Gay Catholic Resigns Over Archbishop’s Anti-Gay Rhetoric
Citing New York Archbishop Timothy Dolan’s anti-gay statements, 24 year-old Joseph Amodeo resigned last week from a Board of Catholic Charities committee.
In a letter sent to the diocese as well as Catholic Charities, Amodeo criticizes what he perceives to be Cardinal Dolan’s callous response to criticism over remarks Dolan has made about gay identity, including that New York’s legalization of marriage equality is “Orwellian social engineering” and that gay marriage will lead to incest.
Dolan has refused to accept that through his anti-gay comments he may be directly contributing to the intolerance and prejudice that leaves LGBT kids homeless and vulnerable.
Read the full letter below:
Dear Ms. McGowan and Ms. King:
After careful consideration and prayerful discernment, it is with mixed emotions that I submit my resignation as a member of the Executive Board of the Junior Board of Catholic Charities. Although I have a great deal of respect for the work of the organization and the incredible talent behind its efforts, I have found it difficult in recent weeks and months to reconcile serving on the Executive Committee of a board under the pastoral leadership of Archbishop Timothy Cardinal Dolan.
The comments that His Eminence has made regarding same-sex couples, the LGBT community in general, and his recent in-action in response to the Ali Forney Center’s plea for pastoral assistance, has left me with no other choice but to resign. Contrary to His Eminence’s response to Ali Forney’s Executive Director, Mr. Siciliano’s comments were not inflammatory, they were truth; they were a call for help; and they were expressive of the cry in the wilderness that LGBT people have been making for far too long.
As a religious and pastoral leader for millions of Catholics, his voice is needed as together we work to create homes that are safe, affirming and welcoming for LGBT youth. The LGBT community is not asking the Cardinal to change Church teaching, but rather to exercise the Church’s social justice teachings. I hope the day will come when things will be less about “clear teachings” and more about what is truly right and just in the eyes of Truth itself.
This resignation should not be seen as casting an aspersion on Catholic Charities, but rather an ethical dilemma of a personal nature related to Archdiocesan leadership. As someone who believes in the message of love enshrined in the teachings of Christ, I find it disheartening that a man of God would refuse to extend a pastoral arm to the Ali Forney Center and the hundreds of LGBT youth that are housed, fed, educated and provided free health services.
These are concerns that I will share with the Office of the Cardinal and the Archdiocesan Pastoral Council as well.
As a gay Catholic who teaches religious education (more than eight years in service to the Archdiocese of New York), is active in parish life and supports Catholic organizations, I’m afraid that the Archbishop has caused my heart to ache and my soul to feel pierced.
With a discerning mind, I have tried to overlook the Cardinal’s actions and comments, but this has now become impossible in light of his curt words to Mr. Siciliano and New York City’s homeless LGBT youth. It has been a great honor to serve Catholic Charities and to be a voice for the organization in my social circles as well as through my writing and online activities, so it is with a heavy heart that I make this decision and submit this resignation.
I submit this resignation with great respect for Catholic Charities and with hopes that one day the vision of peace and love that Christ promised will be realized.
Cc: The Rev. James Cruz, Priest-Secretary to Archbishop Timothy Cardinal Dolan
Msgr. Kevin Sullivan, Executive Director of Catholic Charities
Carl Siciliano, who heads the Ali Forney Center, a homeless shelter dedicated to LGBT youth, wrote to Dolan saying that Dolan’s rhetoric was unacceptable and that he was becoming a “loud and strident voice against the acceptance of LGBT people” which creates “a climate where parents turn on their own children.
Siciliano continued: “As youths find the courage and integrity to be honest about who they are at younger ages, hundreds of thousands are being turned out of their homes and forced to survive alone on the streets by parents who cannot accept having a gay child.”
Dolan refused to accept Siciliano’s accusations, saying they were “not only unfair and unjust, but inflammatory.”
Dolan has, however, continued to make inflated remarks against LGBT rights measures and marriage equality.