“Girly jobs” won’t only get you a husband – they’ll get you a husband who’s less likely to cheat on you (maybe).
New research suggests that men who are financially dependent on their wives or live-in girlfriends are 5 times more likely to cheat on them – 5 times more likely!
On the contrary, women who are financially dependent on their male partners are more faithful.
Why the discrepancy?
Well, although it seems rather counter-intuitive for a person to cheat on the partner who supports them, it can be argued that men choose this route as a means of demonstrating their “manliness” that is called into question with their lower pay check.
Men as Breadwinners
According to the author of the study, Christin Munsch, men who earn less than their female counterparts challenge “the traditional notion of men as breadwinners.” Without ownership of this role she argues that a man’s gender identity is threatened which leads him to cheat.
Given this argument, the more economically dependent a man is, the less he is able to fulfill his role as a breadwinner, and the more likely he is to cheat.
However, on the flip side, Munsch also finds that the more economically dependent a man’s female partner is on him, the more likely he is to cheat.
So even if men earn a lot more than their partners – and fulfill their roles as breadwinners successfully – they are still inclined to cheat.
When Don’t Men Cheat?
The study’s author argues that the partnerships with the least amount of cheating occur with couples who earn the same amount of money or when men only earn slightly more.
Now, I don’t want to paint men as sex driven, cheating machines. Even the study’s author admits that infidelity was minimal in the data she examined.
In fact, only about 7 percent of men and 3 percent of women cheated in the six-year period she analyzed, but when the cheating did occur there was a dynamic at play between financial independence and infidelity.
Either extreme – earing a lot less or a lot more than their partner – seemed to increase the likelihood of men cheating.
Women on the other hand were more faithful when financially dependent on their partners, but nothing was said for women’s infidelity should they earn a lot more than their male partners.
Are women who earn a lot more than their husbands cheating on their cheating spouses?
Why hasn’t this trend been examined? I imagine too that there are differences in the trends of economic independence and infidelity for same sex couples.
With so many questions left unanswered I hope to hear more from Munsch on this trend.
What do you think – is there a correlation between economic independence and infidelity?
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