a letter to the lonely hearted March 09, 2007 3:32 PM
What I have to say on finding Mr. Right!
We all have looked for Mr. Right some have already found their true loves better halves ECT. To them congratulations.
This is for the rest of us blokes out there searching. I won't tell you that someday you'll find Mr. right cause all that does is prolong the pain of loneliness...been there too many times.
When we are looking for your special mate we need to remember that no matter what we need to proceed on. This is not a simple journey to the grocery store but rather a quest for the Holy Grail, if you will. We will no doubt face off against what seem like impossible odds but that never really matters it's not the destination but the journey that makes us who we are.
Sure we all might know of some people willing to be friends with benefits but in the end (no pun intended) they leave us feeling emptier on the inside than a boyfriend would.
I know we all are looking for "thee perfect one" but really if there was such a perfect person would they really want us? Think about those exes that was so close to perfection but there was a slight imperfection that either they or we allowed to ruin the relationship. Think about how it would have been if (n case if we did it) we hadn't allowed that slight imperfection in their character to ruin the relationship...
What I often find amazing is this we spend money going on-line in order to reach out to other people but we are so afraid just to come meet in person...just for a drink or talk that we loose the human connection and all we end up with is carpal tunnel from all the damned typing we've done.
We need to (yes even me at times) need to get off the keys and just meet others like us. we all should at least go out once or twice a week with friends just to help disperse the fog of loneliness that has swept our community
i for one am willing to meet any friend that I have on-line if it's reasonable (had meet one that wasn't) timing...in other words ask to meet some one at least a week in advance and three weeks for out of fifty mile range and if out of country well come visit please not easy for us working blokes to just head on over to you...
but think about every one that has read my soapbox confession and lesson...if your lonely what can YOU do to end it this is a fight up stream we single people are trout heading to our final destination....
i wish to thank all my friends who are just like me at times feeling lonely and abandoned...this is for you especially.
From my heart eternally,
wolf ranger3740 aka
RAVENous Hunter Nightingale aka
Father Reverend Keith Peter Focker aka
[ send green star]