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13-Year-Old Explains Slut Shaming (VIDEO)

250 comments 13-Year-Old Explains Slut Shaming (VIDEO)

Slut shaming is a complicated topic for some people. Conceptually and logically, most people seem to understand that rape is wrong and that no one deserves to be raped. Nonetheless, every time a woman is raped, people feel the need to comment on (and even joke about) what she was wearing, how much she had to drink, what places she frequents and how many sexual partners she has. The media is guilty of this. Ad campaigns are guilty of this. Facebook groups and pages are guilty of this. The general public is guilty of this.

Rapists are to blame for rape. Not so-called “sluts”.

It is pretty simple really, yet most people find it incredibly complicated for some reason and slip back into their old rape culture ways. Maybe more people should listen to this thirteen-year-old explain what slut shaming is and why it is wrong. Perhaps they, and the 100,000 people who have already viewed her simple and compelling explanation, will finally get it.

What do you think? Can you take a page from her book and call out slut shaming when you hear it?

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4:25PM PST on Feb 22, 2012

Definitely more people need to see this

4:24AM PST on Feb 7, 2012

Wow and she's 13yrs old, I have a little more hope for the future, it's nice to see that not all teenagers are dumbasses :-)

8:08PM PST on Feb 2, 2012

Wow - wow...

5:25AM PST on Jan 26, 2012

This is a very wise young woman. I think that rape should be a capitol crime and all convicted rapist should be sentenced to death by impaling. Let the punishment fir the crime.

9:38PM PST on Jan 25, 2012

Much respect. I approve of her.

9:31PM PST on Jan 24, 2012

something to think about for sure - out of the mouths of children

2:25PM PST on Jan 24, 2012

Profound young woman.

10:07AM PST on Jan 24, 2012

compelling argument; the idea that women deserve rape because they dress 'slutty' is prehistoric rubbish! People should be free to dress how they want, it's not up to other people to 'punish' them by deciding they were 'asking' to be raped. It also denies the fact that rapists don't need their victim to be a slut to commit rape. If society doesn't take the 'slut' argument on board in that it's a method of controlling women, what hope have we got of ever ending the rape epidemic? And it is an epidemic, make no mistake. Let's get rid of the cheap excuses and show rapists for what they are - monsters.

4:55AM PST on Jan 24, 2012

Jenifer, you've been brainwashed by the culture. Personally I know several rape victims and not they weren't lying.

Do you know of one, two, more lying pseudo victims? Denise L is right. "It's time to stop blaming victims and hold rapists accountable and send a clear message that rape will not be tolerated no matter what."

12:33PM PST on Jan 23, 2012

Very smart young lady.

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