don't count on even the perpetrator knowing why.

4. Make a list of what you need to forgive. What was actually done that caused your pain? Not what you felt, what was done.

5. Acknowledge your part. Were you honest about your hurt or did you hide the fact that the behavior hurt you? Did you seek peace by reassuring the perpetrator that it was all right? Did you stay when you could or should have left? If so, then you, too, have some responsibility. (Here you start to move away from being a victim.)

6. Make a list of what you gained from the relationship, whatever form of relationship it was. Looking back you may be focusing on the negatives, the hurts. Yet if they were repeated, you must have stayed to allow the repetition. You did not remove yourself. Why? There must have been some positives if you chose to stay around. What were they?

7. Write a letter to the person (no need to mail it). Acknowledge what you gained from the relationship, and express forgiveness for the hurts. Allow yourself to express all your feelings fully. Do not focus only on the hurts.

8. Create a ceremony in which you get rid of your lists and the letter, so symbolizing the ending of the link between you. You may choose to visualize placing them on a raft and watching it drift gently away down a river. You may prefer to burn them and scatter the ashes. You may invent some other form of ritualized separation.

9. Visualize the person you are forgiving being blessed by your forgiveness and, as a result, being freed from continuing the behavior that hurt you.

10. Now that you have freed yourself from the painful links and released the pain, feel yourself growing lighter and more joyous. Now you are free to move on with your life without that burden of bitterness. Do not look back in anger.

From   Copyright 97, 98, 99, 00, 2001 CoachVille

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L & L


Be You!
12 years ago

Today would be a wonderful day to just let things fall into place, easily, on their own.

So many parts of your life are actually oddly-shaped and you are trying to fit them into a pattern you laid out. Here they are, pieces large and small with odd bits that jut out here and there, and you have formed a pattern with perfectly square and round holes into which you are now trying to fit your life. And all these pieces of your life are protesting loudly as you apply pressure, as you try to twist and turn them until they somehow can fit. And in the process, you must make them smaller and you must cut off the most interesting parts.

Part of this mold you are trying to fit your life into is what you were taught by your parents and other caregivers. Part of it is what society has taught you, whatever part of society that you decided to connect with, and the people you consider the leaders within that society. You are surrounded by images and instructions, all designed for you to conform to certain standards of behavior, to have you spend your time and your money in specific ways. There is tremendous power and brought to bear to get you to willingly mold your life in certain ways. Billions of dollars are expended to this end.

But you are not nearly this tidy. You have parts of yourself that are quite unique, very unusual pieces that just won't fit into any of the simple-minded molds presented to you. And most of all, you are multi-dimensional. You are not full of little flat pieces that fit into a flat puzzle. You are jutting out all over the place with vibrant energies, creative ideas, unconventional thoughts, unacceptable concepts, outsized desires, all large and oddly shipped and, most importantly, in constant flux.

For your life is all about change and growth, so it is very fluid, and the person you were yesterday, that fit into one kind of pattern, may not be at all the person you will be tomorrow, this vibrant, evolving person who faced up to a challenge and grew thereby, becoming an even more interesting person, vital, active, changing even as we speak.

And here is the good news. There is another pattern, one which you cannot see, but that you can feel at odd moments. And in this pattern, you fit perfectly. For it is a pattern on a much larger scale, a very unusual pattern which is also constantly changing and shifting. And the pieces which fit into this pattern are multi-dimensional and fluid, and uniqueness is treasured above all. In this pattern, you are an organic part of what is as a whole, and as you grow and learn, your growth is celebrated and the space around made to fit easily, so that you are always the perfect size and shape to fit just where you might do the absolute most good. You are, in fact, perfect for this larger pattern. You are the perfect piece to complete the puzzle on this larger, universal scale.

And so, when you are struggling and failing to get this large purple and green desire of yours to fit, when your magenta and orange sense of humor seems to just irritate, when your deep blue longing is derided by others, know that these colorful and oddly shaped bits of yourself are perfectly at home in the larger picture, that puzzle which we call life.

You are perfection itself. We await your next evolution into ever more beautiful forms.Here is a little prayer for today

I am perfect just as I am. I recognize and applaud my own beauty as I allow myself to be who I am, in all of the ways that I am. I treasure each part of myself, even as I allow myself to flow and change, to grow and evolve, to perfect what is already beyond perfection.

I am love myself completely just as I am. I am love. I am beauty. I am.

