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Secret Service and Prostitutes: Just Boys Being Boys?

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I’m not sure we should be, given Robinson’s suggestion that this isn’t the first time men affiliated with the United States government have collectively engaged in this type of behavior (and we’ve all seen the news reports, TV dramas, and tabloid headlines to support his assertion). Obviously there is the argument that women have the right to do with their bodies as they please. If they want to sell their sexual services to make ends meet, it’s their business and no one else’s.

Trafficking a factor too

This basic concept may be true, but the issue of prostitution in general  seems far too complicated to be dealt with in a vacuum. For one thing, not all prostitutes enter their profession consensually. Human trafficking is a growing concern in Latin America; in addition, many sex-workers suffer from physical, financial and/or substance abuse at the hands of gangsters and pimps. The Christian Science Monitor reports that 500,000 Latin American and Caribbean women are sexually exploited every year. A pretty alarming statistic. I sure don’t want anyone, especially men representing my government, pumping those numbers up any higher.

Another problem is that the more this “boys-being-testosterone-laden-boys” attitude persists, the more normal it will become for women to be just another good or service available for the amusement of men. Over-reaction?  Maybe. But take a look at an advertisement for alcohol. Leaf through an issue of Vogue or Marie Claire, or any other top fashion magazine. I guarantee that you’ll find several prime examples of women being draped and displayed in ways that make them no less of an object than the perfume or fruity alcoholic beverage featured in the next page’s ad. Majorska Vodka doesn’t even bother to include women’s heads in their ads. Just breasts, bottoms, and booze are all that’s needed for a good time. No brains necessary.

Ultimately,  if we dismiss incidents like the recent Secret Service debacle, we run the risk of perpetuating a tendency to subjugate and objectify women that has only recently started to change for the better. Of course both men and women will continue to have sexual needs. Perhaps they just need to go about fulfilling them in a responsible, non-expoitative, 100% consensual way.

What do you think?

 

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3:30PM PDT on Aug 15, 2012

sadly women are seen solely as objects. if we were seen as more, cheaters would be fewer. Marriages would last longer. And the way we are treated would be improved. If we were seen as actual human beings and not just a quick fix, perhaps men would have more respect for us. But that isn't the case. So men go to strip joints and to prostitutes. They cheat and run around. They rape and abuse and molest and terrorize. Why want a real relationship when you can get what little you want from a stranger? I wonder how many of those men were in "committed" relationships?

8:45PM PDT on May 4, 2012

Who cares?
Lets focus on issues of concern please!

6:08AM PDT on Apr 29, 2012

"I think it was simply boys being boys, and I’m afraid boys will be boys. I know, because I was one. I still am, I guess.”
Is this supposed to be cute and endearing, said with a boyish grin, do you think? Anybody else feeling slightly sick?


5:56AM PDT on Apr 29, 2012

Weren't they supposed to be there working? If I paid them, or relied on them I'd not not want silly, selfish "boys".
Better perhaps to have females only doing this important job.

12:30AM PDT on Apr 28, 2012

Boys will be boys....when we keep this attitude in place, why are we outraged that boundaries have been crossed?

1:58AM PDT on Apr 27, 2012

Btw, I have no problem with prostitution per se, as long as it's legal and regulated, and the women kept disease free. Makes a lot more sense than outlawing it as we do in the US. But like it or not, even casual sex is an entanglement that the Secret Service do not need, not when they are traveling with the President.

1:54AM PDT on Apr 27, 2012

These were not businessmen, let alone vacationers, who only had to answer to themselves for their actions. I don't give a hoot what they do in the United States, as long as it's legal and doesn't hurt their families. but in Columbia, they were in the President's entourage. Sorry, folks, sometimes you just have to rein in your impulses and desires, and act like a responsible adult - and this was one of those times.

Think about this: if "boys will be boys," then doesn't that say something about how seriously they took their responsibilities? It makes it sound like they were there on a lark, playing games, not to protect one of the most important men on the planet!

7:57PM PDT on Apr 26, 2012

Beth, I do not disagree with your assertion that you can't trust a drunk, and it may be that you can't trust men who use prostitutes. But if you acted on those beliefs at election time, there probably wouldn't be a quorum in either House or Senate, and on Sundays there'd be no one to give the sermon in fundamentalist churches. You may think me inane, but I'm afraid we who were idealists in our young years almost invariably become cynics with age, and cynics tend to be pragmatic.

7:42PM PDT on Apr 26, 2012

If we all chipped in, do you think we could put together enough money to pay Steve R. to SHUT UP!! If someone posted an article about their granny's recipe for apple pie on here, he'd just right another comment about how Obama hates apple pie and therefore isn't really American and granny violated his constituional rights by not asking him if she should bung in some cinnamon. Manic-Obsessive Disorder. Ought to add that to the DSM.

7:26PM PDT on Apr 26, 2012

Also they were not on their own time, they were on the job. Wow!

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