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Topic: WELCOME TO THE GROUP

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Abel S.	WELCOME TO THE GROUP December 29, 2005 9:48 AM I HOPE THIS ROOM WILL MAKE YOU FEEL AT HOME OR YOUR LOCAL PUB WHERE YOU CAN SAY WHAT YOU WANT AND HAVE SOME ONE LISTEN TO YOU. I WILL NOT TRY AND JUDGE YOU OR PUT YOU DOWN FOR SHARING YOUR PAIN OR HAPPINESS. I WILL TRY AND ENCOURAGE YOU TO DO YOU BEST AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT AND FORGIVE YOU WHEN YOU MAKE A MISTAKE. I AM JUST A MAN AND HAVE MADE MY MISTAKES IN LIFE SO I UNDERSTAND WHAT GOES ON. MAYBE SOMEONE CAN HELP ME MAKE THIS A PLACE WHERE WE ALL BECOME FRIENDS. HAPPY NEW YEAR. ABEL [ send green star]
Allan W.	Hi! December 29, 2005 10:33 AM Not a good Christmas for me.. missing my dog... missing my soul mate. not good compony ... [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	December 29, 2005 10:48 AM HI ALLEN I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR SAD CHRISTMAS. I TOO HAD A SAD CHRISTMAS. I GAVE UP MY FIGHT FOR CUSTODY OF MY KIDS THE DAY AFTER CHRISTMAS. IT BROKE MY HEART TO SEND THEM BACK TO THERE MOM.I WISH YOU HAPPINESS IN THE NEW YEAR. I HOPE YOU FIND NEW LOVE EVEN IF IN THE FORM OF A NEW PUPPY. I MAY HAVE TO GIVE UP MY DOG SOON.WE MAY BE MOVING TO A PLACE THAT DOES NOT ALLOW DOGS. THIS MAKES ME VERY SAD. THANKS FOR STOPPING BY TODAY. GOD BLESS YOU. [ send green star]
anonymous	December 29, 2005 10:52 AM Hiya! I'm a girl, but can I come play too? [report anonymous abuse] [ accepted]
Allan W.	Happy New Year December 29, 2005 11:04 AM I wish you Happiness and love,I am down and waiting for the time when things get better as they so,Time will heal, But have I got that much time? Big hugs anyway... there are a lot in a worse situation than myself.. that I do know Be Happy .. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Allan W.	Come and play. December 29, 2005 11:05 AM PLEASE! [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	HI December 29, 2005 11:05 AM HI NONNIE WELCOME TO THE PLACE , HOPE ITS NOT TO MESSY FOR YOU. YOU KNOW HOW US GUYS ARE. WE ONLY CLEAN UP WHEN WE KOW SOME ONE IS COMING. [ send green star]
Abel S.	HI ALLEN December 29, 2005 11:06 AM WHAT HAPPEN TO YOUR SOUL MATE AND DOG? [ send green star]
Allan W.	What happened December 29, 2005 1:26 PM My dog I had to put down, his back legs went, had him for twelve years... at the same time my soul mate of three and a half years found another love, yes I am shattered,I know it will pass, ok fade, the memories are always there. But do we have to know what love is by losing it? [ send green star] [ accepted]
anonymous	December 29, 2005 3:39 PM Abel- You're talking to the complete opposite of a neat-freak here. Alan- HI! Nice to meet you. Sorry bout your dog. [report anonymous abuse] [ accepted]
anonymous	Sorry December 29, 2005 3:40 PM Allan! sorry for the misspelling. (bad mouse, bad mouse) [report anonymous abuse] [ accepted]
Abel S.	NONNIE December 29, 2005 4:29 PM NONNIE DID YOU GET MY MESSAGE ABOUT THE SMILYS? [ send green star]
Abel S.	December 29, 2005 4:52 PM ALLEN ARE YOU LOOKING AT GETTING A NEW DOG? I AM SURE THAT A NEW LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY TO YOU. YOU ARE A TRULY A NICE GENTALMAN. [ send green star]
NANCE O.	December 29, 2005 5:06 PM HI Thanks for the invite ABEL S. Looks like the right place to me. I had a sad Christmas too. I lost my two 16 years old dogs WOLFE and DOVE ( that the longest I have been with anyone or anything) except my house. Did cover my bases, I got some new puppies, and the old one show them the facts of camping and living with me. So the New Year will be better. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Kathleen S.	