Carrie Hart & Quado

Love and Light


12 years ago


I woke up early today, excited over allI get to do before the clock strikes midnight.I have responsibilities to fulfill today.I am important. 
My job is to choose what kind of day I am going to have. 
Today I can complain because the weather is rainy, OR...
I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free.
Today I can feel sad that I don't have more money, OR...
I can be glad that my finances encourage me to plan my purchases wisely and guide me away from waste. 
Today I can grumble about my health,
I can rejoice that I am alive. 
Today I can lament over all that my parents didn't give mewhen I was growing up,
I can feel grateful that they allowed me to be born. 
Today I can cry because roses have thorns,
I can celebrate that thorns have roses. 
Today I can mourn my lack of friends,
I can excitedly embark upon a quest to discover newrelationships. 
Today I can whine because I have to go to work,
I can shout for joy because I have a job to go to. 
Today I can complain because I have to go to school,
Eagerly open my mind and fill it with new tidbits of knowledge. 
Today I can murmur dejectedly because I have to do housework,
I can feel honored because the Lord has provided shelter for my mind, body, and soul. 
Today stretches ahead of me, waiting to be shaped.And here I am, the sculptor who gets to do the shaping.
What today will be like is up to me. I get to choose what kind of day I will have! 
Have a GREAT DAY my friend  
OR... maybe you have other plans.
Love and Light
What to do?
12 years ago
If you are uncertain as to where to go and what to do, what is the best approach to take? Listen within. Wait for clarity. Refuse to act until you are certain that that is what you are supposed to do. Certainty is not easy when there are so many voices clamoring in your head for attention to their particular point of view. What do you do about that? Wait for clarity. Wait until the clamor dies down and only a single quiet voice remains. Wait for clarity. Do not act without clarity about it being the TIME to act, as well. Everything has its perfect timing in the larger scheme of things.
So, now, why do we repeatedly emphasize these basic principles? Because they are your compass through the uncharted waters that lie just ahead. If you are setting out on a journey without a map and only the sense that you must cross an ocean to reach a shore that is not visible to you, you will have to keep your attention fixed on that far horizon until you reach it. You must set your course, and then follow it. Your guidance systems must have a "fix" on your destination.
You carry this information within you. It is coded into the very cells and DNA of the body you walk around in. Your journey IS already mapped out, but because of the necessity of making this journey in a state of veiled consciousness, you have to "pretend" you don't know where you are going. It is all part of the illusion about who and what and where you are.
L & L
p.s. I am going back to South Africa for a month as my mum not well, so will re-do Life Issues when back. Thanks for understanding.
Your Future !!!
12 years ago

Hi there all you wonderful folk.

Great to be back.....and busy again...

Here we go....

Your future is a lively combination of several elements. It is affected by the actions you take right now in this moment. It is also affected by your emotional state in this moment, partially because a calm and truthful center will tend to make much wiser choices than a fearful and over-reactive one, but also because the beauties of life are drawn to a peaceful garden, a place where love flows through in a gentle unending stream, a place were the birds sing out with joy, simply because another day is dawning, a place where flowers bloom in their own individual colors, each proud to be just who they are, whether daisy or rose. When your mind is in this garden, you attract a future which wants to abide there.
But of course, there is more. There are also the outward circumstances of the times in which you live, the storms which blow through and the gentle rains of blessings which come as well. And the last element of this life of yours is the intention of your higher self, the larger plan drawn out for you in the higher realms.
You will find that this intention has interesting effects in your life. Some people feel more strongly driven by this than others. Some people feel very closely connected to a higher plan, something that tells them what to do, step by step. Or in some cases, a path which stretches out clearly in front of them. Other people feel just a misty presence, which makes itself known from time to time through serendipitous meetings and events, or sudden flashes of clarity. And some people feel none of this, without a feeling of presence in their lives one way or another, and this is all right as well.
And you must know that you always have a choice, even when the plan is writ in large letters across the sky. Still, you can choose to walk under that star that burns bright in the distance, lighting that mountaintop, or you can choose not to. This is entirely your choice.
But if you do see that star shining, or feel that tug in some direction, or even if all you see and feel is the direction for the next step, consider carefully if you are thinking of not following its guidance. Go deeply within and feel the truth, feel where the peace lies. Know that feeling your higher direction is not the same as feeling excited about something, not at all the same as forging your own plans and being excited when it looks as if they may have their intended effect. Following an inner truth is usually very calm and quiet, a feeling of peace only, perhaps a word or two whispered now and again, without any emotional excitement. Just a knowing that this is the next step to be taken, even though nothing else about it is clear.
If you have this knowing, then consider yourself blessed, fill yourself with courage and take the step. It just may be the step which begins to take you to new lands and people, which takes you through an invisible portal to a new garden, where the fairies sing and gold and silver blessings shimmer around you.
And if that step is not clear now, then just create that garden of love in your mind and heart and live this moment in peace, love and joy.
Here is a little prayer for today
I live in a garden of love, peace and joy. My mind is quiet and calm. My heart is full of love. In my center is a deep pool of peace, always there for me, and full of my personal truth, the truth of who I am, the truth of where I might go and what I might do.
I am this peace. I am this love and joy. I am.
Channelled by Carrie Hart & Quado
Love and Light
Letting go...
12 years ago
Letting Go and Finding Our Sense of Independence
By Lisa Sommer..
When someone is clearly and repeatedly pushing us away, and we feel a certain resistance to the change, do we continue to hold on and swim against the tides of the situation, or do we let that person or situation go peacefully and gracefully? Does that person or situation need to be held onto or would it be best to let go? In many ways, only our heart knows the answer. Being honest with ourselves and all involved is the first step in contributing to outcomes that truly serve the highest good of all.
Sometimes we need to let go and also to allow ourselves to be let go of, in order to find our independence in the truest come to the realization that we have all we need within us, and that perhaps it is our emotional attachments to our judgements and expectations that cause our suffering and lack of feeling truly independent.
Freedom comes when we can allow what comes into our lives without judgement or expectation that it be any more or less than what it is. Emotional freedom comes from a place of higher awareness where we can see with a heart of gratitude for what we have learned through finding value in all our experiences and accepting each's choices without judgement or expectation. When we can see how we have grown to this point right now, and can begin to understand the patterns of our lives in all their aspects and whether they are truly helping us or holding us back, we are moving forward in conscious awareness and spiritual freedom.
Our choices shape our lives and our relationships in whatever way we are willing and ready to experience according to what we put into them and are willing to give, not only to others, but also to ourselves. Our paths in life are not always easy, but when we can see how all in our life has purpose and has led us to where we are right now, we may come to realize that perhaps what felt like a distance, separation or loss truly was a blessing that brought us to a place of greater opportunity and growth that we may not have arrived at otherwise. In this awareness, we may also find a greater level of understanding and peace.
I am reminded of a scene in the movie "Because Of Winn Dixie" where two of the children saw what appeared to be a mother horse kicking at her baby as if to hurt it. The girls were very upset by this and did not understand. One of the grown-ups explained that this is sometimes the way of nature...that the pony was clinging too long to it's mother and it was time for it to let go. When we hold on too tightly to something or someone, we hold back growth...our own growth as well as the growth of others and prevent ourselves from fully realizing all that we are.
It occurred to me that sometimes our relationships with others get to a point where perhaps we cling too long also, and it prevents us from growing any further. We may find ourselves making choices that appear to be pushing each other away and possibly causing pain and misunderstanding in the process, but perhaps a certain distance is just what we need at that particular stage of our growth in order to let go and get a sense of our own independence so we can continue to grow "up" into the higher realms of conscious awareness of ourselves, eachother, and all that we are.
The growth process involves choices and if we continue to resist and swim against the currents of the present situation, we struggle and move very slowly, if at all. Our choice to allow for change that clearly wants to and needs to occur, helps all involved in many beneficial ways that contribute to our growth and serve the highest good; even though it may appear at first to be otherwise. Part of our growth is to learn to trust in the process of life, to trust ourselves in our choices, and to trust that the wisdom of the Universe that brought us to this point in our lives, will continure to carry us through, guide us and move us forward through whatever comes our way...and that we will rise up and find that we have an awareness of greater depth, independence, understanding, appreciation, peace, joy, and love within ourselves for ourselves, and for all in our lives than we ever realized before.
Lisa Sommer
Love and light
Let us make the same mistakes
12 years ago

