Thanks Renee. I find that quotes and inspirational writings really help with the problems in life. Also music. The song "I am woman" by Helen Reddy really helped me through some difficult times. It became my mantra, and I knew all the lines in the song.
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Judith, you have some nice, simple, but meaningful quotes. Your last one reminds of what a previous Pastor of my church used to say, "How do you know what a man believes? By the way he leads his life."
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Better than being the head of the family is being the heart of it.
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Quotes! March 08, 2007 9:26 AM
"Fondness of your fellow man brings you to the understanding, we are all one. The seperation comes in one's mind, not in the color of your skin, your religion or your hair color. The smallest seperation, is it not? The oneness you seek is not with all things but with yourself." Robin
"My Declaration of Self esteem: I am me. In all the world there is no one else exactly like me. There are persons who have some parts like me, but no one adds up exactly like me. Therefore everything that comes out of me is authentically mine because I alone chose it."
"Something precious is lost if we rush headlong into the
details of life without pausing for a moment to pay homage to the mystery of
life and the gift of another day."
Relate with others, but relate with yourself also. Love others, but love yourself also. Go out! - the world is beautiful, adventurous; it is a challenge, it enriches. Go out fearlessly - there is nothing to lose, there is everything to gain.
May the sun bring you new energy by day, may the moon
softly restore you by night, may the rain wash away your worries, may the breeze
blow new strength into your being.
To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its
best day and night to make you everybody else, means to fight the hardest battle
which any human being can fight, and never stop fighting.
-------------------------------------------------- "Things which matter most
must never be at the mercy of things which matter least" --Johann von
Goethe
Sorry to hear that Karrlynna September 04, 2006 9:35 AM
The happy heart gives away the best. To know how to receive
is also a most important gift, which cultivates generosity in others and keeps
strong the cycle of life.
Some people have a wonderful capacity to appreciate again
and again, freshly and naively, the basic goods of life, with awe, pleasure,
wonder, and even ecstasy.
"But penance need not be paid in suffering...It can be paid in
forward motion. Correcting the mistake is a positive move, a nurturing move."
~ Barbara Hall
Although we have been made to believe that if we let go we
will end up with nothing, life reveals just the opposite: that letting go is the
real path to freedom.
Today's Quote "Sometimes when we are generous in small, barely detectable
ways it can change someone else's life forever." ~ Margaret Cho
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How did the rose ever open its heart and give to this world
all of its beauty? It felt the encouragement of Light against its being;
otherwise we all remain too frightened.
Hafiz, translated by Daniel Ladinsky Love Poems from
God
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To find the universal elements enough; to find the air and
the water exhilarating; to be refreshed by a morning walk or an evening saunter;
to be thrilled by the stars at night; to be elated over a bird's nest or a
wildflower in spring - these are some of the rewards of the simple
life.
Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do
justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk humbly, now. You are not obligated to
complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it.
Here are four words to memorize: We are all One. Model that
when you make your next choices and decisions. Model that when you live your
life in every moment.
What can we gain by sailing to the moon if we are not able
to cross the abyss that separate us from ourselves? This is the most important
of all voyages of discovery, and without it, all the rest are not only useless,
but disastrous.
"Laughter relaxes. And relaxation is spiritual. Laughter
brings you to the earth, brings you down from your stupid ideas of being
holier-than-thou. Laughter brings you to reality as it is. The world
is a play of God, a cosmic joke. And unless you understand it as a cosmic
joke you will never be able to understand the ultimate mystery. I am
all for jokes, I am all for laughter."
There's a self expansive aspect of gratitude. Very possibly
it's a little known law of nature: the more gratitude you have, the more you
have to be grateful for.
Spring passes and one remembers one's innocence. Summer
passes and one remembers one's exuberance. Autumn passes and one remembers one's
reverence. Winter passes and one remembers one's perseverance.
A person who, alone, has seen something beautiful, who has
heard something harmonious, who has tasted something delicious, who has smelt
something fragrant, may have enjoyed it, but not completely. The complete joy is
in sharing one's joy with others.
Wholeheartedness is a precious gift, but no one can
actually give it to you. You have to find the path that has heart and then walk
it impeccably....It's like someone laughing in your ear, challenging you to
figure out what to do when you don't know what to do. It humbles you. It opens
your heart.