Let it out December 29, 2005 5:41 PM I am so glad Abel (my hubby!) started this group. I need this one more than anything. Sometimes we just need to vent, sometimes we just need a shoulder, sometimes just whatever. He probably started it so I'd quit venting on him all the time!! Just joking hun! Abel is the best listener ever. I am sorry for the people here who have lost their dogs. We have to move soon and if we cant buy a house we will have to go to the only place around here that here than we can get but they don't allow dogs. Allen, I know you hurt right now and I dont know if I can make you feel any better or not but here goes...... at one point in my life I never wanted a relationship ever again. I thought all men were crap and I didnt want to meet another one again. Then Abel came along. I tried real hard to stay away from him but he persisted and now we are very happily married. My point is this, someday when you dont expect it or maybe dont even want it, the woman of your dreams is going to come along and change your life for the better. Hang in there. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Megan S.	:( December 29, 2005 5:45 PM I'm only home for 2 weeks before I have to go away again, it's the only thing I've been looking forward to for the last 4 months and since I've been home me and my fiance do nothing but fight. Our relationship through the whole 4 months was great until I found out what was going on at home while I was gone. What do you do when the only person you have to run to when you're hurting is the one who's hurting you? [ send green star] [ accepted]
Kathleen S.	Megan December 29, 2005 6:47 PM I hope this doesnt sound too corny but this is what I have learned. If the person you turn to when you are hurt is now the person who is hurting you then you need to let them go. Try to find happiness in yourself. Dont go looking for love, let it find you. Be happy, spend time with friends. Do things for yourself. [ send green star] [ accepted]
anonymous	December 29, 2005 9:44 PM What do you do when the only person you run to when you're hurting is hurting you? I know about that one a little too well, but it's with my best friend. Lately I've been thinking of just moving on, but we've been through so much together. I'm moving away from here soon so I guess I'll just deal with it then. Anyway, Megan, totally move on. Like someone else on this thread said, try to find joy and comfort in yourself and your friends. Everything is bound to come together eventually. Abel, yep, got your message. I'm not sure where, but somewhere in the group modifications theres a place to change this so it won't be on "basic editor" and when that changes there will be little symbols above the typing box. The one all the way to the left is the one where the emoticons are. There's a ton of them. It took me the longest time to figure that out. [report anonymous abuse] [ accepted]
Megan S.	... December 29, 2005 11:59 PM No, I'm not gonna move on. I don't mean to not take your advice because really I'm listening, but I love him. I wouldn't be able to be with anyone else, we've been through so much together already. I know we can get through the hard times, this will pass and we'll be happy again. It's just hard at the time. This isn't just any relationship, it's a special one. Love has found me and I'm gonna hang onto it as tight as I can, we can make our relationship work. I know I made things sound terrible earlier, I was just upset and I think I blow things out of proportion when I get sad and emotional.Thanks for listening and all the advice, I hope to get the same treatment in the future! [ send green star] [ accepted]
Allan W.	To All December 30, 2005 2:14 AM Yes I will get a new dog, dogs in beed of a home are all to easy to find, that is sad.... I will get one, as for a soul mate that will happen if it is to be... Thank you all for careing, and I care about you.. Happy New Year And Big hugs Allan [ send green star] [ accepted]
Drew B.	December 30, 2005 10:48 AM Hi! I'm Drew. [ send green star] [ accepted]
anonymous	December 30, 2005 10:53 AM Drew!!! How's the weather in Tijeras? [report anonymous abuse] [ accepted]
