‘I Was Shot With My Own Gun,’ Says Domestic Violence Survivor

Written by Tara Culp-Ressler

Domestic violence survivors are traveling to Capitol Hill this week to make sure that firearms don’t end up in the hands of abusers. Working in conjunction with Mayors Against Illegal Guns, they’re encouraging lawmakers to support comprehensive background checks, a lobbying effort that’s timed to coincide with the end of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

Gender-based violence and gun policies have become particularly entwined lately. Over the past several months, proponents for looser gun laws have argued that women need easy access to guns to protect themselves against abusers and rapists. According to some of the conservatives who oppose gun control, additional regulations on concealed weapons and assault rifles aren’t compatible with feminism. On Tuesday, that line of reasoning made yet another appearance at a Senate hearing about Stand Your Ground laws, as a conservative policy analyst from the Cato Institute suggested that feminists support the policy that allowed George Zimmerman to kill an unarmed teenager.

Christy Salters Martin, a domestic violence survivor who was stabbed and shot by her husband after she attempted to leave him, has a very different perspective on the issue.

“Having a gun isn’t enough,” Christy explained in an interview with ThinkProgress. “Women who fear for their life don’t need a gun — they need to go to their local police department, they need to go a family member, they need to go to the domestic violence shelter in their area where they have some type of protection.”

Christy and her estranged husband both owned guns and both had concealed carry permits. Christy also had a very successful career in professional boxing. That didn’t stop her husband from shooting her.

“I was shot with my own gun. Just putting a weapon in the woman’s hand is not going to reduce the number of fatalities or gunshot victims that we have,” Christy pointed out. “Too many times, their male counterpart or spouse will be able to overpower them and take that gun away.”

The evidence backs up Christy’s point. Abusers who have access to a gun are more than seven times more likely to kill their partners. By some estimations, the presence of a gun in domestic violence situations — no matter who technically owns it — increases the risk of homicide by 500 percent. In 2011, 44 percent of the women in this country who were killed with guns were murdered by a current or former intimate partner.

“These things are going to continue to happen until Congress steps up and changes these laws,” Christy told ThinkProgress. “And in order for them to act, it’s going to take people like me, survivors, to stand up and say: Be more aware of the gun laws.”

Thanks to current loopholes in federal law, some domestic abusers are still able to get their hands on guns. That’s what Christy and her fellow survivors want to change. They’re holding a press conference on Wednesday to urge Congress to pass stronger background check measures, saying that will help save women’s lives. Indeed, in states that already require background checks for all gun sales, 38 percent fewer women are killed by intimate partners.

Immediately after the Sandy Hook massacre, support for universal background checks soared. An estimated 90 percent of American voters supported the policy in the lead-up to a Senate vote on the issue in April; nonetheless, the Senate ended up killing the bill. But Christy is still hopeful.

“It’s just going to take more people getting up there and talking about their personal experiences,” she said, pointing out that more stories from victims of intimate partner violence need to be elevated. “If it’s not happening in your house or within your family, you’re not thinking about it.”

Aside from raising awareness about gun violence prevention, Christy and her fellow survivors are also doing their part to help destigmatize the issues surrounding domestic abuse. Even though intimate partner violence is incredibly widespread in the United States, most people still don’t feel comfortable talking about it. One recent survey found that 64 percent of Americans agree that talking more about these issues would make it easier for them to feel comfortable stepping in and trying to help someone in the midst of an abusive relationship.

This post originally appeared on ThinkProgress

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Laura Saxon
.3 years ago

Very scary. Thanks for sharing.

Scott haakon
Scott haakon3 years ago

Bad law does not change the person. less regulation on guns not more. But more training. Starting in the kindergarten. Training along with discipline creates a mind set that is more compatible with the world than the mess of the last few decades. But it is best to begin early!

Paola Ballanti
Paola Ballanti3 years ago


Bill Eagle
Bill E3 years ago

Communities need safe places for abused women and women who fear for their lives.

Dmitry Nikiforov
Dmitry Nikiforov3 years ago

thanks for sharing

Karen G3 years ago

Thank you for sharing.

Spencer Young
Spencer Young3 years ago

I really see nothing that's going to break this violent cycle of abuse except for zero tolerence and manditory sentances

Fi T.
Past Member 3 years ago

When can tragedies of this kind disappear?

A F.
Athena F3 years ago


Joseph Glackin
Joseph Glackin3 years ago

When I was growing up, in the heyday of the Western, the good guys were taking the guns off the streets. The heroes at the OK Corral were the Earps, not the Clantons.
Later in college I read about "settling the West". The "Wild West" was defined as the period in each area between the first saloon opening and the first school, and in each location was about ten years before the town got "civilized" and the guns were off the street.
Guns don't kill people, people with guns do. About 10K/12K every year. Another 20K turn guns on themselves.

I cannot accept the idea hat we must live with that much destruction.