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Barry H.

"Home is where the heart of love is; synergistic transformation"

Bangor, ME, USA
male, age 51
single
Teacher and Writer
Joined Dec 8, 2004
What I Want to Do:


 
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Hometown Bangor, ME 
Homepage  
Birthday Jan 30, 1958  
Languages  
About Me In terms of my career, I am working as a teacher, in the field of World History/Global Cultures, and related areas of study. I am also an inspirational writer. The writings that I am currently working on focus primarily upon Optimal Human Relationship and Interpersonal Communication, as a basis of Psychological Maturation, Spiritual Fulfillment, Holistic Healing, and Creative Inspiration.

My personal lifestyle and ethical values are very wholesome, grounded in my substantial sense of integrity and constructive psychological maturity. I am a very sincere, trustworthy, compassionate, warmhearted, empathic, intuitive, unselfish, emotionally generous, open-minded, cheerful, relaxed, good-humored, tolerant, non-judgmental, accepting, person.

I treasure deeply caring relationships with family and friends. I would like to make friends with other members of this network who share at least some of my basic values, and who would like to explore how caring human relationships, involving good interpersonal communication, unselfish generosity of spirit, and synergistic/co-creative connection of hearts and minds, can contribute to the progressive transformation and revitalization of individuals, groups, global cultures, and contemporary society. Relatedly, I have a strong interest in discussing ways of developing a deeply caring, inclusive, sense of local and global community, grounded in a sense of sacred kinship or family feeling between all people, and all living beings.
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Pets  
Activist Aspirations
Political Leaning Liberal
Religions Jewish  
Eating Habits Almost Vegetarian  
Wild Fact About Me I am a person of considerable depth, sensitivity, and sincerity. I can be very playful, funny, spontaneous, and even zany, at times, although I also have a rather serious side.
My Philosophy Our real self is a relational self; the non-relational selfish ego is not our real self. Therefore, we are most substantially enriched by what we unselfishly contribute to the lives of other individuals. True self-discovery and self-enhancement comes from unselfishly serving others, rather than from narcissistic self-preoccupation or presumptive self-definition. Relatedly, the only way to discover what is most fully alive in oneself is to help bring out what is most fully alive in other individuals.
What Gives Me Hope What brings me hope is recognizing that there is an essential goodness in everyone, no matter how deeply buried and dormant it may be. I recognize that, at some level, everyone is, truly, beautiful in their own special way, and I greatly enjoy bringing out the special inner beauty and creative muse of other individuals.
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by I would encourage people to recognize that the selfish "me" attitude does not bring real and lasting happiness, whereas the unselfish relational "we" attitude does bring great happiness, in feeling deeply connected to others, in a true and deep sense of community.
What/who changed my life and why
What Bugs Me  
Passions peace  
Inspirations  
What Scares Me  
  Favorites
Role Models  
Quotation 1) Martin Buber ("The Way of Response"): "All real living is meeting."

2) St. Exupery ("The Little Prince"):
"Only the heart sees clearly, because what is essential is not visible to the eyes."

3) Lakota Instructions for Living:
"Friend, do it this way-that is,
whatever you do in life,
do the very best you can
with both our heart and mind.

And if you do it that way,
the Power of The Universe
will come to your assistance,
if your heart and mind are in Unity.

When one sits in the Hoop Of The People,
one must be responsible because
All Of Creation is related.
And the hurt of one is the hurt of all.
And the Honor of one is the honor of all.
And whatever we do affects everything in the universe.

If you do it that way-that is,
if you truly join your heart and mind
as One-whatever you ask for,
that's the Way It's Going to Be."

(passed down from White Buffalo Calf Woman).
Interests Transforming the World Through Synergist, Optimal Human Relationship and Interpers, Building Global Family and Local Communi, Cultural Ecology and Societal Transforma  
Books  
Music 60's, folk, international, classical (Beethoven), opera (Puccini), Lawrence Welk, Klezmer, jazz, John Denver, Barbra Streisand, Roger Whittaker, Josh Groban  
Movies Lagaan, Random Harvest, Chocolat, The Thorn Birds, Somewhere in time, Kate and Leopold (I am somewhat like Leo, 2001, ET, AI, Bicentential Man, Cocoon, Close Encounters, Sound of Music, Mary Poppins, Fiddler on the Roof  
TV Shows The Waltons, Touched by an Angel, Smallville, Star Trek, Planet of the Apes, Kung Fu, Lassie, Bewitched, I Dream of Jeannie  
Favorite Foods I prefer wholesome vegetarian foods. Som, but I usually try to avoid junk foods, because I view the body as a Holy Temple  
Favorite Places  
Can't Live Without 1) Caring Relationships with Family and , 2) Integrity of Character, compassion and wholesome ethical values, sincerity and truthfulness., 3) Challenging myself to learn more abou, challenging myself to grow  
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Safe by Design (Reposted article on Green Technology)
(Nov 16) Article on Green chemistry, URL Link: http://www.bioneers.org/node/1444  Reposted from http://www.bioneers.org website ... more »
MANIFESTING INNER AND OUTER PEACE
(Oct 19) Peace must actually be lived, along with indivisibly related qualities of goodness such as love, happiness, and beauty, because it is ... more »
Why Good Communication is the Foundation of Enduring True Friendship
(May 2) Agreement or disagreement is much less important than good communication as a way of enabling people to deeply understand each other... more »
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Hilda B. (187)
Testimonial on Mar 4, 2006
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Nov 21, 2009 3:47 PM

