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Lola L.

"Bringing Our Communities Together/ Stopping the violence!"

Fairfax, VA, USA
female, age 39
single, 2 children
Speaks: English, Sign Language (American)
Joined Nov 14, 2005
What I Want to Do:

Affirmations for Self-Esteem

Having high self-esteem will make me more effective.

I can influence my own future by planning and taking action to meet my goals.

There are many things I do successfully.

I can improve my self-esteem by meeting my own expectations.

I do not have to strive for perfection to approve of myself.

By accepting and loving myself I am giving a gift to the world.

I alone am responsible for the decisions I make.

I am a unique individual.

Persistence will help me succeed.

No matter what someone else says or does to me I am still a worthwhile person.

Every mistake I make can be an opportunity to learn.

There are many things I can do and enjoy that I have not yet discovered.

I can overcome obstacles to reach my goals.

Encouragement helps me to improve more than harsh criticism.

I will achieve goals I set for myself or revise them when I decide it's appropriate.

My worth as a human being does not depend on achieving a perfect body image or weight.

I deserve support and will ask for help when I need it.

My future begins now.

I have the power to forgive myself for past mistakes.

I will treat myself as someone special.

I determine what success means to me.



copyright 1996 by Patricia A. Doherty, Ph.D.



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Birthday Feb 15, 1976  
Languages English, Sign Language (American)  
About Me Kind, Intelligent, and Funny
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Pets yes  
Activist Aspirations Casual
Political Leaning
Eating Habits Keep it Healthy  
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My Philosophy Speak for yourself because no one can speak what is in your heart!
What Gives Me Hope Believing we can overcome racial boundries and bring peace amongst the human race.
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Interests pets, Anthropology, Archaeology, Aromatherapy, Magnet Therapy, Massage, Meditation, Mind/Body/Spirit, Children, Computers, Pets, Naturists / Nudists, Music, Crystals, Ethnic Studies, Fitness, Sociology, Seed Exchange, Psychology, Politic  
Music Jazz R&B  
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Favorite Foods  
Favorite Places Anywhere I can be around those I love  
Can't Live Without My kids, family, laughter, my dog, friends  
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    Feb 11, 2011 9:18 AM

    Bev A. (70)

    Happy Birthday Lola!
    Feb 14, 2010 4:30 PM

    Kristi K. (2029)

    Feb 8, 2010 10:37 AM

    Bev A. (70)
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    Happy Birthday Lola!

    Jul 19, 2009 3:08 PM

    Kisha F. (114)

    Missing ya'll!
    Feb 17, 2009 5:51 PM

    MsDeb T. (176)

    Sorry I missed your special day!  Hope it was happy!
    Feb 14, 2009 8:22 AM

    Kristi K. (2029)

    Feb 10, 2009 7:39 AM

    Bev A. (70)
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    Happy Birthday Lola

    I wish you all the best always.


    Jun 17, 2008 4:33 PM

    Sheldon J. (4045)

    Please sign this very important Petition concerning Gross Human Rights Abuse in America!

    Here is the link to my Petition - (Visit my page & share with others)

    - Sheldon

    Feb 15, 2008 6:34 PM

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    Feb 8, 2008 6:59 AM

    Bev A. (70)


    I wish you all the best always.


    Nov 12, 2007 2:05 AM

    Aisha M. (613)
    A Rose for a Rose....xxxxx
    Nov 12, 2007 2:04 AM

    Aisha M. (613)
    Salaam Lola! Sending you Hugs & Wishing you a beautiful & blessed week!  Love, A'isha

    Nov 3, 2007 11:05 PM

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    Much Love, Randy
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    Much Love, Randy
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