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“Directed” Acts of Kindness

“Directed” Acts of Kindness

When most people think of “micro-giving” they think of sites like Kiva, DonorsChoose or GlobalGiving that allow your small donation to make a direct, personal impact… but what if the “micro-giving” concept was applied to random acts of kindness? That’s the principle behind ItStartsWith.Us, a project created by Nate St. Pierre (though, Nate thinks they shouldn’t be “random acts of kindness” but “directed acts of kindness”).

The idea is simple. Sign up for a mailing list and each week you get sent a mission. One week the mission was the $2 challenge. Subscribers were encouraged to spend $2 in a way that would make a positive impact on someone else’s life. For one person, this was helping a mom out at the grocery store who was a couple of dollars short on her bill. Other examples including paying someone’s bridge toll and buying a kid a set of headphones on a flight.

Other missions have involved helping out a stranger, giving something you owned to a friend, finding a senior citizen and spending some quality time with them, and handwriting a note to someone to let them know they were “doing it right.”

Nate says that one of the main reasons the concept works is because people know that they are part of a team and that others are out there doing the same thing. The ideas are quick, easy and fun and people are encouraged to tweet about them or report back to Nate with the results of what they did for the week.

Video plays an important part in what Nate is doing with ItStartsWIth.Us. At least once a week, he records a video for the website and he encourages members to record videos to report on their mission. To Nate, videos allow the website members to realize that they are part of a team, and that he is just a regular guy making this all happen.

In addition to the weekly missions, Nate has started a side project called the “Love Bomb” (I love this idea). Each week, someone from the ItStartsWith.Us community nominates someone outside the community going through a rough time — they may have just been diagnosed with cancer, lost their job, or going through a bad breakup. The Love Squad “attacks” that person’s blog (or email box) by sending positive comments at a specific time (usually on Thursday mornings). The person is flooded with positive comments.

Nate is working to grow the ItStartsWith.Us community and is currently working with several companies on how they can implement the weekly mission challenge as a staff bonding tool. The companies can tailor the missions he sends to them to make the most impact in their communities, and once a quarter all of the companies involved will participate in a coordinated mission with the rest of the ItStartsWith.Us members.

To learn more, visit the ItStartsWIth.Us website.

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photo credit: Nate St. Pierre, ItStartsWith.Us

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9:23PM PDT on Jun 8, 2014

The smallest act of Kindness to another could be and can be the Biggest Gift of Love to them. Sometimes those in need present a 'stiff upper lip' for all to see when in actual fact behind closed doors and away from the public there are other things going on.
Giving $2 or like I did not so long ago a work man came into a shop and he was short of 20cents. Just 20cents! I was waiting for the shopkeeper to say ' aww, dont worry, you can pay me the next time or dont worry I take what you have.' but that didnt happen and it seemed that he was a avid customer. Anyway I offered my 20cents. The reward from me was THANKS!! :D and a huge smile. I said ' Please pay it forward!' He beamed and say ' ohhhh yeah!' I will certainly do that.' Now I see him all the time in that shop and we stop and chat for a bit. Its just great for the soul even if you dont give direct money although it was only 20cents thats just how it happened.
I have some dog treats I must put in my car and when I see this person give the dog treats to him to give to his gorgeous dog. It doesnt matter what you do, even listening to another unload, that helps the speaker, release the built up tensions and lowers their blood pressure, Thats all called the Act of Kindness. We should practice it every day. I just love it and I do it without thinking often.

4:51PM PST on Nov 23, 2012

do good, do the right thing, even if it's not always the easiest option. being selfish is ugly. thnx for the article. i love it.

4:28PM PDT on Oct 9, 2010

Please be kind to animals

5:07AM PDT on Oct 7, 2010

when all seems destitute and lost.... a small act of kindness speaks volumes

3:27AM PDT on Oct 6, 2010

I love the idea of small acts of kindness.. they kind of take a life of their own.. making a string of kind acts.. thanks

2:41AM PDT on Oct 6, 2010


6:52PM PDT on Oct 1, 2010

Nice concept!

4:39AM PDT on Sep 27, 2010

I just Joint them! Thanks for share the info Care2 team.

3:07AM PDT on Sep 20, 2010

good job

3:06AM PDT on Sep 20, 2010


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