Today is a precious treasure, and it is yours. Allow yourself the joy and fulfillment of living every moment." ~ quote by Ralph Marston
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"There are many fine things which you mean to do some day,
under what you think will be more favorable circumstances. But the only time
that is yours is the present."
Today's Quote Bless us, dark earth as we give
back that which we have received as we make a forest of blessing a ridge
of blessing for the future to grow upon. --Chinook Psalter
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Gratitude for the gift of life is the primary wellspring of
all religions, the hallmark of the mystic, the source of all true art....It is a
privilege to be alive in this time when we can choose to take part in the
self-healing of our world.
Even Socrates, who lived a very frugal and simple life,
loved to go to the market. When his students asked about this, he replied, "I
love to go and see all the things I am happy without."
Jack Kornfield After the Ecstasy, the Laundry
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The Friend of God has these three qualities: a generosity
like that of the ocean, a compassion like that of the sun, and a humility like
that of the earth.
Through violence you may murder a murderer, but you can't murder murder. Through violence you may murder a liar, but you can't establish truth. Through violence you may murder a hater, but you can't murder hate. Darkness cannot put out darkness. Only light can do that.... Difficult and painful as it is, we must walk on in the days ahead with an audacious faith in the future. When our days become dreary with low-hovering clouds of despair, and when our nights become darker than a thousand midnights, let us remember that there is a creative force in this universe, working to pull down the gigantic mountains of evil, a power that is able to make a way out of no way and transform dark yesterdays into bright tomorrows. Let us realize the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice. - Martin Luther King Jr
Beloved, gaze in the thine own
heart, The holy tree is growing there; From joy the holy branches
start, And all the trembling flowers they bear. --W.B. Yeats
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People will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them
feel. --Bonnie Jean Wasmund
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All of us who are concerned for peace and triumph of reason and justice must be keenly aware how small an influence reason and honest good will exert upon events in the political field.Albert Einstein
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If we represent knowledge as a tree, we know
that things that
are divided are yet connected. We know that to observe the
divisions and ignore the connections is to destroy the tree. - Wendell Berry
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Wednesday, December 21, 2005 - To love is the greatest thing in life; it is very important to talk about love, to feel it, to nourish it, to treasure it, otherwise it will soon be dissipated, for the world is very brutal. If while you are young you don't feel love, if you don't look with love at people, at animals, at flowers, when you grow up you find that your life is empty; you will be very lonely, and the dark shadows of fear will follow you always. But the moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transformed. - Jiddhu Krishnamurthi
Once the blossoms are gone, the fruit becomes visible; when one fades away, the other starts growing. How could bread give strength without being broken? How could the grape give wine without being crushed?
Having once decided to achieve a certain task, achieve it at all costs of tedium and distaste. The gain in self-confidence of having accomplished a tiresome labor is immense.
Don't
let emotions push you into action or reaction. Just STOP and PAY
ATTENTION. Allow them to be and to speak to you. Once they are
acknowledged, their energy is released.
"Instead of resisting any emotion, the best way to dispel it is to enter it fully, embrace it and see through your resistance."
"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the
sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed
only if there is a light from within. " ~ Elizabeth
Kubler-Ross
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Holiness comes wrapped in the ordinary. There are burning
bushes all around you. Every tree is full of angels. Hidden beauty is waiting in
every crumb. Life wants to lead you from crumbs to angels, but this can happen
only if you are willing to unwrap the ordinary by staying with it long enough to
harvest its treasure.
Macrina Wiederkehr, O.S.B A Tree Full of Angels
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"Let us live our lives as a juicy, succulent celebration of who we are!
Let us exuberantly claim our right to be! Let us eliminate the
fundamental prejudice that manifests in many forms, which says that we
are not glorious exactly as we are and that will do more for peace in
our lives, and our world, than any other single act." ~ Jannette
Anderson
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"Our life's journey of self-discovery is not a straight-line rise from
one level of consciousness to another. Instead, it is a series of steep
climbs and flat plateaus, then further climbs. Even though we all
approach the journey from different directions, certain of the
journey's characteristics are common to all of us." ~ Stuart Wilde
When
we talk about understanding, surely it takes place only when the mind
listens completely -- the mind being your heart, your nerves, your
ears- when you give your whole attention to it. �J Krishnamurti
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Love is so exquisitely elusive. It cannot be bought, cannot
be badgered, cannot be hijacked. It is available only in one rare form: as the
natural response of a healthy mind and healthy heart.
