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Cooking and Cleaning Makes Fathers Healthier and Happier

Cooking and Cleaning Makes Fathers Healthier and Happier

The results of a new study from Lancaster University will make working mothers very happy: according to the researchers, fathers who spend more time with their children, have working partners with equally long hours, and do more of the housework are actually happier.  According to the Guardian, researchers who spoke to more than 1,100 working fathers to find out how they combine work and family life discovered that “the desire for more ‘family time’ is widespread, with 82% of full-time working men saying they would like this.” 

While this seems like a fairly predictable finding, the implications are quite radical.  According to the researchers, fewer fathers than mothers believe that it’s the mother’s job to look after children.  This, of course, isn’t necessarily something that men act out – partially because of the limitations imposed by employers.

The lead researcher, Dr. Caroline Gatrell, summed up the issue succinctly:

“Women are having their careers blocked by employers who assume that, once children come along, their commitment to the workplace will be severely compromised. But the same myth is also disadvantaging men who find themselves being their child’s main or only career, because employers aren’t offering them work-life balance choices. It is time workplace attitudes changed to recognise the massive changes that have taken place in family practices in the 21st century.”

So how do we make this happen?  It makes sense that men would want to spend more time with their children (and that less time in the office equals less stress, even if it means more time spent on household chores), and certainly more balance in the domestic sphere would make it easier for working mothers to juggle the demands of career and family.  The answer seems to be, as usual, to provide better daycare and maternity/paternity leave, and to allow both men and women to work more flexibly.  Whether employers (and the government) will get on board is another question.

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4:25AM PST on Jan 12, 2014

thank you

4:44AM PST on Mar 1, 2013

It's also important for fathers to be close to the family

8:46AM PST on Feb 28, 2013

In the late 90s I started a dot com Internet application and web site development company. We were based inside of our largest customer on Wall St. From day one I was determined to create a virtual office that e couraged working it home. It was a flop. We needed coworkers interacting by being physically present. As much as I'd like for it to work it really doesn't. Creative ideas and customer interaction come from groups. Being at home excludes you from the group.

10:10PM PST on Nov 27, 2012

Watch the movie, "Sleeping with the Enemy" it's about a neat freak husband who abused his wife. The wife did all the cooking and cleaning and if she puts something out of place, he hits her.

12:34AM PST on Nov 17, 2012

Interesting, thank you.

12:33AM PST on Nov 17, 2012

Interesting, thank you.

5:26AM PDT on Oct 4, 2012

What about the guys who are beyond belief superbly perfect organizers of items in cupboards, for example, but do no household cleaning but run their berating and insulting mouths while their supposed significant other cleans? Are they just taking stock? Singles do it all left out so why no special consideration for them?

4:55PM PDT on Oct 3, 2012

everyone needs some special consideration apparently, but singles don't seem to get any...

3:07PM PST on Feb 3, 2012

Very interesting!

11:13AM PST on Nov 16, 2010

I work 50+ hours a week and use the cooking and cleaning at home as a way of relaxing. Besides, I am good at it.

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