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5-Year-Old Autistic Boy Who Can’t Talk Denied Lunch By School

5-Year-Old Autistic Boy Who Can’t Talk Denied Lunch By School
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5-year-old John Robert Caravella went hungry last week at his New Jersey school because his parents owed $2.00 on his lunch bill. John Robert is autistic and non-verbal and his parents would not have known about what happened except for a note his teacher wrote:

“John Robert had a difficult time following directions this morning, he had a much better afternoon. John Robert was also not able to get lunch today he ate his muffins. [sic] There is an issue with an outstanding bill.”

As the boy’s parents, John and Silvia Caravella, noted to ABC News, they did not understand the lunch payment system at Cliffwood Elementary School in Matawan, where John has a long day in an autism program from about 9 am to 4 pm.

Their concern increased due John Robert’s inability to communicate, and the Caravellas remain aghast that his teachers or other school staff did not simply contact them immediately, especially as both work in the same town where John Robert attends school and they could have brought over all $2.00 of the missing funds.

Instead, John Robert had to sit in the cafeteria without any food while his classmates ate.

School District Fails to Apologize to Family

David Healy, superintendent of schools for the Matawan-Aberdeen Regional School District, said in a written statement that “this incident occurred due to an unfortunate oversight that has since been addressed.”

Well, not really.

The Caravellas are still so upset that they did not attend Back to School night. The only response they received from the teacher was a written note that “it wouldn’t happen again” as the family is now up-to-date with lunch payments.

As reports, plenty of Matawan parents are still as upset as the Caravellas. We live in New Jersey and my husband and I are still extremely bothered by what happened.

Out 15-year-old autistic son, Charlie, can talk a little but even less when he was 5 years old. The vast majority of his behavior issues can be traced to his struggle to communicate. He attends a county autism center and there have been days when Charlie has had no lunch, sometimes because it got swiped off the table in an unhappy moment. His teachers have assured us not to worry about him going without food at such times, as there are crackers and other things they have to give him. If I ever forgot to put Charlie’s lunchbox in his bag as he boarded the bus, the school staff (aware that hungry kids are more likely to have behavior issues; one doesn’t have to ask why) would certainly notify us.

“No Lunch” Incident Highlights Challenges Facing Kids With Disabilities in Public Schools

The incident painfully highlights the challenges that continue to face kids with disabilities in school settings. At 1 in 88, New Jersey has one of the US’s highest rates for autism in children and many of the state’s public school districts have well-established special education programs for autistic children. But districts vary widely in their expertise, understanding and resources to train and support teachers, therapists and aides in the special teaching methods that can help autistic students thrive.

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6:20AM PDT on Apr 15, 2013

That's crazy and from last September. What's happened since?

4:12PM PDT on Apr 12, 2013

Where was his aide?

2:30PM PDT on Apr 12, 2013

Absolutely no excuse is acceptable........At this age, teachers walk around the lunch room offering help opening milk boxes......etc......ON ONE saw this little boy had no food in front of him????? Usually children this age tell someone when something seems wrong.......Appears
as if everyone dropped the ball. Now that parents know this can bet this will not be repeated......whoever made the decision not to offer food to John Robert.....should be looking for another job.!!!!!! And you administrators.....this is a simple housekeeping chore for you.......e-mail the parents...put a note in his back-pack.....NO acceptable excuses!!

10:09AM PDT on Apr 12, 2013

I can't believe the lack of compassion for this boy's need for lunch...over $2 due? Esp. when a phone call to the parents would have taken care of it...or an adult paying for it out of their own pocket. Good Grief!

7:51AM PDT on Apr 10, 2013

And this is caring?

2:06AM PDT on Mar 12, 2013

We feed people in countries we don't even know where they are on a map, and yet our own people are starved and left without mental care all the time.
We deny education for trained professionals so they go into the military and become collateral damage in wars that are not ours, and then they suffer or die from that.
We leave people living in the streets with their families and never bother to find out why they are there or give them a real chance to turn things around, because the real working stiffs today are taxed, fined, permitted and licences into oblivion, but come from another country with no ties to previous citizens that have paid into the system, and we have packages to offer you.
What a screwed up country we live in today.

7:36AM PDT on Mar 11, 2013

Really!?! Where's the common sense!

9:33AM PDT on Oct 28, 2012

Feed all children, irrespective of disabilities.

1:40AM PDT on Oct 28, 2012

That's just pathetic! You would think a school would know how to communicate with kids parents! ... and then, if I had a kid like that I would have been sure that I understood what was going on before I just sent him to school without a lunch and/or $ to pay for it!!! Sad! Thanks for article!

9:48AM PDT on Oct 17, 2012

Parents you all have the right to home-school your child, these are your children.

Tell her to get a job packing groceries for the rest of her life, to be reminded and get out of your kids face, keep strong parents! do let any of your kids attend this "place" its far from a school and far from over, its just beginning. Should any parent need my further support you got it!! I would never allow my kid to enter through there again.

To Linda O:
I disagree with you yes I would blame the school as a whole, because that what it is. One thing like this, you think its an isolated incident, I don't,in fact I personally think its the total opposite.any teacher still working there is just as bad to remain there, I blame it entirely on the school because its rotten to the core.

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