Yes! Let us repeat the things that hurt us. Let us allow others to insult us! Let us allow to be beaten up and told what trash we are. Let your wives continue to sleep with your friends! Let your children be disrepectful, we just gave them life! Let work mates make us feel unhappy and unworthy! Let husbands treat us with the disdain we deserve! Let people judge us for being different! Let others tell us what we need and who we need to believe in! We are so insignificant, so we need to be led by others, be they male, female, children, in-laws etc, work mates, friends. Who are we?

Guess what? We are each and every one different, yet the same. We are a spark of a Light that we cannot even begin to understand. So be it, the understanding will come when we have learned why we are here. We are here as individuals, to learn, to love, to be treated with the respect that is our given right. Yet we shun it. We allow others to hurt us?

Tsk tsk.....Life is not an easy task and we chose it, so lets live it to the fullest. Lets us feel pain, happiness, laughter, impatience, anger. All the emotions that we are given for a reason. No wrong or right here, just the tools to cope. It is how we use the tools that matter. I am sure you all know when you have made a choice that was not really for your higher good, so be it, live with it and move on. Some of you have had things happen to you that were not what you wanted, you cannot change it as it is in the past. So, seek help if your psyche is taking strain, but know, you are never alone, no mattter what your choices are. If a choice is hard, ask for help, it is but a thought away...

Take care my friends,

L & L


12 years ago

Yes, this topic is about what makes us survive. Feeling! It is a very important part of our day as we get them at every second of every day.

Be it happiness, sadness, anger, it is all about feelings.

Now! How do we handle them? We have choices. We can scream and shout, (I do) or we can relax and try to find where they are coming from.

Feelings are given to us for a reason. To protect us if a person hurts us, to fight when we are angry. To cry when we are sad. Is it a wrong feeling?

I do not think so because we have feelings for a reason. Feelings can make us irrational, suicidal, truly loved, truly disliked... etc.. no matter we are alive, so we feel. The Universe has no problem with that.  Only we do.

When we pass to the other world, we actually come back to share our loved ones feelings. Read Allison DuBois book's. We become our departed one's heaven because they still wish to experience life with us and our feelings! Is that not fantastic?

Feelings are a part of life as they are a part of death, they never leave us, because we are ALL ONE.

So the next time you "feel" know it is being shared by all that have ever loved you, know it is part of being human as well as all those that have gone from this world.


L & L


To Love...
12 years ago

This is always a delicate subject because many of us do not feel loved. We are, but we are not aware of it, so we look.

We try to find it in one night stands, we try to find it with partners that only hurt us, either physically or mentally.

Love means saying sorry! Yes, that movie was not spot on.

Love means acceptance of each other as individuals.

There is not a word that is more powerful than love, but what do we all know about it. We have been raised by other individuals, that also have had to go through the same process. Does not make them wrong or right, it makes them individual.

Now we are all grown up, or so we believe. Now we have to make choices based on what we have been taught... Does that not suck? but it is the way things are.

So, what are we to do?

I can tell you! Make choices that are right for you and make them with all the love you can.

I hear you say "but I do not love all" and that is also alright. You do not need to love a person in human form, but you will always love their spirit, even if you do not know it. That gets sorted when we go home. Love is when we think before we speak, before we say the wrong things that can hurt. Walking away at many times is a better option. Not one we like, I agree, but we are not truly permitted to hurt another. me, myself and I can be real mean if my family is hurt, but then I realise the thing called karma. It takes care of anything anyone has ever done to me. So I smile and actually feel sorry for the hateful person because I know what is coming. I have been hit with that karma stick myself.

Take care and especially take care of YOU! then you can help others.

L & L


Zen Wisdom
12 years ago

Hope you enjoy this, asked permission to share..

1. Do not walk behind me, for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me either. Just pretty much leave me the hell alone.

2. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken fan belt and a leaky tire.

