"To live life, to travel more, be loved and learn to trust that God wants the best for me."
Bronx, NY, USA
female, age 46
Speaks: American English, Spanish
Joined Apr 25, 2010
learn to crochet,
learn to sew clothes,
learn to roller skate,
learn to dance,
seek to understand myself and life,
more therapy for my problems,
rest and recuperate more,
read more books,
enjoy more coffee with cream,
drink more margaritas,
drink more bellinis,
||Apr 25, 2010
||Meeting Friends, Support a Cause
|Group Host of
April 26, 1970
||Hi, to you, reading my mini biography. MY name is Jocelyn, but call me jocy,
I am an Avon representative, too. My website is:
To forgive myself for being too serious about taking it personal when some woman or man say cruel and mean things about me. I know by now that not everybody is going to like me.
To make useful use of my time on this planet when I feel lonely.
To forgive my bullies, I was picked on in school and in my neighborhood.
To be careful now because I believe I have a peeping tom, pervert in my neighborhood who is stalking me.
I refuse to give up and do nothing about what I can change and that I can show and teach others about my problem and circumstances.
I like to give back to those few people who have helped me along my lonely and suffering path.
||Introduce yourself to Ms. Jocelyn
Is there a father nature?,
Be in tune with mother nature,
Worship the mysterious God out there,
I love incense and candles,
I am a witch
fish fish fish fish,
hamburgers and hot dogs,
chicharon fry pork,
clams and oysters,
Pure natural spring water
|Wild Fact About Me
||People yawn when I speak, they say I put them to sleep, my voice is very soft & soothing
||I am happy being born under the zodiac sign of Taurus.
I am grateful for the blessings I am receiving everyday. I enjoy the blessings I receive from my loving protective God.
I believe in aliens and that we are engineered from them, a mix of them and something else. call me crazy, but this is what I believe in.
To live your life and let others live it the way they want to live.
Unrequitted love? I heard of this, it is not good to live in a loveless and hateful relationship of any kind, it is not good when someone makes you live this life against your will. Feeling unloved causes you to feel powerless, ugly and unwanted, if this is what they want you to feel? It is best I believe to break that bondage and let go and let them go of you, of me, so eaveryone can be happy, loved by someone who truly loves them and make one feel empowered to choose healthy loving relationships.
I chose not to marry because I believe there is no man out there that gets me, understands me and will really love me with all my flaws and imperfections.
|What Gives Me Hope
||My father and mother teaching me to never give up, be self sufficient on my own, get a career not a job. Travel and experience the joys and pain of this life.
|If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by
|What/who changed my life and why
||I have so many, I will name this one for example, Benjamin franklin, "If you spend less than you earn/make, you then have the philosopher's stone."
|What Bugs Me
garbage floating in our ocean,
people who think they are God,
people who keeps us down,
Garbage on the streets everywhere,
Cruelty towards babies and kids,
backstabbers and hypocrites,
people who take but give nothing
Candles and incense,
Sage cleansing spaces,
plants and flowers,
Watching ghost stories,
watching UFO documentaries,
playing games with my family,
playing games with my friends,
Eating great foods
Kindness in the face of hate,
Kindness in any form,
My lifelong friend Margie,
the sound of the ocean,
Well lived lives,
my mom and dad
|What Scares Me
The moral direction of our society!,
I choose Love instead,
I refuse to let myself be afraid,
Disrespect for others,
too many to state here. ask me
||Accept no one's definition of yourself, define yourself. Quoted by: Harvey Furstein.
Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. Quoted by: Dr. Benjamin Spock.
Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later. Quoted by: Og Mandino.
Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life. Quoted by: Omar Khayyan.
An effort made for the happiness of others, lift us above ourselves. Quoted by: Lydia M. Child.
Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. Quoted by: Nick Qubein.
How you think when you lose will determine how long it will be until you win. Quoted by: G. K. Chesterton.
Friendships improve happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. Quoted by: Marcus Tullius.
Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to an unknown GOD. Quoted by: Carrie tan Boom.
To admire without coveting. By Jocelyn Valdez
Hail Melek Ta'us and the Gods.
I believe in extra terrestrial, there's definitely intelligent beings beyond our solar system and we are just discovering this.
money and saving it
soups and stews,
arroz con salchichas,
House on the beach,
New York City,
|Can't Live Without
going to the beach,
Hope and faith,
Sunshine and breezes,
My Guardian Angel,
music and dance,
friends and family
||Introduce yourself to Ms. Jocelyn