Woah, this is complicated. I want an open minded gentleman who will open doors for me, have dinner over candle light and will be there for me when I need someone. At the same time I want someone who isn't going to be around constantly and understands my need for solitude.
He has to be sensual, romantic and charming, while willing to be a little more 'rough around the edges' later on in the night. Someone who shares my passions, interests and loves to learn about everything and any thing. He must be willing to cuddle up on a cold night and watch TV but also go out for a picnic when it's a nice day. I want someone who will be emotionally engaged with me and someone who understand that some times it's necessary to be serious. II put a lot into my relationships and I can tell you I'm completely devoted to the one I love.
He must of course be willing to give my pets love and attention as well.
I am Red Tears Black Wings, I am The Burning Flame.
My passion is for the protection of all animals. Just because an animal scares me doesn't mean I have the right to kill it. I take this attitude to all animals, they shouldn't be treated with any less respect then you treat yourself/your friends...often animals are much better company then human beings anyway! I have experenced mental illness, not just in my own case but also as a friend and mental illness can be just as bad and destructive as a physical illness(es). Those who suffer from mental illness, do suffer night and day in pain, their family watches them as the slowly die and become a shell and my goal is to get the world to see this for what it really is, prolonged pain and suffering.
I am a contradiction, give me any interest of mine and I could give you a contradiction that I also do or don't care about. I don't really belong anywhere, I'm always slightly on the out because of this contradiction.
The one thing that I really can't tolerate, is intolerance.
I might come off looking simplistic but I'm very complicated there's so much to my personality that even I haven't found what it includes yet. The one complaint I've never heard anyone say is that I'm boring.
Sitting down with a good book or listening to some music, singing loudly(and most likely badly lol) while doing a Sudoku puzzle. If it's winter I'll sit by the open fire place and watch the fire like a TV or read my book while I warm my back.