Chris S.	December 30, 2005 11:07 AM so many losing dogs and/or are alone. It's awful to lose an animal friend, they love you unconditionally and are always there when you need a fellow creature to listen to or just hug. Abel I'm sorry to hear about you giving up the fight for your kids, my brother did the same for both of his from different relationships. I hope you keep in touch with them. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Megan S.	yes, December 30, 2005 3:16 PM losing a pet is almost harder than losing a person, they're so innocent and love everyone unconditionally. I always cry the most when I pet dies in a movie...more than when the people die, is that cold hearted? My pets have always been my best friends, they were always there for me even when my best (person) friend was mad at me. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Megan S.	oops! December 30, 2005 3:18 PM ...clicked submit a little too soon, meant to get the last message in there... Good luck in finding your new little pal! [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	MORNINGSTAR December 31, 2005 8:03 AM HELLO, PLEASE DO NOT WORRY ABOUT ME SEEING MY KIDS, I DO SEE THEM WEEKLY AND SPEAK EVERYDAY TO THEM. KAT AND I ARE LOOKING FOR A LARGER HOME THAT WILL ALLOW THE KIDS THEIR OWN ROOMS. WHEN WE FIND SOMETHINK THEN I WILL TRY AND GET CUSTODY OF THEM. HAPPY NEW YEAR GOD BLESS [ send green star]
Abel S.	HI DREW December 31, 2005 8:06 AM HELLO DREW, ITS NICE TO SEE YOU HERE. I HAVE WRITTEN TO YO MANY TIMES WITH NO REPLY. I HOPE THAT YOU FIND I HOME HERE AND MAKE FRIENDS. MY BROTHER INLAW WHOM LIVES WITH US IS ALSO IN A CHAIR. I SEE HOW HE FEELS AND CAN RELATE TO WHAT YOU MUST GO THRU ON A DAILY BASIS. I HOPE THAT YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL NEW YEAR AND AM HAPPY TO BE YOUR FRIEND. [ send green star]
Abel S.	HI NANCE December 31, 2005 8:08 AM IT IS SO NICE TO HEAR THAT YOU DID GET SOME NEW PUPS. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE THEM. THANKS FOR JOINING THE GROUP. HAPPY NEW YEAR. [ send green star]
Abel S.	HELLO AGAIN MEGAN December 31, 2005 8:12 AM I THINK THAT YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING, HOLD ON. HOLD ON REALLY TIGHT TO THE THINGS AND ONES THAT YOU LOVE. LEARN TO FORGIVE AND IN DOING SO SHOWING YOUR LOVE. THIS WILL MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRONGER. JUST KEEP PRAYING THAT WHAT EVER HAPPENED WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN. THEN IF EVER YOU HAVE TO MAKE A DECISION YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT YOU TRIED YOU BEST. HAPPY NEW YEAR. GOD BLESS. [ send green star]
Abel S.	December 31, 2005 8:18 AM EVERYONE IS SPECIAL. THANKS FOR BEING HERE. [ send green star]
Abel S.	NONNIE December 31, 2005 8:19 AM HEY THANKS . I FOUND IT. [ send green star]
Abel S.	December 31, 2005 8:07 PM HAPPY NEW YEAR [ send green star]
Megan S.	Thanks Abel January 01, 2006 11:22 AM I think I did the right thing. Everything is worked out and better now, and I know it won't happen again. I know because he pinky swore that he wouldn't (haha, we're silly like that). But seriously, I think what happened hurt him worse than it hurt me, I've never seen him in so much pain. He's getting his second chance to prove to me that it won't happen again because tomorrow I'm going away for another five weeks and if everything stays ok at home, I'll know I can trust him again. We'll be ok now. Thanks for the support! Thanks [ send green star] [ accepted]
Allan W.	Megan January 01, 2006 12:28 PM I think that you have done the right thing, anther chance is good, but stop at that one chance, be loved and happy Big hug Allan [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	January 01, 2006 1:10 PM [ send green star]
Abel S.	January 02, 2006 6:18 AM GOOD LUCK MEGAN. HAVE A SAFE TOUR [ send green star]
Kathleen S.	I'm sick of it!!! January 03, 2006 7:03 PM I'm sick of it all!! I'm sick of my job, I'm sick finding out that if I go back to school I have to ship my kids off to dads because I will be gone from 8am to 11pm Mon - Thurs. I'm sick of not making enough money, I'm sick of not having the job I want, I'm sick of not having enough time with my kids, I'm sick of having to reset my computer, I'm just sick of being sick.!!! Now that I got all that off my chest I feel much better now!!' Thanks for letting me get that all out. Kat [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	kat January 03, 2006 8:18 PM i hope that you feel better baby. [ send green star]
