Sweden is known for being one of the most progressive countries in the world, and even their preschools are pushing the envelope. At “Egalia,” a taxpayer-funded preschool in a liberal district of Stockholm, teachers refrain from using gendered pronouns like “him” or “her,” and refer to the children as “friends,” rather than “boys” or “girls.” The school also carefully plans the color distribution of toys and choice of books so that children don’t fall into gendered stereotypes.
“Society expects girls to be girlie, nice and pretty and boys to be manly, rough and outgoing,” explained Jenny Johnsson. “Egalia gives them a fantastic opportunity to be whoever they want to be.”
The Swedes are dedicated to breaking down gender roles by making sure that early education has as few gendered expectations as possible. This means, at Egalia, no books that feature traditional gender roles or relationships – meaning few heterosexual couples, and lots of gay or single parents and adopted children. Conventional fairy tales, like “Cinderella,” or “Snow White,” are not permitted.
The school seems to be successful; there’s a long waiting list for admission and only one child has been removed. But their methods are still controversial and attract a great deal of attention, just like the Canadian couple who recently decided to raise their child gender-neutral.
Sweden is clearly a leader in gender equity as well as in gay rights, and I understand the desire to raise children, from a young age, to be blind to gender. But the question is whether the children will be able to function outside their preschool, or even within the context of their families. One of the most important issues is linguistic; at Egalia, teachers use a Swedish gender-neutral pronoun to avoid the fact that gender is built into the language. It’s unclear to me whether this is sustainable. Even if small children hear gender-neutral language in school, will their parents abide by it? If they do, more power to them – I tried to go through an entire session of a women’s studies class only using gender-neutral language, and failed after 20 minutes.
If nothing else, Egalia seems like a fascinating social experiment. And it could begin to prove that gender is, as feminists argue, a social construct. The question is whether it will be successful in the long run – and if a place like Egalia could exist anywhere except Sweden.
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+ add your ownGood. I'd love it if there were schhols like this in North America.
cool
Thanks for the information.
Sounds good but can this possibly work?
there was a comment left before about of the little girls wanted to start peeing standing up. Just buy them a "magic cone"
deal done.
Great social experiment! Would love to know the outcome!
what are you guys saying, my native language is very gender neutral but we are really conservative about gender as well. that's because religion aside, gender is something that boys and girls naturally learn. the kids won't be confused; they'll just be... open-minded. we really need more of that, don't we? and they will laugh when they go to our countries we are just not.
What a load of crap!
This is definitely TOO much. Even more, this is f*cked up. Kids in preschool generally don't care about gender, or at least they shouldn't care. When I was little (20 years ago), boys and girls played together without any problems and they didn't have complexes because of using toys "intended" for the opposite gender. Besides, what's the point of all this? I doubt that the kids' parents aren't going to read them "conventional fairy tales" or that they stop using gendered pronouns.
The statement: Egalia gives them a fantastic opportunity to be whoever they want to be. made me laugh. It sounds like girls could start peeing standing up just because they want to ;-)
I agree, there shouldn't be expectations about boys and girls' behaviour only according to their gender. But I don't see the point in the whole de-gender-isation.
That's a bit TOO much. Even though I believe male and female are equal, that doesn't mean we are the same.
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