3. It's always darkest before dawn. So if you're going to steal your neighbor's newspaper, that's the time to do it.

4. Sex is like air. It's not important unless you aren't getting any.

5. Don't be irreplaceable. If you can't be replaced, you can't be promoted.

6. No one is listening until you fart.

7. Always remember you're unique. Just like everyone else.

8. Never test the depth of the water with both feet.

9. If you think nobody cares if you're alive, try missing a couple of car payments.

10. Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them you're a mile away and you have their shoes.

11. If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.

12. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will sit in a boat and drink beer all day.

13. If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.

14. If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.

15. Some days you're the bug; some days you're the windshield.

Fulfillment of desire is an illusion; desire leads to more desire, not satisfaction.

L & L


The Afterlife
12 years ago

Hello all you great folk. As some of you know, 2006 has not been an easy year, so I thought to help others with this new message: The conquest of fear is one of the primary reasons for life on Earth. When people incarnate into this world, they leave behind an extensive soul family in the spirit realms. This family consists of the few souls who, in the entire universe, are the most like them, the ones who are exactly on their wavelength. Leaving the camaraderie of this intimate group of friends can be an act of soul-wrenching self-sacrifice. Often, the act of incarnation is not carried out alone. In fact, it is usual for others from the same soul family to incarnate at approximately the same time so that they will experience the issues of their own generation together. Careful plans are made ahead of time to ensure that key friendships will occur during these incarnations. One of the ways this can be done is to be born into the same physical family as brothers or sisters. spiritual entity enters this world through the body of a new-born baby, takes a deep breath, and promptly inherits amnesia! All of a sudden, they don’t know how to walk, talk, dress themselves, or drive to parties. All of those things come later. Some simple functions are already present in the newly-formed baby’s brain, such as the ability to cry, drink milk, and cry louder. This almost total amnesia, combined with a brain’s focus upon the external senses, creates an environment where fears can potentially become enormous. In fact, the human body on the physical plane of Earth is the perfect place to experience fear in a wide variety of forms... and to learn to overcome those fears by gaining inner strength. Overcoming Fear The survival instinct serves to keep people alert when dangers arise, so that they can respond quickly in order to preserve the lives of their physical bodies. If you were driving headlong towards an unfolding traffic accident, the sudden rush of adrenalin may feel like fear, but it is really a coping mechanism for self-preservation. Fear of losing a loved one can often be supplanted by simply wanting the best for them. If a loved one is dying of an incurable disease, it is physically better for them to suffer as little as possible from pain, confusion, and from the frustration of physical incapacity. It also helps to know something about the afterlife in which they will be living next. Knowledge is the cure for fear of the unknown. The more people know about their eventual destination, the easier it is to rationally plan for it and to be sure that they have first reaped the intended benefits from their current life’s experiences. Young Again! Other observations typically made by a person in the afterlife include the fact that their spirit body has not aged like their physical body. Unimpeded by the aging of their physical body, their spirit body appears to be in the prime of life, just like they were at 28 years of age. heir ability to float from place to place is also a new experience. Their spirit bodies are made of light density, etheric energy-based material, as opposed to physical bodies, which are made of dense, electron-based material. Spirit bodies are usually referred to as being non-physical; however, quasi-physical might be a better term. Spirit bodies do have a physical-like form and feel solid to other spirits, but they are quite malleable and can be easily shape-shifted. Old Friends Come Back To Visit When a departed one comes back to visit you in your waking state, their presence will flow into your being and remind you of the closeness that you once shared in each other’s physical company. Be aware that this is their way of saying hello. If you succumb to the temptation to remember how much you miss them, and break into tears, then you will have, unfortunately, messed up their whole visit! Instead, tell them in your thoughts - which they can “hear” perfectly well - that you’ll see them tonight when you fall asleep and leave your own physical body for the night. We often meet with friends and family members who have passed on when we visit their world at night. The only difference between sleep and passing away is that, in the morning, you return to your physical body. Memories of dreams dissolve quickly after you awake. If you write down your dreams as soon as you awake, then you will find it much easier to preserve their memory. Many dreams of the morning are just “house cleaning” within your consciousness. The stresses of the previous days get jumbled up together, translated into symbols and turned over in your mind to be more easily reconciled. he most valuable dreams to write down are ones where you become lucid enough to awake in the middle of a dream that seems particularly vivid. Those are the dreams where you were “out there” far enough to have been in contact with old friends in the spirit realms, and not just hovering close to your physical body planning the next day’s activities. The deeper dreams of the night, the ones where you soared high into the spirit world, can be recalled by just intending to do so while in a deep and peaceful meditation session. When it comes to issues of life and the afterlife, always have faith in the flow of life. There is a deeply, inner-planned synchronicity which unfolds through every important event in the life. There is a self-made plan unfolding through everyone who has ever graced this physical Earth with their wise and powerful spirits. And, remember, the amnesia was just a part of the game! L & L Felicity
12 years ago

