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Don’t Let What Happened to Shane Happen to You (VIDEO)

Don’t Let What Happened to Shane Happen to You (VIDEO)


Thomas Lee Bridegroom left his Indiana home to travel to LA in 2004 hoping to realize his dreams. He quickly gained popularity hosting MTV’s The X Effect in 2007 and starred in a number of commercials. Tom was also lucky enough to find himself in a long term relationship with Shane Bitney Crone, an actor and social media consultant. The couple started a business together in 2006 and also held a joint mortgage, but they never married or got around to writing their living wills. After all, the pair, in their mid-twenties, planned on having a long future together. But cruel fate had other ideas. On May 7, 2011, Tom tragically fell from a four story roof while photographing a model for a project. He subsequently died. Their failure to protect themselves would cost Tom’s partner Shane dearly.

Here is Shane and Tom’s story:

According to this memorial page Tom and Shane’s closest friends did, a month after Tom’s death, hold their own memorial service where Shane was able to participate and talk about his partner Tom and all the memories they made together.


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3:35PM PDT on Sep 15, 2012

how very very wrong....this hatred cannot be what our creator wanted...

6:27PM PDT on May 23, 2012

No one should have to go through this. Everyone deserves equality.

7:00AM PDT on May 11, 2012

I made a video about why Homosexuals should have equal rights. It’s at my YouTube channel Zarrakan, and here’s the link:

Watch it, share it, and join the fight against the evil Homophobes.

3:17PM PDT on May 10, 2012

Tracey S.
Thank You!!!!!! It is never to late to learn. You must be one of the "Good Guys"!
Again, thank you!

6:54AM PDT on May 10, 2012

This is so very sad. I just want to say your story has made me change my mind about gay marriage. I really wasn't sure why it was such a big deal for the gay community to want that right to be legally bound, but this made my whole outlook change and I definitely think Everyone should have the right to marry whomever they want. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best.

3:33AM PDT on May 10, 2012

My deepest sympathies. It is bad enough to lose someone you love, but to face all this in the midst of grief is unthinkable. Hopefully there will come a time when this doesn't need to happen. In the meantime, as Sandy says, we should all remember to make wills.

3:10AM PDT on May 10, 2012

Powerful video Thank you for your courage My heart,thoughts and love to you Shane X

7:17PM PDT on May 9, 2012

This is a very sad story... Six years ago I was going through a similar experience. My partner of 24 years had an asthma attack and had to be revived twice before being admitted to the hospital that led the doctors to put him under twilight sleep and intubated him for a week...I had to pretend I was his brother, but when a "good" friend (and physicians assistant I went to for support) alerted the hospital that I was actually his partner of 24 years and not his brother the hospital administration literally held his treatment hostage until I called my partners family to whom he was estranged for many years) to authorize treatment. We were lucky, after seven days my partner was taken off life support and being strong enough to breathe on his own - one hour after my partner was "awakened" he understood the situation, he brought in a counselor to sign patient advocate and power of attorney papers between the two of us.

6:59PM PDT on May 9, 2012

Mahn T.....may I then suggest a nice, deep cave? You can decorate it in all the homophobic, "manly" decor your little heart desires.

My heart, love and thoughts to you, Shane.

5:46PM PDT on May 9, 2012

yet another example of man's inhumanity to man...

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