Allan W.	Cheer up January 04, 2006 1:55 AM You were sick but now you are getting better, sending you love and light to help.. Hugs Allan [ send green star] [ accepted]
Kathleen S.	I'm sick of it!!! January 04, 2006 5:17 PM I was feeling better but today I have a bad attitude. People need to grow up and stop acting like babies. I'm tired of people who have nothing better to do but sit on the internet and "pretend" all day. Some of the stuff I see on this website just shows me that some people have too much time on their hands and I just dont have but 10 minutes to check this group and then do something else. Maybe I'm jealous...... [ send green star] [ accepted]
Kathleen S.	January 04, 2006 5:23 PM I dont want people to think I have an attitude all the time because I dont. But getting it out in one form or another helps. I dont know where the attitude came from today, its just there. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Allan W.	we are listening to you January 05, 2006 3:09 AM Oh dear it seems that you need more love and light sending to you, I for one am sending, open your heart and looh at the beauty all around you .... or if it makes you feel better tell me to shut up. Hugs Allan [ send green star] [ accepted]
Kathleen S.	January 05, 2006 8:03 PM Allan, You dont have to shut up. Thanks for what you said. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Kathleen S.	January 07, 2006 5:50 PM where is everybody lately>?? [ send green star] [ accepted]
Allan W.	January 08, 2006 8:56 AM Perhaps being sick is catching... So I am sending out love and light to all, just open your eyes and look at the beauty all around.. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Kathleen S.	January 08, 2006 11:35 AM I dont think I want to be part of a group anymore, I have never been one to be on a personal level with anyone except one person, my husbad. I dont have friends except my husband and one other person. I am a very private person and I think I would like to keep it that way. Thanks all, thanks allan for your kind words Kat [ send green star] [ accepted]
Cessie D.	Hello January 13, 2006 8:53 AM Hi, my name's Cessie... I think this is the best group ever.....I've got some problems too though...I think I can deal with them.. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	January 18, 2006 11:00 AM HI CESSIE, THANKS FOR STOPPING BY. I HOPE THAT YOU FEEL LIKE HOME HERE. STOP BY OFTEN. [ send green star]
Cessie D.	Abel January 20, 2006 9:16 AM Thanks Abel, I will, I will! [ send green star] [ accepted]
Chris S.	January 21, 2006 11:02 AM created just for you Abel [ send green star] [ accepted]
Allan W.	January 21, 2006 11:31 AM I am sure that Able will like that ... Big Hugs Allan [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	January 26, 2006 9:05 PM [ send green star]
Abel S.	February 05, 2006 6:13 PM hope you all are having a great day [ send green star]
Abel S.	have a great weekend all May 28, 2006 1:36 PM [ send green star]
anonymous	May 29, 2006 7:16 AM hello,everyone.am new here.i hope everyone has a safe happy memorial day.remember and support our troops. [report anonymous abuse] [ accepted]
Abel S.	July 10, 2006 1:24 PM hi everyone i hope that your day is full of blessings [ send green star]
Allan W.	Thanks July 11, 2006 2:01 AM The sun is bright the skies are blue the birds are singing. my heart too life is full of many blessings.. [ send green star] [ accepted]
Abel S.	August 03, 2006 6:12 PM hey allen nice to see you visit here too [ send green star]
Abel S.	IMPORTANT TO ME September 01, 2006 1:26 PM http://www.care2.com/c2c/groups/disc.html?gpp=8612&pst=507415 [ send green star]
Abel S.	November 05, 2006 10:54 AM HI [ send green star]
Abel S.	funny how things change September 07, 2009 9:29 PM kat was my best friend and lover and wife.....now she is gone and i am still happy. Hope she is too. [ send green star]