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Debbie Crowe

"End Animal Cruelty and find a Cure for Alzheimer's"

Evansville, IN, USA
female, age 62
married
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My Mom passed away from Alzheimer's.  She had it for 10 years and finally just gave up.  It is a horrible and devastating disease.  I watched her go downhill and it was not something I want to go through again. 

The last 2 years of her life she was in a Nursing home.   My sister and I rotated nights going to be with her.  We fed her, changed her to her gown, made sure she had her medicine and was put to bed properly. 

I would even take her down to their Beauty Salon and wash, dry, and curl her hair for her.  She had the most beautiful silver hair

If you ever have to put someone in a Nursing home and think they are well taken care of, think again.  They are overworked and under staffed and their turnover is outragous

While I was feeding Mom, I saw too many of the other patients go hungry because their staff did not have the time or the patience to put into getting them to eat.  Mom and I were the last ones to leave the Dining Room every night because I took the time to make sure she ate

I even had one of their aides ask me why I didn't change her adult diaper since I fed her, changed her to her gown and washed her hair.  I told him that if I did, he would be out of a job.

They put a new Namenda patch on Mom every day.  Sometimes my sister or I would find the one from the day before still on her along with the current day one.  That was too much of that medicine in her system and it would leave a rash when we did pull it off.

My sister or I would find bedsores on Mom that the nurses or aides missed!!   One of the nurses actually told me that we were like an extra set of eyes for them.    

My sister went to change Mom to her gown one night and she cried out when my sister pulled her arm.  The nurse said they do that sometimes.  My sister insisted they call in the doctor and guess what.  Mom's arm was out of the shoulder socket from someone pulling on her too hard. 

I know this sounds like I am nickpicking, but she was our Mom and we wanted to make sure she was taken care of properly.  

Mom was a happy-go-lucky person and always on the go.  She fitted contac lenses on people and she free hand, painted wood crafts that were beautiful

Then this disease got her and robbed her of EVERYTHING!!!!  I was so depressied when I'd leave her at night, I would cry all the way home.
 
After the problem with her arm, Mom gave up.  She stopped eating because that was the one thing she did have control over.  She died 8 days later.  She was 76

I don't think she knew who we were towards the end, but I'd like to think she did.   I miss her desperately every single day!!!!

I can't do any more now for Mom, so my family walks in the Alzheimer's Walk for a Cure.  For the past 4 years. we have taken 1st place for our costumes and our big mouths getting the word out. 

I have severe neuropothy in my feet, so this is a test of wills when I walk for a cure for this disease that will probaby kill me in the end. 

My wish to you is to hug and tell your loved ones "I love you" every day because you never know what could happen.

Update for 2013 - I'm sorry to say, but we did not win the 'Spirit' award this year at the Alzheimer's Walk!  A group who had a bull horn won it. 

We will try again next year!  Wish us luck!

 
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    May 14, 2015 6:34 PM

    Colleen V. (72)

    Hi Debbie. I heard the song "Wind beneath my wings" by Bette Midler today. Thought of you. I've not seen any butterflies .....


    May 5, 2015 1:01 PM

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    Apr 27, 2015 11:38 AM

    Colleen V. (72)

    So many signs of Spring here. Thinking of my mother-in-law quite a bit. I remember last year a tree in our yard had hundreds of Monarchs on it. That was Mom's sign to me .... I miss her sooo much ...


    Apr 26, 2015 3:52 PM

    Colleen V. (72)

    Hi Debbie !! Popping in saying hi to you. Xoxo.


    Apr 22, 2015 1:11 PM

    Ruth L. (325)

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    Apr 14, 2015 3:01 PM

    desanka s. (404)

    Hello dear Debbie, I have many technical problems
    with my Care2. So, I want you to know if there is
    no news from me, I'm captured somewhere in the
    space between... still thinking of you. ♥
    Apr 11, 2015 7:27 AM

    Ruth L. (325)

    Apr 6, 2015 5:41 PM

    Colleen V. (72)

    Hi Debbie, Popping in to say "Hi" and have a good week ahead.


    Apr 2, 2015 12:38 PM

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    Mar 31, 2015 6:54 PM

    Colleen V. (72)

    G'night Debbie. Xo's from Colleen V.


    Mar 28, 2015 11:02 AM

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    Mar 23, 2015 10:05 AM

    Ruth L. (325)

    Have a happy week SMILES ü


    Mar 18, 2015 10:54 AM

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    Mar 18, 2015 3:52 AM

    Colleen V. (72)

    Hugs. Thinking of you my friend.


    Mar 16, 2015 3:55 PM

    desanka s. (404)

    Dear Debbie, wishing you a pot of
    luck and Happy St. Patrick's Day!
    Mar 16, 2015 1:34 PM

    Ruth L. (325)

    Mar 14, 2015 11:24 PM

    Colleen V. (72)

    Thank you Debbie


    Mar 14, 2015 11:20 PM

    Colleen V. (72)

    Thank you Debbie 💖


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