A very short tattooed widowed pierced goth hippie w/ a litttle punk shephardic jew/native american,spanish, portoguese w/ a little samoan/pacific islander, carib indian, asian, mongolian, and black (is there anything I'm not?) who is very sweet who has trouble standing up for herself so she does it for other people.
I have 18 tattoos plus my left arm is sleeved, besides tattoos on various other parts. My tattoo artist, Alex Konkin, is the best! I became a widow on July 23, 2011. I woke up and found my husband, of almost ten years, dead. He was only 39. I was 33
To love and help as many people as possible. Not out of fear for my soul, but because it is my duty as a human being.
What Gives Me Hope
Being with my husband for eternity, never to be parted again.
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by
What/who changed my life and why
Losing my eternal soulmates, my one and only true love, my best friend, and then being denied my rights at the funeral by his sister who had disowned him years ago and had been disowned by him. Not getting to walk behind the coffin, be the last to say goodbye before they closed the coffin, and not mentioning me or our relationship during the service at all. It was her final "f you" to him because he couldn't fight back. I HAD rights and was denied them. I have always been for same-sex marriage, after going through what I went through I actually understand what happens if you don't have that piece of paper (even though I did) Now I want to fight harder so NO ONE has to go through what I did. It has truly added to my grief.
I have them tattooed on my forearm:
"Be the change you wish to she in the world" Ghandi
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Jr.
"I know not what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones." Einstein