"having fun getting to know the many diverse folks on this site"
San Francisco, CA, USA
female, age 57
Speaks: Some Italian, English, Spanish
Joined May 23, 2011
Endangered species protection,
Tribal Peoples' Rights,
indigenous people's rights,
healing thru diet not meds,
eating nutritious foods,
love my Kindle,
graphic novel art books,
responsible human politics,
long walks w/ dog,
going to our psychological human roots,
graphic novel screenwriting,
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Amaroq's Open Networking Mission Philosophy
My pet cause is aimed at making a small contribution towards realigning the humanity in all of us so that we can slow down or stop passing what ails us to future generations. It involves using newer theories in the psychology of child development & creating a kind of ultra modern knights of the table round kinship psychological cause.
Through the telling of stories, I want to pass a torch (call it a blue-print of sorts) to what may be left of future generations. It may even end up being a time-capsule-of-stories if we end up destroying our planet sooner than we all think or maybe I need to join an open-minded sustainable development community where people are prepared to weather the environmental devastation we seem to be heading for.
Our adult ways of coping with life revolve around symptoms we have that often manifest as addictions (ways we self soothe) & or control patterns (ways we control others and ourselves to feel more secure & safe in our world) such as: drug addiction, over working, not doing anything, keeping constantly busy, food addictions, shopping addictions, thirst for greed, over exercising, gambling, under exercising, excessive cleaning, no cleaning, over spending, under spending, sex addiction, refraining from sex, obsessive compulsive behaviors, alcoholism, self absorption, narcissism, thirst for power, overdoing, under-doing, thirst for violence, high anxiety, & not expressing feelings.
Awhile ago I realized that certain unconscious themes keep coming up in the screenplays & stories I dabble in. I found out that the behavior of the characters in my tales were offering some alternative ways of interacting with others (especially children) that may help in a very small way make the world a better place for all of us.
So here goes: If we all dig real deep the seeds of our current environmental & economic world crisis stems from a global root--the unintentional & sometimes intentional neglect of our world's children down through history. I do not want to argue "what came first the chicken or the egg?" I'm just starting from a place I am very familiar with for the sake of starting somewhere.
These children become the adults we are today. And as adults today we have many symptoms that originated from coping mechanisms we learned in childhood.
Here's the early childhood development part:
The 1st year & the next couple of years are especially critical to a child because early needs must be consistently met by the parents or caretakers with lots of frequent contact & care such as: eye contact, being spoken to, proper nutrition, being held & healthy physical touch. It is not the time for the child to be stuck in a crib night or day or a stroller. If these early needs are not met it sets up the stage for future addictive behavior in adolescence & adulthood because the child’s emotional needs are not being addressed & this creates a kind of vacancy that the child later learns to fill falsely by going to outside substances & sources for attention & soothing & also attention deficit disorder may set in (ADD & its other forms).
Our ways of coping with and controlling life have prevented us from getting along with each other & have perpetuated unfair practices in our world governments' economics & politics & has ruined our global environment. My own personal history & that of my family of origin has helped me realize after years of therapy that we are all the same in this, although degrees of symptoms certainly vary & some people's symptoms are more dangerous if they have more direct power over large number's of the world's citizens.
It also appears that we often don't seem to realize that our symptoms are not really who we are nor are they what we really need but just what we automatically focus on to fill some conscious or unconscious sense of lack. Example, if we only had this or that then we would feel truly fulfilled or if we could make ourselves or other people do this or that then we would be truly satisfied.
Everyone has an answer for what ails the world. Most people have solutions too. I hope we all can share our views & pass the baton to future generations so they don't make the same mistakes we have, so that they & our planet have a future.
"I spent a lot of years reading & opening myself up to therapists, etc. trying to understand how all the heck this stuff called us (humans) & our world happens & keeps happening. I strongly believe in updating my information when I get new convincing data, I bite the bullet & upgrade! I also believe all this stuff is no one's fault it just keeps getting passed down from one generation to another since the time
of early man. The good news is there's positive stuff that gets passed down too!!" --Amaroq
||Meeting Friends, Dating, Professional Connections, Support a Cause
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|Who Amaroq wants to meet
||Looking for someone aprox. 49-59 yrs old who is a bit similar to me in that:
They are comfortable being monogamous--it comes naturally to them without having to try to be that.
Someone who has become the wonderful person that they are because they have gone to therapy to overcome how they were raised as a child & someone who can connect this personal experience in a compassionate way to why the people on our planet have treated each other & our earth so badly throughout human/humanoid history.
Ideally I would prefer someone who I can work with on creative writing projects (graphic novels, screenwriting) as a team (& also do our own individual work as well) where our combined goals touch strongly on stories that promote: people acting much kinder to each other on the planet (ending war & the unintentional & intentional neglect of children) & saving our planet from environmental crises like global warming & pollution etc.
||Besides getting to know many fun diverse Care2 people I would also like to connect w/ folks who are open to combining modern psychology & using storytelling (books, comics, graphic novels, screenplays & or film) to make a contribution towards saving our planet's environments & realigning the humanity in all of us so that we can slow down or stop passing what ails us to future generations.
Busy converting my spec scripts into graphic novel art books & I'm also a painter. I grew up in a working class Mexican cultural household in San Francisco's Latino district. I'm half Nicaraguan & Mexican w/ a splash of Scotch Irish.
||I haven't decided
||Sensitive, Brave, Romantic, Artistic, Extroverted, Introverted, Talkative
|In my free time I
||I like listening to hard rock music (prefer ballads) & all sorts of international music, regular movies & foreign films, hoofing it over tree lined hilly streets with my service dog & making collage book journals instead of the usual written kind, painting, try to keep up with various causes
||I prefer to listen to snippets of diverse music strung together rather than a complete song.
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