Love is in the air, take a deep breath. Friends are very valuable, and need to be treated as such
when they are gone you will miss them very much.
Men are raped. At 5 I was molested by my grandparents, at 10 by a cousin and at 11 by a cousin. After my father died when I was 12 I was molested by a friend of my mothers for three years. And as an adult so called friends took advantage of me. Reaching out to other survivors and or men and gaining their trust only to be hurt once again. The good news is my life is better now.