K A/d Z-w, Noord Holland, Netherlands
female, age 43
committed relationship
Speaks: Lil. Hindi, Surinamese, Dutch, English as a 2nd Language, German
Joined Apr 30, 2005
I am an eternal optimist, vibrant, spontaneous, generous, open, strong, alert, understanding, honest( even if it goes despite of…..),Love laughing. I’m sincere, direct, idealistic, exocentric, (also arrogant, stubborn, bit spoiled sometimes), and independent, need freedom. Hate hypocrisy, and people who pretend. Just be yourself. Life is Life, Ups and Downs, but all will always end well or else end somehow, someway and GOD knows best. I gladly leave it all up to him sometimes, so I don’t have to waste my time on regret, hate, anger en revenge and the past. Life is to short for that. Communication is very important for me. I have strong principles and traditions I hold on to, sometime up to stubbornness. But I’m also very tolerant and broad/open minded (because I care much for personal freedom 4 myself or 4 others). I try to live up to high moral standards. People of my birth sign are said to be intelligent????, strong, conservative, love beautiful things and tidyness. But can also be a little arrogant. Tend to be peacemaker too much sometimes, and helpful and generous to others in need. But this also means that a lot of persons can take advantage of me. For I’m to naïf. But on the other hand, I’m not that easy to influence, I have to see or have to experience it first before I’ll except anything (stubborn). Spirituality, mental and psychical influences are also important. God, peace, freedom and my soul and mind, but all within it’s limits. I always will try to focus on goals or set new one’s if the old ones did not come true. I will always go on.
In niets gaat zoveel tijd zitten als in denken!(which means, nothing consumes so much time as thinking)
My Philosophy
Niet uit juiste handeling, komt juist denken, maar uit juist denken ontstaat de juiste handeling.(means:Justified thinking does not come out of correct handling, but because of justified thinking, correct handling will arise).
What Gives Me Hope
Als het lot ons inhaalt,
wordt het oog van wijsheid blind.(means:If destiny catches up with u, the eye of wisdom becomes blind).
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by
START MAKING A REAL COMMUNITY SENSE AMONG PEOPLE.
What/who changed my life and why
VIRGINIA ANDREWS-FLOWERS IN THE ATTIC
HISTORICAL TRUE STORIES.HORROR AND LOVE STORIES/BOOKS ABOUT REÏNCARNATION.
De meest subtiele schoonheden in ons leven zijn ongezien en ongehoord. Kahlil Gibran (means:The most Subtle beautiful things in our life’s are unseen or unheard).
Meditation
(Apr 29)
What are the first steps to start meditations towards Peace in one's heart and life and reduce stress.???...
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Oh Re Piya (Oh Beloved)
(Jan 11)
Oh Re Piya (Rahat Fateh Ali Khan)Oh Re Piya Haaye… Oh Re Piya... (Oh beloved...)Urne Lagaa kyon, Mann Baawla Re&hell...
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