it is not in having wants or needs...do not desire what the world offers but get through the storms, the ins the outs with grace and beauty...without being effected...to be boujie...bourgeousie? Not for ss(small sister)...to be sadhak, wise sage, better than anything in life...like a drop in the ocean is the significance of ones life...to be at peace is more precious than gold. Look around you at all people acquire and posess, where is the happiness? Is it attained. aquired by posessions?