Dandelion G. (124)

MOST GRATEFUL FOR YOUR SIGNATURE ON THE INDIAN PETITION. I HAVE A PERSONAL FRIEND WHO LIVES NOT FAR FROM ME THAT WAS FORCED TO GO TO ONE OF THESE SCHOOLS. SHE WAS 8 YEARS OLD AND SO WAS HER FRIEND. HER FRIEND LAY IN A BED ALL NIGHT SICK WITH NO HELP GIVEN BY THE ADULTS. ALL MY FRIEND COULD DO WAS HOLD HER HAND AND SING SOFTLY TO HER IN THEIR INDIAN WORDS. IN THE MORNING SHE WATCHED AS HER FRIEND WAS TAKEN OUTSIDE IN THE BLANKET THAT HAD COVERED HER AND PUT INTO AN UNMARKED GRAVE WITH NO CEREMONY. MY FRIEND HAS THIS FOR A CHILDHOOD SCHOOL MEMORY!! NO CHILD SHOULD DIE LIKE THAT BUT SHE WAS INDIAN SO SHE DID. MY FRIEND IS ALIVE TODAY WHO ENDURES THIS MEMORY, THIS ISN'T ANCIENT HISTORY!
Nov 20, 2009 10:20 PM

Dandelion G. (124)

Nov 19, 2009 10:48 PM

Marie M. (27)


Hello, my friend, Barry,
As I told you on a message I will write to you personnally all details about it...
My daughter is really sick...
Have a great evening,
Hugs from
Marie xx
Thank you so very much

Nov 17, 2009 6:26 PM

Dandelion G. (124)
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MAY GREEN STAR BLESSINGS RAIN DOWN UPON YOU FOR THE
GREEN STAR YOU GIFTED ME....THANK YOU
Nov 17, 2009 1:22 AM

Dandelion G. (124)
GO TO LUSTYPROFILES.COM
DID YOU REALIZE NATIVE AMERICANS WERE INSTRUMENTAL
IN BUILDING NYC? CLICK ON THIS LINK TO LEARN MORE.
http://www.nmai.si.edu/exhibitions/booming_out/indexfla.htm

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Nov 16, 2009 7:00 PM

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Oct 24, 2009 5:15 AM

Marie M. (27)


Let me say good night sweet friend, Barry!
Love and big

Marie with ??  frienship.
Oct 23, 2009 8:03 AM

Marie M. (27)


Morning Glory
Before going to bed at 4:10 here are 2 Morning Glory!  I am sure you like them and for me I prefer the blue one like these ones.

Talk to you soon, and it is Friday!!


Marie     you know the meaning of these 2 flowers...





Oct 18, 2009 11:26 PM

Marie M. (27)


Barry, thank you for being my friend!

Marie
Oct 18, 2009 1:22 PM

Marie M. (27)


Rainy day of October in Bar Harbor, Maine
Oct 18, 2009 1:57 AM

Marie M. (27)

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Oct 13, 2009 1:48 PM

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Oct 13, 2009 12:06 PM

Dandelion G. (124)
Lupus Awareness
MY OWN DAD DIED FROM LUPUS
PLEASE MAKE YOURSELF AWARE
http://www.lupus.org/newsite/index.html
OCTOBER IS LUPUS AWARENESS MONTH
Oct 11, 2009 2:01 AM

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Oct 6, 2009 10:05 PM

Dandelion G. (124)

THE VIDEO I SENT THIS TIME IS A LITTLE DIFFERENT BUT
I HOPE YOU WILL ENJOY. MY DAUGHTER AND I SAW THE
SHEN YUN PERFORMING ARTS SHOW AND ENJOYED IT
VERY MUCH. CLICK ONTO LINK WILL GIVE GOOD IDEA
OF THE SHOW WE SAW LAST WEEK.
http://www.shenyunperformingarts.org/
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Oct 6, 2009 2:34 PM

Dandelion G. (124)
THIS IS SO PRETTY WITH FIREFLIES AND ALL...I ALSO LIKE HER SINGING
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