Visualizing is the Key to Realizing by James Ray What is it that separates the highly successful individual from the average or even successful individual? Why is it that one person seems to achieve extraordinary results on a consistent basis and another, with nearly the same training, hits and misses their accomplishments? The success technique to which I am referring is visualization. I guarantee that "visualizing your results is the key to realizing your results." Visualizing is one of the most important techniques you will ever learn and one that is utilized by all high performers. Visualizing is your key to success for two reasons: Your mind thinks in pictures and images; Your unconscious mind drives your behavior. Your unconscious mind doesn't know the difference between something that is real and something vividly imagined. Whatever picture (goal) you consistently think about will drive your actions to create that exact picture. When you continually see ourself in possession of your goal, your unconscious mind will move you into actions that align with the mental image you hold. Here's a quick visualization overview to assure your goal chievement: 1. Create a clear mental picture. You must associate a picture to your goal. You should picture yourself in your vision, rather than watching yourself achieve your goal. This "fine point" separates the masters from the masses. You must create a picture that is so real you believe you already have achieved your success. 2. You must "experience" your vision. You must be in your picture, looking through your own eyes... seeing, hearing and feeling everything as if you have already achieved your goal. You must create the emotion of the moment in your own body. 3. Visualize your goal at every opportunity. Bring up your mental picture while waiting at a stop light, when you're on a break, before your next meeting. The more frequently you plant your picture into your unconscious mind, the more rapidly you will begin to realize increased results in your life. 4. Visualize first thing in the morning and last thing at night. The best time to visualize is in the morning right after you wake up and just before you go to sleep. These are the times when your unconscious mind is most open to influence. When your conscious mind relaxes, your unconscious becomes very receptive to your thoughts,dreams and ideas--particularly ideas with high emotion. So make a commitment right now to create your picture of achieving your goal. All great masters have taught that we become what we constantly think about. Think about your goals to the exclusion of all else and watch your personal and professional results skyrocket! ***************************************************** James Arthur Ray, CSP: Master of the Entrepreneurial Mindset and author of "The Science of Success." Accelerating personal performance and spiritual growth.
12 years ago

FEELINGS: Channelled by Felicity. This is something we all need to deal with. Some of us find it hard and distressing, but we are given that emotion for a reason. It can be to detect untrue feelings, it can be for us to heal, learn from, heal. That said, it sucks because feeling are something unigue to each and every one of us. It is something inside of us that makes us laugh, cry, get angry, hate and so much more. What I am getting here, is that all the feelings we all get are normal and a part of why we are here. To learn. We might have come here to learn how to contain rage, to love deeply even when others have hurt us. We need the courage to "know" we are not alone on this choice we all made to come back again. I bet, most of you are saying that you will never come back to this planet, but I do that also. yet when at home, we see things so differently, and then we decide to come back again. And because we decide that, we get HELP. Life is meant to be enjoyed, sights are meant to be treasured, yet we do not see a bud blooming, we curse rain, even when it feeds us. Feelings are given to us to "FEEL" life and progress. It is meant for us to make decisions that help us. many of of do not, that is also ok, because we get many chances to reach our full potential. That is the LOVE we have. Take care and feel and love all, no matter. If a person comes into your life that you cannot like or even love. That is ok, You just need to walk away, because that person has nothing to teach you in this life, hense the dislike and it is all alright. L & L Felicity
12 years ago

I want to say Thank you all for the uplifting help you have all given me, the hugs, the love to keep going. this I did, and here is the result... My love and me getting married. Please know that I was so messed up before, that I could not have made this possible with all and everyone's love to keep me uplifted.

Ian and Felicity Wedding

My life is now complete, so I can help better than ever before.

p.s. Wait till January, (lol)

12 years ago
Congratulations. You look totally awesome and I send my very good wishes to you both. Enjoy and be happy.
Ron X

12 years ago
Thanks for sharing such a beautiful moment.  May your lives be filled with many blessings and much happiness
Congratulations Felicity and Ian!
12 years ago


Beautiful photo of your wedding, truly a beautiful memory of a wonderful day! Many Blessings for your life together.

Love and Prayers and Light, Simply Vee

Inner beauty
12 years ago

Thank you for all the beautiful messages I received re my new life..... (((hugs)))))

L & L

Inner beauty
12 years ago

Today, I need to talk of Inner beauty. It is not something we all know of or are aware of. We only see outer beauty.

We look in the mirror and do not like what we see, be it a tummy bulging, wrinkles.

We see what we want to and believe it to be real, and it is. So this does not make us happy because we have magazines showing what we should do, what product to use, what exercise regime and that tale does not stop.

There are supposed products out there there to create us into beautiful people. STOP!!!!

We are beautiful, to the folk that matter. That is our angels. Our loved oned do not always help by making smart comments, but we need to move above that.

God creates perfection, YOU created yourself when you decided to come here, because you chose your parents and their genetic structure, for the need and purpose to learn.

Whenever we look at ourselves and feel bad, we are the only ones doing that. If a loved one judges us, that is their problem.

We have to know that Angels only look at our hearts and minds, and then help us with whatever. They never see the body because to them, that is not a problem and yet to us it is!!

I sometimes look at myself and think OMG how can someone love me?

So therein lies my message today... I know I am loved period, and by unseen persons, so if I cannot be loved by humans, that is their problem and not mine. I am safe knowing that a higher source loves me just the way I am.

Take care , L& L Felicity

You Know!
12 years ago

You'd know how to make the most out of the opportunities life gives you ... how to avoid negative influences that distract you from achieving your true life purpose ... and which path to take in order to have the happiest, most fulfilling life that is available to you.

A full numerology reading will give you all these things, and much more ... essentially, a recipe for a happier and more fulfilling life.

Now, I want to offer you what I truly believe to be one of the most wonderful numerology readings you'll ever read about yourself.

