I am pleased with who I am. I am 54 and plan to live to 105--I won't be old until after 90. I have grown kids and two high school girls, at home. People say I'm good-looking in a Doris Day way, but I just look like me, to me. I am intellegent with a masters degree in psychology, but I finished concrete for 19 years and still do it on the side. I have a lot of common sense, but I claim the right to make mistakes. I am mostly happy, but can get intense at times. I love to question things and don't mind not knowing all the answers, but I have been told that I am a control freak. I am a nurturer.