LGBTQ Students are Now Speaking Out at Christian Colleges

What would happen if a student at an evangelical Christian college announced that he was gay by posting a notice on a public bulletin board? Ten years ago, he may have been harassed or accused of violating the college’s moral code. But in 2010, when Wheaton College student Benjamin Matthews publicly came out of the closet, the reaction was more subdued.

Matthews said that several other male students came out to him after his revelation, and other students seemed mostly ambivalent. “I don’t think most Wheaton students knew what to do because they’ve been given ‘love the sinner, hate the sin’ rhetoric, but they don’t know how that plays out in real life [...] They would mostly just listen, nod, and say, ‘Yeah man, that’s hard’” (CNN Belief Blog).

Wheaton College, an elite evangelical college in the Chicago suburbs, expects its students to live by a strict moral code that prohibits them from having sex outside of marriage, including homosexual activities. But in February, the college approved an official group, Refuge, that serves as a resource for students questioning their sexual identities.

Wheaton isn’t the only conservative school to open up positive dialogue about sexual orientation. As more politicians and religious leaders change their stance on gay marriage and the morality of homosexuality, higher education institutions must follow suit — or risk alienating current and prospective students.

One invaluable resource for LGBTQ students and alumni of conservative Christian colleges is Voiceless, an organization that moderates “dialogue between Christians, the LGBTQ community, and all of us who find ourselves standing awkwardly in between.” Schools that have a chapter in Voiceless include Hope College in Michigan, Ozark Christian College in Missouri, and Brigham Young University in Utah, along with dozens of others.

Colleges must support their students

I attended St. Olaf College in Minnesota, which was founded by Lutheran Norwegian immigrants. Although not an evangelical school, St. Olaf still encourages daily chapel attendance, enforces a dry campus policy and requires all students to take a class that focuses on Bible reading and interpretation.

The school also supports the active GLBTQ community on campus by providing resources for GLBTQ groups, maintaining an open and communicative culture, and hosting events such as the annual Drag Ball, which is attended by large numbers of both gay and straight students. By supporting a diverse community of students, St. Olaf is, for the most part, able to balance its Christian heritage and values with the more liberal social lifestyle of many of its students.

The key for any student to be successful at a college or university is to feel like he or she is accepted. As gay rights continue to progress, evangelical colleges will find that more and more of their students are unwilling to accept such rigid social contracts.

Paul Southwick of the Huffington Post urges GLBTQ students to assert themselves through organized groups to gain respect and support. It is possible to be both gay and Christian, and soon all evangelical colleges will have to come to terms with that fact.

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52 comments

Sarah Hill
Sarah Hill3 years ago

While you are at a school you should abide by their rules.

Ron Grubner
Ron Grubner3 years ago

In reference to Lynda D's comment.....The Christian knows that if he/she is committed to the commands and demands set by Christ/God because he/she is committed to Christ/God ,then those demands will and can never change.God does not change but some in humanity want to change perception of Him to justify thier own agendas.They know that Christianity is the barrier which stands between what God demands and what they want.It is in fact pointless and fruitless to attempt to change that which cannot be changed.Christians are not accountable to other people but to God.It is God Who sets the standard by which they live .LGBTQ's know that if their own standards are to be wholly accepted ,they must challenge what God has ordained.
Either we believe in and of God or we don't.We cannot have it both ways.Having faith in God is knowing that He WILL do what He promises.Well,if Christianity is the representative example of God's people,that is the example which must be attacked.In effect it is attacking God Himself....not the people representing Him.It has nothing to do with hate of other people or bigotry when what God says is upheld because we are ALL sinners ! No matter how many preffer to view it,we are ALL accountable to the ULTIMATE AUTHORITY. ..Ok, so you don't believe in God ? That changes nothing of the truth and can never do so !!

William Meade
William Meade3 years ago

maybe its the best college in there area ?

Lynda Duke
Lynda Duke3 years ago

But..........Evangelical colleges promote one form of behavior, so why are LGBTQ students enrolling in Christian colleges? Just to be difficult? Just to cause a scene? These colleges don't have to accept Gay students. They don't have to change their ways. I keep asking this question - why not go to a school that accepts and promotes LGBTQ forums! I have asked in the past, why are Gays trying to break into a church dogma, when they can build their own? Yes, I know that's being a separatist - but Churches won't change, not in this day and age. And we shouldn't expect them to do so. Just getting them to back off Laws against Gays is a hard task, but to demand churches change their dogma could be going too far.

Vicky P.
Vicky P.3 years ago

good for them for speaking out, it will be a tough fight, but eventually people will accept.

Mari Garcia
Mari Garcia3 years ago

I don't understand gay religious people, but at least these schools are making major progress.

Christopher Fowler

Fact of the matter is that homosexuality is a natural thing. It occurs in more species than homophobia exists in and in more human cultures than homophobia exists in.

Only in extremist religious orthodoxy is there a real problem. It is also the root of the problems with bigotry against the LGBTQ community.

It was not until about 600years ago when the Christian church stopped performing gay weddings. That was a socio-political decision.

http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/source/2rites.asp

Christina B.
Christina B.3 years ago

Thank you for the great article (this is coming from a straight person who is on the LGBT rights side)

Spirit Spider
Spirit Spider3 years ago

We are all just human

Ron Grubner
Ron Grubner3 years ago

Exactly Peter.....Christians are sinners too...but saved by grace....through Christs sacrifice.
And your reference to the teachers illustrates my point because we all know that teachers in general do not uphold all they are required to. They must be held as examples to the students.
That also demonstrates the huge harm of immorality will do to the younger generation who WILL follow their peers but then go steps further.