"MY current mission is to save myself before i can save others. To finish what i start, to make it. To stay calm and grow wiser."
Bronx, NY, USA
female, age 46
Speaks: American English, Spanish
Joined Apr 25, 2010
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April 26, 1970
||Hi, my name is Josy. I am called kind hearted, eccentric and silly and also wise by my friends and family. I live in New York City.
I take good risks from time to time because I enjoy variety in life.
I suffer from low self esteem because I was bullied by mean people in the past, I am working through therapy lessons with my therapist to build up my low self esteem.
I have always felt invisible since I was a teenager, when I was a girl I was being a girl playing with my toys. I am an adult now and still feel invisible to my family, my society and this cause me to feel hopeless and anxious.
I feel confident that God, the Gods and the universe love me, care for me and warn me and help me and also help everybody on this planet. Not everyone is lucky to be born wealthy and healthy, so we all should show and grow more compassion in our hearts and mind.
Treat others with your heart and treat yourself using your mind to live a successful life without offending and hurting your family, relatives, friends and people in general.
I don't trust easily because nobody has been there for me and they seem selfishly involved in their own life or do have time to say bad things about me.
I hope and pray for karma on my enemies because they waste time instead of appreciating their own life and worth and doing good for their community and thanking God for their blessings, they focus on hating you and doing harm and wasting your time.
I am into Chinese Astrology. My good luck year is the year of the Dog, coming up in 2018, Blessings.
I can do your Chinese astrology reading if you like,
2017 is the year of the ROOSTER. What will this year bring? who will have it smooth? and who will have it rough? we will see soon.
I love Avon fashion and products and I am an Avon representative, please check it out, find something for yourself and your family and friends. Here is my website address:
Someday I will be a Chinese Doctor that practices with nature medicine. I don't like synthetic medicine as it damages the person's insides.
||Introduce yourself to Jocelyn
Is there a father nature?,
Be in tune with mother nature,
Worship the mysterious God out there,
I love incense and candles,
I am a witch
fish fish fish fish,
hamburgers and hot dogs,
chicharon fry pork,
clams and oysters,
Pure natural spring water
|Wild Fact About Me
||I like to think about the most perverse and darkest thoughts that people can think, the whole plots and plans, the saving of someone for death and hate and making them feel invisible, I believe people can do that to someone who is hated or unliked.
||My philosophy, like what I have seen, heard, experienced and learned is that life is good, but it is people who hurt each other.
I believe God wanted me to stay single and childless for a reason, a good reason as i suffer from a health issue that i would not talk about it here.
Every person is going to die some day, so what is the big hype with successful career and tons of money? not everyone is born lucky, they born poor and have no access to good education or jobs, or some are born with weaknesses, they can't say no and some are born with health problems and some can't seem to make good decisions and always mess up their life over and over again. We need to show compassion to those who are very flawed, weak and feel hopeless or worse, nobody likes them, nobody helps them with kind words and even worse those people that instead of getting kind advice receive constant screams and hateful words and scolded for no reason or because they are not liked or compared to someone else who is more likeable, sounds crazy, but this is true but not apparent.
|What Gives Me Hope
||I hope to have a home place of my own so I can feel safe and also do my exercises and enjoy my projects and have lots of dinner parties.
I hope to get my superintendent to fix our kitchen and many other things that need replacement but they refuse to listen or help. This superintendent is from the Dominican republic and he is bad and most of them are bad people, they spread gossip,
I hear them talking bad about me sometimes in Spanish.
|If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by
|What/who changed my life and why
||I have so many quotes I like and inspires me.
I remember these quotes because they tell me something, they inspire me.
Examples: Benjamin franklin, "If you spend less than you earn/make, you then have the philosopher's stone."
|What Bugs Me
feeling invisible to my family,
feeling invisible in my society,
sick twisted thinkers,
perversion of truth,
perversion of innocence,
people who harm good people,
apathy and laziness,
people who take take and take only,
greedy evil people,
Candles and incense,
Sage cleansing spaces,
plants and flowers,
Watching ghost stories,
watching UFO documentaries,
playing games with my family,
playing games with my friends,
Eating great foods
Kindness in the face of hate,
Kindness in any form,
My lifelong friend Margie,
the sound of the ocean,
Well lived lives,
my mom and dad
|What Scares Me
punishment for one love for the other,
the cruel media,
being invisible to the world,
smart but cruel people,
the moral direction of U.S.A.,
lies and mental torments,
Being in the middle of fights,
too many to state here. ask me
||Accept no one's definition of yourself, define yourself. Quoted by: Harvey Furstein.
Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. Quoted by: Dr. Benjamin Spock.
Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later. Quoted by: Og Mandino.
Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life. Quoted by: Omar Khayyan.
An effort made for the happiness of others, lift us above ourselves. Quoted by: Lydia M. Child.
Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. Quoted by: Nick Qubein.
How you think when you lose will determine how long it will be until you win. Quoted by: G. K. Chesterton.
Friendships improve happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. Quoted by: Marcus Tullius.
Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to an unknown GOD. Quoted by: Carrie tan Boom.
To admire without coveting. By Jocelyn Valdez
Hail Melek Ta'us and the Gods.
I believe in extra terrestrial, there's definitely intelligent beings beyond our solar system and we are just discovering this.
money and saving it
soups and stews,
arroz con salchichas,
House on the beach,
New York City,
|Can't Live Without
going to the beach,
Hope and faith,
Sunshine and breezes,
My Guardian Angel,
music and dance,
friends and family
||Introduce yourself to Jocelyn