Numerology Relationship Reports

L & L


Your Happiness
12 years ago
You try so hard.  Day after day, the sweat drips from your mind and heart as you try to improve yourself and your circumstances, to show who you truly are to yourself and the world.  You try and you try and yet success seems to elude you or to come so slowly, and one little triumph is followed by backsliding, one obstacle overcome finds another in its place.  And as you look back over the years, yes, you can see improvement, you can see a gradual trek upward, but in any given day, it seems so little progress is made.
Know this.  The trying and the striving, the effort itself, is often holding you back from what you wish to achieve. The continual judgment of yourself and your own progress is, in fact, a part of the backsliding.  The sweat that drips from your mind is the greatest obstacle of all, for it is full of fear and doubt, and these are the greatest obstacles of all.  And the great goals you set for yourself are a denial of the beauty and wonder of this moment.  They are a part of the "if only" mentality, that makes you think that happiness is something to be achieved when you are richer, slimmer, more appreciated and more successful.
Happiness is right now.  It is not in the future and not in the past.  It is only right now, just as you are and just as all else is, right now.
Happiness as a euphoric and ecstatic state is highly temporary, like a rush of chemicals in your body.  You go up and then you come down.  This state, which can in fact be achieved through meeting outer goals, disappears quickly and returns you to the emotional state you had before your great achievement, perhaps even with greater confusion and discontent.
The type of happiness you should strive for is not temporary excitement.  It is a deep peace and love inside.  The type of happiness which will stand you in good stead through the remainder of your life, and which you can achieve without any change in outside events, is a feeling of deep connection with all that is, a reaching up into love, faith, connection and joy and a reaching down into peace, a well of peace deep inside that nothing can touch.  Even in the direst outer circumstances, you can find that deep peace inside and you can surround yourself with the love of the benevolent and caring universe by simply stepping into it and allowing its grace and beauty to surround you.
Does this sound too easy?  It is simple, but it may not be easy at first.  It requires daily discipline.  It requires that you shift your thinking from the future into now.  It requires that you shift your emotional response from the outer-driven to the inner-driven.  It requires that you connect with the world around you in new ways, taking from it what is beautiful and wonderful, connecting with it in compassion and caring, but keeping your own self intact, like a shining star inside that never dims.  It requires that you reinforce your own star and shine every morning without fail and that you continually seek connection with beauty and wonder, letting the cruel remark and act of betrayal pass over you and allowing the wonder of one leaf, one rose petal, one song, to penetrate deeply.
You can learn to do this.  And when you do, you will carry peace within you at all times, you will wear love like a warm cloak, you will shine with grace, you will glow with happiness that cannot be dampened, that does not come and go with success and failure in other people's eyes.
Inner peace, deep love, joy and light.  These are your happiness.  And they are yours, right now.
Here is little prayer for today
I go inward and see there the light that shines, that is me, that is my own self, glowing within this body and soul.  I open myself to my higher self and allow my own goodness to flow into me and light this fire, to glow ever brighter from within.
I feel the love that is there for me.  I know the light as my own.  I am like a deep well of peace unending.
I immerse myself in this light, this love, this peace, and allow joy to bubble up from within, naturally and easily.
I am light.  I am lov
And God said:
12 years ago
The man whispered, "God, speak to me"
And a meadowlark sang.
But the man did not hear.
So the man yelled "God, speak to me"
And the thunder & lightning rolled across the sky.
But the man did not listen.
The man looked around and said, "God, let me see you."
And a star shined brightly.
But the man did not see.
And, the man shouted, "God, show me a miracle"
And a life was born. But the man did not notice.
So, the man cried out in despair, "Touch me, God, and let me know you are here"
Whereupon, God reached down and touched the man.
But the man brushed the butterfly away and walked on.
I found this to be a great reminder that God is always around us in the little and simple things that we take for granted. even in our electronic age . . so I would like to add one more: The man cried "God, I need your help" ... . .  and an e-mail arrived reaching out with good news and encouragement.
But the man deleted it and continued crying.....
The good news is that you are loved.  Don't miss out on a blessing because it isn't packaged the way that you expect.
Expect the unexpected....
Treasure the day and loved ones.
L & L
Past Lives
12 years ago
What many people don't know is that their Personal Power is NOT in the past, it is in the Present Moment and we are cocreators with our Universe, of that present moment.  And to spend so much time involved with the past is to spend less time in possession of that personal power, while hanging on to many not so ideal situations/feelings IN the past.
I feel we all are correct, that as a teaching aid, the past is an excellent teacher. And how many times are told that if we forget the past, we are doomed to make the same mistakes? But I also find that if I try to revisit the past, I get into the "Shoulds" about "I should have done...said, etc". I revisit the hurt, longing and shadows in a place that is GONE from me. To "should" on myself automatically makes me wrong somehow and I prefer to say to myself "I COULD have said or done, etc". Shoulds give me no choices and I realize, today, that my life has always been about choices, which I have ALWAYS had.
True, there are those people who feel as if they can't move forward unless they can understand their past...but understanding it and remaining "stuck" in the idea that they must KNOW or remember every incident can be hazardous to personal growth. Each life has behaviors, feelings and consequences that we must account for and we deal with them in the next life!
 As long as one is fixated on the Past, the Present suffers...this is why the Universe in its infinite wisdom uses the "Veil of forgetfulness"to shelter and protect our fragile human emotions. It would be devastating to be able to remember every little detail.
A "Past life Reading" is something that should be taken casually and not focused on. Each Reader of Past lives has their own base to come from and it can color a reading easily and give false information to the inquirer...especially in someone with little experience. So Be careful and use caution in asking another to do one for you. I suggest that the INNER Voice that each of us has is the best approach to obtaining this information!
A state of protection from Shadow, connection with personal Divine guidance and personal Guides which you can trust are all that one needs to obtain Past life information for oneself! One can then ask "Show me where my present difficulties are coming from" or "I allow my conscious mind to fall away and reveal to me what this means..." or  ask "Allow me to access the life time from which this arises..."
There are a few people who are able to side-step the veil of forgetfulness (myself included) but there is a price to pay for this ability...and repayment is extracted. But this is available to anyone who wants to TRUST in the guidance they receive from their Universe and there is no mystery to is a learned thing!
L & L
This message comes with love from Lady Faellyn.
12 years ago
The Angels and I are sooo pleased that the messages get through. Here is a message channelled through another light one.