There are forces at work in
your psyche which you cannot control. They belong to a deeper and wiser part of
yourself. Sometimes it is essential to change an aspect of your life. This is
often the case if you are in a situation which is wrong for you or stagnating.
If you resist change, your unconscious wisdom may give you a push by causing a
disturbance in your life. The shock you experience may therefore be a way of
forcing necessary change on you. --Sarah Dening
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Love is the best means of making the heart capable of
reflecting the soul power, and love in the sense of pain rather than of
pleasure. Every blow opens a door whence the soul power comes
forth.
I was shown a fledgling
learning how to fly. Its first efforts were very feeble, but as it used its
wings more and more, they became stronger until it found the freedom of flight
and was able to soar to great heights and fly great distances without any
effort. I heard the words: Faith comes with practice. Live by faith until it
becomes rocklike, unshakable, and find the true freedom of the
Spirit. --Eileen Caddy
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Gratitude is something of which none of us can give too
much. For on the smiles, the thanks we give, our little gestures of
appreciation, our neighbors build their philosophy of life.
"A sundance woman is like the morning star, filled with
spiritual beauty, wisdom and knowledge. Men and women are the most powerful of
the polarities. We walk beside men as equal partners. It takes men and women who
have respect and love for one another to live within the embrace of Father Sky
and Mother Earth."
All respectability, all honor is meaningless if it drives
you against your nature. What can you do if you are not a lotus flower, but just
a marigold? Enjoy being a marigold.
We all have deep within us the
inner “knower” to whom we can look for guidance. But everyday life is full of
distractions which prevent us from being in touch with this natural wisdom. To
gain access to it needs a relaxed and quiet mind. The calmer you become, the
stronger and more self-reliant you will feel. --Sarah Dening
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I’ve been absolutely terrified
every moment of my life--and I’ve never let it keep me from doing a single thing
I wanted to do. --Georgia O’Keeffe
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I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely
miserable...but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be
alive is a grand thing.
Love all that has been created by God, both the whole and
every grain of sand. Love every leaf and every ray of light. Love the beasts and
the birds, love the plants, love every separate fragment. If you love each
separate fragment, you will understand the mystery of the whole resting in God.
Try to treat with equal love all the people with whom you
have relations. Thus the abyss between "myself" and "yourself" will be filled
in, which is the goal of all religious worship.
If we are to achieve a richer culture, rich in contrasting
values, we must recognize the whole gamut of human potentialities, and so weave
a less arbitrary social fabric, one in which each diverse human gift will find a
fitting place.
It is a huge danger to pretend that awful things do not
happen. But you need enough hope to keep going. I am trying to make hope.
Flowers grow out of darkness.
Within and around the earth,
within and around the hills, within and around the mountains, your
authority returns to you. --Alfonso Ortiz
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"There is a way that nature speaks, that
land speaks.
Most of the time we are simply not patient enough,
quiet enough, to pay attention to the story." —Linda Hogan
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The
best remedy for those who are afraid,
lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where
they can be quiet, alone with the heavens and nature."
~ Anne
Frank
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Reverence the highest, have patience with the lowest. Let
this day's performance of the meanest duty be thy religion. Are the stars too
distant, pick up the pebble that lies at thy feet, and from it learn the
all.
Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and
keep choosing it every day. It is a choice based on the knowledge that we belong
to God and have found in God our refuge and our safety and that nothing, not
even death, can take God away from us.
By being attentive, by learning to listen (or recovering
the natural capacity to listen which cannot be learned any more than breathing),
we can find ourself engulfed in such happiness that it cannot be explained; the
happiness of being at one with everything in that hidden ground of Love for
which there can be no explanations.
Thomas Merton Thomas Merton: Essential Writings
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Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or
consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with
love, grace, and gratitude.
Sagehood has nothing to do with governing others but is a matter of ordering oneself. Nobility has nothing to do with power and rank but is a matter of self realization. Attain self-realization, and the whole world is found in the self. Happiness has nothing to do with wealth and status, but is a matter of harmony. - Lao-tze
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Xenia Z.
August 29, 2005 1:51 AM
The only way you can
successfully communicate and relate to other people, is to like yourself. ~Author Unknown
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Why do you hasten to remove anything which hurts your eye, while if
something affects your soul you postpone the cure until next year?
~Horace
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Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you
start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that
point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to
either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live. PEMA CHODRON
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