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"To learn how to live my life to the fullest. And keep my optimistic outlook."

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Welcome to my Page! I am a writer of Poems and Prose ~You are welcome to see them in My Blog here. I like to share my writing.  My friend Pamela W. who is my mentor, has really helped me alot..and has said I am  getting better and better.
Have a great day! Don't forget to stop and smell the flower's and look at the beauty of the tree's.  And relish every moment of this life! 
I have noticed of late that I am in a healing mode.

That my writing is affected by this...and is more to the possitive and loving nature that is my make up.

I have been looking forward lately...not as much back.

Such a change in me is a new feeling..and I feel somewhat better...and more optimistic.

The winds of time are changing....and I feel an urgency to go forward....getting out of my shell...and maybe taking a chance on even loving again.

I am on a quest!  I am morphing into a butterfly...from whence I came as a to speak.

I wish to live each day as happy as I possibly can .  Being grateful for everything I have...all my blessings.

I wish to continue to make others that is my personality.

Now...I wish to concentrate on me more.  I am learning more about me.  It is quite the thing...constantly learning..and growing in wisdom...and faith...and still having hope for matter where or what has ever been before.....I am worth it. 

I have noticed in this past year of healing...that I have a better sense of myself.

I am almost a whole person....and that means I can bring a whole person...into a relationship in the future. 

I am no longer broken.... Oh I still have the scars of time etched in my mind.   However, I feel like they aren't so deep anymore.

And the future is bright.  And I look forward to the future with all my might.  With all my heart.  With gusto.

I am thankful for the friends that have been standing by me through my difficult times....and I hope they have felt the same in me.

Now, I am on my new quest.  I want different things...I want a new life.   I want some sort of possitive change...and I will know that always, but I didn't know it......that now..I should have had what I wanted all the time...just didn't know how to go about it.

I am grateful, that my mind is clear.  And that I have these feelings I feel lately. 

I feel more alive....somehow...knowing that there is hope out there for me. 

I am shedding the weight of misery that has encompassed me..and with it....I will re the beautiful human being I am.

Appreciating always the beauty of all life. 

And making the best of every day on this earth.

by Jandi D.  (c)


It is October 2009 and I read this on my dear sister of my hearts page, and I hope it is alright with I feel the same way about wish to add the following:
Eight Special Gifts
Author Unknown
But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.

Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.

Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."

It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.

A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.

6) THE GIFT OF A Favour ...
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.

There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, "Hello" or "Thank you."

This beautiful piece was posted on Katie's home page and there are no truer words and isnt this group about words.
Thank you for sharing your words.

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Hometown somewhere over the rainbow 
Homepage http://no blog spot  
Birthday Dec 14  
Languages English  
About Me I love life so much! I love the beauty of mother earth. I love that I awake every morning to a new day. I am a very funny and fun person to be around. I love life. I love people. I love this planet. I love animals. and I love chocolate. However, I am trying to eat better..must take care of myself.
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Pets Dog/I just lost my mini-schnauzer, Shaina Punim, she was 14yrs and 3 months old. She live  
Activist Aspirations Enthusiastic
Political Leaning
Religions spiritual, Christian - Other  
Eating Habits Vegetarian Wannabe (I Try!), eatting what I like!, Keep it Healthy, Almost Vegetarian, Chocolate - Lots of it  
Wild Fact About Me I can laugh even when I am by myself. I have quite a personality.and a mischievous side to me.
My Philosophy of happy...learn lots. Hugging is healthy!
What Gives Me Hope My faith and my friends and my optimism that I naturally have.
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by No wars. Everyone learns to work ideas and cultures. Share in the care of humankind and animalkind.
What/who changed my life and why The old Movie with Barbara Stanwick called "Stella Dallas", made me realize that people should not ever be mean or nasty to others. It is so unkind and so is too was a tearjerker..
What Bugs Me injustice, bullying, Those who hurt others weaker than them, People whom do harm unto others, people who don't "listen", people who rape, liars, intolerance, hate, indifferance, Drunk Drivers, arrogance, cruelty, Any one that would hurt an animal, abusive people  
Passions art, nature, water, trees, love, photography, Energy Healing And Love, other cultures, learning, my little schnauzer, Shaina Punim, writing, peace, my family, traveling, my friends, broadening my horizons, laughter, cats, children, god, animals, music, LIFE!!!, life  
Inspirations the beauty of nature, life itself, Dogs, animals, cat, understanding, to fulfill my purpose on earth, the beauty of nature, some of my teachers, peacemakers, peace, nature, My mother, My best friend, music, Love songs, love, life itself, life, happiness, good people, friends  
What Scares Me I choose Love instead, Ignorance and evil, ignorance, Horror films, being alone, abusers, hate, Losing the ones I love, War - Cruelty - Greed - Indifference  
Role Models Maya Angelou, Oprah Winfrey, Desmund Tutu, Mahatma Gandhi, And some dear close friends I love  
Interests Varied, I like good movies, looking at and smelling the flowers (ros, laughing with friends, travel, more  
Books any books about /the PARANORMAL, Any books about ANGELS, poetry, Anything to do with animals and nature, unusual or very old cookbooks, true stories, The Celestine Prophecy, spirituality, Self improvement, Sefl Help Books!, psychology, Almost anything wor  
Music country music, celtic, oldies, all kinds, salsa/merengue/cumbia, I love latin music.I love so much music  
Movies Gone with the Wind, the Matrix, titanic, The Princess Bride, The Green Mile, Star Wars, Shawshank Redemption, Pretty Woman, PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN, Harry Potter, Grease, ghost, Fried Green Tomatoes, comedies, Braveheart, Dances with Wolves, So many I ca  
TV Shows er, the history channel, Sex and the City, Law and Order, csi, 24, house, medium, x-files, monk, Animal Planet, Discovery Channel, Everybody Loves Raymond, Grey's Anatomy, Will and Grace, NCIS, Scrubs  
Favorite Foods Breads the crustier the better, Breads, potatoes, Middle Eastern, Italian, Chinese, ...lots of favorites. and Chocolate.And  
Favorite Places IRELAND!!!!, Ireland, the countryside anywhere, canada, scotland, my room, italy, ireland, france, england, mexico, woods, the ocean, New York, New York City, My bed, mountains, LAS VEGAS, home, hawaii, greece, forests, california  
Can't Live Without pets, shelter, car, animals, dark chocolate, hugs, sex, shelter, freedom, music, hope, chocolate, air, animals, nature, water, sleep, peace, love, laughter, Air to breathe, My good health, My faith, friends, My little Shaina, but I will see her someday  
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    Ascending as we move steadily thru the forest and feeling the Loveing Energies flowing thru us all
    Soon to be enriched with oneness as we are indeed from the same thread of fabric

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