Embracing all aspects of ourselves, even our dark side, is essential to change. Many spend a lifetime attempting to perfect themselves and, in the process, ignore and suppress traits that they find within themselves that are bad. We all have a nasty side. If you don’t think so, ask your closest family members or friends—they’ll tell you all about your shadow side.

Debbie Ford, instructor at the Chopra Center for Well Being and author of the best-seller The Dark Side of the Light Chasers, discusses the process of embracing our shadow side. She writes, "Everything we hate, resist, or disown about ourselves takes on a life of its own, undermining our feelings of worthiness. When we come face-to-face with our dark side our first instinct is to turn away, and our second is to bargain with it to leave us alone. . . . When we locked away those parts of ourselves we didn’t like, unknowingly, we sealed away our most valuable treasures. . . . These treasures try desperately to emerge, to come to our attention, but we are conditioned to push them back down. Like giant beach balls being held underwater, these aspects pop back up to the surface whenever we take the pressure off."

In a world that was established to allow opposition so that we can gain intelligence through experience, ignoring the nasty sides of ourselves prevents us from obtaining great talents and abilities as we transform our weaknesses into strengths. Because we need to love ourselves before we can love others, this process of accepting all aspects of our personality supports our efforts to love unconditionally, beginning first with ourselves.

Ironically, when we stop expending energy to suppress our shadow traits, like the beach ball, they often float up and drift away. For this week’s homework, discover an unpleasant trait about yourself and begin to transform your life by embracing it. Look for the good that has come from your weaknesses. Ask yourself, "What have I learned from my struggles with this weakness?" "How can I transform my weakness to a strength?"

I took this exercise to heart and asked my husband to help me identify a weakness to embrace and transform this week. At first when I asked for help, he gave the perfect, diplomatic, loving-husband answer, "There's nothing wrong with you, honey— you’re perfect!" But with further questioning, he conceded that something drives him crazy: how irresponsible I can be in following my daily schedule. He’s very predictable and follows his schedule responsibly. I, on the other hand, tend to be late, change plans easily, or do not plan well enough for up-coming events.

How is this weakness my strength? It’s not hard for me to drop my plans to help another. Even when I’m busy, I’m willing to be flexible and I don’t get as stressed when my schedule doesn’t go as planned. Consequently, I can have a lot of tasks on my plate and manage minute to minute without much anxiety. Though my husband’s strength of following a schedule dependably is comfortable for him (and very helpful to me as he is often the only reason we get anywhere on time), sometimes it can be his weakness when our hectic family life produces a change in plans and he struggles to adapt. Together, we make a perfect balance, as long as we can live and love these aspects of each other and use one another as an example for personal growth and change.

Have a happy week of loving transformation!

Many Blessings,
Rebecca Hintze
Author, therapist

L & L


Laws of Vibration
11 years ago
You life is being orchestrated by the Law of Vibration. This means that the world around you is but a reflection of your core vibration. Want to play alittle? Ok, as you go through your day become more aware of your core state. Notice whether you are you moving through the day in a state of anxiety and fear, distrust and suspicion or are a state of hope and trust, peace and love. If you apply the law of vibration you will understand how resonance works. Like is attracted to like. Therefore, you do not have to change your world, only yourself. If everyone followed this simple principle the world would change in an instant. Whatever you chose to do, may you have a blessed day today.
L & L
The Darkness Part 1
11 years ago

Many Lightworkers say you must have lots of protection when doing any sort of healing, or Reiki attunements, and so forth. They have candles, crystals, bowls of salt water, use Reiki and/or religious symbols, and many other things, often quite outlandish in nature; like not walking out of the “circle of protection” during attunements!

THE TRUTH : You don’t need any of this, you do NOT need protection, and all of these things are fear-based. Yes, candles are nice symbols; and crystals can help you focus/store energy (if you feel you need this help), & symbols are useful tools. But you don’t need any of these for protection. 

Below are some of the answers that the Archangel Kryon has given many times about fear & protection, reproduced here with permission.

QUESTION : My second question is about shielding and psychic protection. Throughout my journey, I’ve been told that shielding is a must. I’ve never really liked to do it because I usually forget to do it. Now I’m wondering if shielding myself is keeping me in a duality mind-set? I have friends that say shielding is a must, especially when you’re a healer. What are your thoughts on this?

ANSWER: As we’ve discussed many times, shielding yourself keeps you not only in a duality mind-set, but also in an old energy of fear. If you’re carrying the light, and you know it, then no other energies will harm you. We understand what you’ve been taught as a healer, and also the reasons that were developed in an older energy that would require you to shield.

So let me ask you, do you think the masters who walked the earth shielded themselves? It’s almost laughable, isn’t it? Well, smile and laugh, since this is the energy we teach you about. As you create this light, know that you are whole. Know that the light is the shield, and that nothing can exist in it as long as there’s integrity. You’re claiming the exact energy of the masters.

There are some who point to this teaching as a "Kryon trick." They say that if you lower your shielding, then “creatures of the light” can invade you and take away your intelligence, your power, your logic, your divinity, and even your ability to know that something happened. Our answer to this is to examine what all the masters told you. They gave you this same message, over and over. They encouraged you to be just like them.

Some trick! It’s not a Kryon message, but a universal message that’s as old as humanity and just as potent for you today as when it was first given so long ago.

