By now many of you may have seen or heard news of Chris Brown’s apology video to his fans for assaulting his pop star girlfriend Rihanna back in February. I’ve watched the video myself, repeatedly actually, trying to find some glimpse of sincerity, but come up empty handed each time.
First, apologizing over five months after the incident occurred is a bit overdue, to say the least. Brown says he didn’t apologize sooner because of legal advice, advice he was given probably because his attorneys didn’t want him apologizing for something they were hoping he wouldn’t have to admit to actually doing.
Secondly, the video appears completely staged and rehearsed. It’s as if he is reading off cue cards, pausing at the end of different statements for dramatic effect, looking at the camera intently with a furrowed brow. I’m sorry, but if he wanted to release a sincere apology he could have addressed America in a live interview where he could be questioned about his actions on the spot – no script, no cue cards.
The singer also doesn’t clarify what did or did not happen in the video, but instead refers to what happened as the “incident.” Oh you mean that night when you beat up your girlfriend? Oh yea, that “incident.” Come on!
I recognize that Brown experienced domestic violence in his own home growing up and I have no doubt that this experience has impacted him in a way I can never fully understand, but that does not excuse his actions.
What bothers me the most about his apology is that for me it feels like the only reason he released the video is for his own personal gain. Brown has already lost endorsement deals, and with a new album to be released this fall in the works it looks like he is just doing damage control and trying his best to repair his tainted image. A single from the album was rumored by Brown to be released sometime this summer, but we have yet to hear anything. What better time for the singer to release a new single then after releasing his apology video, a video he reportedly leaked to TMZ before making it live on his own site.
Brown ends his apology video with the following line:
“I intend to live my life so that I am truly worthy of the term ‘role model.’”
Whether we like it or not Chris Brown is a role model to many. A platinum-selling artist at only 20 years old, Brown’s story of rising to fame at such a young age was unlikely. Along the way he accumulated thousands upon thousands of fans that fell in love his catchy songs and smooth dance moves. Now he has a responsibility to teach these adoring fans that what he did was unacceptable.
This apology is not enough, especially when you are reminded of what happened that night.
Let me remind you ( Read the full affidavit here):
“Brown was driving a vehicle with Robyn F. as the front passenger on an unknown street in Los Angeles. Robyn F. picked up Brown’s cellular phone and observed a three-page text message from a woman who Brown had a previous sexual relationship with.
“A verbal argument ensued and Brown pulled the vehicle over on an unknown street, reached over Robyn F. with his right hand, opened the car door and attempted to force her out. Brown was unable to force Robyn F. out of the vehicle because she was wearing a seat belt. When he could not force her to exit, he took his right hand and shoved her head against the passenger window of the vehicle, causing an approximate one-inch raised circular contusion.
“Robyn F. turned to face Brown and he punched her in the left eye with his right hand. He then drove away in the vehicle and continued to punch her in the face with his right hand while steering the vehicle with his left hand. The assault caused Robyn F.’s mouth to fill with blood and blood to splatter all over her clothing and the interior of the vehicle.
“Brown looked at Robyn F. and stated, ‘I’m going to beat the s–t out of you when we get home! You wait and see!’ ”
The detective said “Robyn F.” then used her cell phone to call her personal assistant Jennifer Rosales, who did not answer.
“Robyn F. pretended to talk to her and stated, ‘I’m on my way home. Make sure the police are there when I get there.’
“After Robyn F. faked the call, Brown looked at her and stated, ‘You just did the stupidest thing ever! Now I’m really going to kill you!’
“Brown resumed punching Robyn F. and she interlocked her fingers behind her head and brought her elbows forward to protect her face. She then bent over at the waist, placing her elbows and face near her lap in [an] attempt to protect her face and head from the barrage of punches being levied upon her by Brown.
“Brown continued to punch Robyn F. on her left arm and hand, causing her to suffer a contusion on her left triceps (sic) that was approximately two inches in diameter and numerous contusions on her left hand.
“Robyn F. then attempted to send a text message to her other personal assistant, Melissa Ford. Brown snatched the cellular telephone out of her hand and threw it out of the window onto an unknown street.
“Brown continued driving and Robyn F. observed his cellular telephone sitting in his lap. She picked up the cellular telephone with her left hand and before she could make a call he placed her in a head lock with his right hand and continued to drive the vehicle with his left hand”
“Brown pulled Robyn F. close to him and bit her on her left ear. She was able to feel the vehicle swerving from right to left as Brown sped away. He stopped the vehicle in front of 333 North June Street and Robyn F. turned off the car, removed the key from the ignition and sat on it.
“Brown did not know what she did with the key and began punching her in the face and arms. He then placed her in a head lock positioning the front of her throat between his bicep and forearm. Brown began applying pressure to Robyn F.’s left and right carotid arteries, causing her to be unable to breathe and she began to lose consciousness.
“She reached up with her left hand and began attempting to gouge his eyes in an attempt to free herself. Brown bit her left ring and middle fingers and then released her. While Brown continued to punch her, she turned around and placed her back against the passenger door. She brought her knees to her chest, placed her feet against Brown’s body and began pushing him away. Brown continued to punch her on the legs and feet, causing several contusions.
“Robyn F. began screaming for help and Brown exited the vehicle and walked away. A resident in the neighborhood heard Robyn F.’s plea for help and called 911, causing a police response. An investigation was conducted and Robyn F. was issued a Domestic Violence Emergency Protective Order.”
At the end of his statement, Andrews said Brown sent a text message nine days later apologizing.
And now, over 5 months later he releases this staged pathetic attempt at an apology. You didn’t fool me Chris Brown and I have a feeling I’m not alone.
What did you think about his apology?
Photo originally from Daily Mail (UK) - http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1201065/Im-sad-ashamed-Ive-Chris-Brown-finally-admits-assaulting-Rihanna.html
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