QUESTION: Dear Kryon, who is Lucifer, and what was the purpose of the Luciferian rebellion?

ANSWER: We know this will disappoint many and enrage many more, but there is no such thing as the devil, and there never was a real Lucifer. These were all metaphoric stories to help you understand yourselves. The darkest energy on the planet comes from the Human Being as a result of free choice. Even the added metaphoric story of Adam and Eve should have given you that information. Free choice meant that a Human could chose darkness even in the garden of light. It's what "duality" is capable of.

For those who don't believe this and would rather think that there are those who are after your soul, you still have free choice to think as you wish. But it will also keep you from seeing your magnificence within the love of God, as you base your reality in fear of dark entities.

From : Perceptions of Masterhood, Part III. "The Agreement"

If you're going to begin working with The Agreement, you're going to have to understand fear. I didn't say eliminate it because you can't do that. You're not allowed. Even the masters had fear, but they balanced it. They put it in its place. You see, fear is in the Human in a way that it can't be removed. It has to be there for you to have your duality. It's part of the test. However, it has to be put behind you. All of the things that you might fear - even the subtle things - have to be identified, recognized, and compartmentalized if need be, and relegated to a place behind the layer that is divine.

I'm trying to put this as simply as I can. But you might say, “Well, Kryon, I've done that. I have no fear issues. Let's move on.” Let me ask you, healer, do you protect yourself when you work on Humans who are in trouble? Do you have anything around you that will help you with the energetics so that those you heal will not affect you? Perhaps their negative energy interferes with your energy? Perhaps you have something to help with this? If you do, that's fear. 

Don't you trust your light? How divine do you have to be in order to approach lower energy without it affecting you? You're a piece of God! Everywhere you walk you carry a bubble of divinity, and the only thing that's going to pierce that bubble is you. In your disbelief and your fear, you void your power.

We're not here to judge you or admonish you. These teachings are only for instructions that tell you to put fear where it belongs - in back of you! Don't do anything that's specifically designed to protect you from the energy of others, for it’s not needed. You hold all the light. When you go to a place and imbue it with the brightest

Darkness Part 2
11 years ago

LIGHT: The most divine place on Earth, where there is the most light on this planet, exists in the Human mind within Human energy. It’s within the angelic part of humanity that wishes to show itself, enable itself, and claim its divinity. There's no group of bright, white angels who are standing by to take your hand and whip you into heaven should you choose to go. No. Instead, they're standing by in full regalia, willing to celebrate and love and press upon you with their energies to let you know they're there. The planet of free choice is like that. It's the Human who's enabled, and it's the Human who will make the difference in the history of the planet. It's the Human who has the responsibility for dark and light, not an outside force that's vying for your soul. But you've always known that, haven't you?

 Evil: What does the Master see when you say the word evil? Through the eyes of the ascended master, who sits and encompasses and thinks and meditates upon words and concepts, what does the master think about evil? This is information we gave you the last time we were with you, but we will give it to you again. You should hear it over and over.

Human Beings, you're indoctrinated with the idea that the entities around you are vying for your soul. They want your consciousness. You were brought up with information that said that there are evil entities and divine entities, and depending upon what you decided to do with your free choice, one side or the other wins. It's either the devils or the angels. There you are, riding a seesaw, being pulled between the two of them. Supposedly each has power, and you don't. So you better hook up to one of them so that you'll have some direction. Some have called this situation duality.

Dear ones, that is mythology! I'll give you the truth. The darkest thing you can imagine on this planet that has ever happened, or is happening, or that ever could ever be conceived, has been co-created and manifested by a Human. The evilest of the evil, the darkest of the dark, is no darker than the darkest place of the Human mind. Evil is what is created by a Human Being, not by another entity sent to Earth to capture you. Human Beings are powerful. They can manifest the dark as well as the light. It explains what you would call black magic. It is within the Human Beings, oddly enough, using the powers of their divinity this means that the Universe responds no matter what to create evil. It is the Human's free choice, and it always has been.

Now let me give you the other side of that. The most heavenly thing you can imagine on this planet, the brightest light, the greatest love ever in the history of humanity, resides in the Human Being. What we are telling you is that the dark and the light of it, angelic or evil, lies within the power structure and the grasp of every single Human Being on the planet. It is what we teach and what we have told you from the beginning. And the master knows this. The master is not afraid to stand in the pentagram of the most evil of ceremonies, for he knows that there's nothing more than the Human Being. There are no evil powers that can grasp him to take him anywhere. Only the dark side of the Human Being.

Here's what else the master knows: The tide is turning. It sounds trite, does it not, to say that you're moving toward the light? What else can we tell you? It's a higher vibration now. And when you measure the resonant frequency between the dirt of the earth and the top of the ionosphere Schumann Resonance, you'll get a geological measurement that has more than doubled in the last ten years. So what do you make of that? The earth is physically responding to a light force that's being created within the Human consciousness of the planet. The master knows that, so when he hears the word evil, he understands that it is what the Human creates. The master is not afraid, for the master also understands that the Human is therefore able to manage what he creates, and has masterhood over it.

Simple as it may sound, again we tell you that light is active, and dark is passive. When you stand in a dark room and turn on the light, the dark does not leak out and go somewhere else. Instead, it's transformed, and that's what has been happening on this planet. The balance between dark and light is a measurement of Human consciousness, not armies of demons and angels fighting one another, as you might have been told. This means that humanity has the power over all evil, as well as divinity. This is an empowering message. Don't be shocked if it meets with criticism.

L & L


Goddess/God at Play & Angels at Work
11 years ago
Blissed be, Ani (Goddess at Play     )