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Teen Criticized for Opposing War at 9/11 Tribute

Teen Criticized for Opposing War at 9/11 Tribute

15-year-old Brittney Cofresi used her speaking role at a 9/11 Ground Zero memorial to address President Barack Obama on the subject of Syria on Wednesday. After reading the name of her uncle, a victim in the World Trade Center attacks, Cofresi, added, “President Obama, please do not bring us to another war.”

Expectedly, the off-the-script comment has generated a lot of criticism from not only pundits, but members of Cofresi’s own family. Opponents have called out Cofresi for being tacky and daring to politicize an event meant to commemorate the lives lost in the terrorist attack.

Cofresi, who attends the tribute annually, says that her war remark wasn’t intended to be disrespectful, but after watching Obama’s speech on Syria the previous night, she felt compelled to use her moment of high visibility to share her opinion. “I wasn’t sure the president would get my emails or letters. I felt like the only way to get my voice heard was to say this on TV,” she said.

Cofresi held the picture of her deceased uncle, Sal Papasso Jr., as she spoke. As the niece of Papasso’s widow, she is related to the 9/11 victim through marriage, a fact that Papasso’s blood relatives have derided. Tom Papasso, Sal’s brother, said, “We are all stunned. It was completely inappropriate to use this day for that. It was not the time nor the place for a political statement.”

Even if Cofresi’s extended family doesn’t condone the pacifist plea, at least her mother stands by her. “I’m proud of her,” Karen Cofresi said. “She had a message to the president and said ‘please.’ She didn’t say ‘Go giants!’”

However, that hasn’t prevented the media from condemning the teenager. The New York Post and Washington Times called out Cofresi for “bragging” about her comment on Twitter and attempting to seek fame.

It’s an easy — if not outright hypocritical – criticism for the mainstream media to make after seemingly supporting strikes on Syria at every turn. To pretend that, since 2001, the 9/11 tragedies have not been highly politicized is equally laughable.

The main difference, of course, is that Cofresi used a 9/11 commemoration to speak out against war, whereas most have used it to promote foreign attacks. After all, wasn’t 9/11 turned into an excuse to start a war with Iraq, a country that was not involved in the twin tower attacks? Hasn’t the phrase “Never Forget” been warped into a sentiment to make people paranoid about terrorist attacks rather than memorializing the victims?

Perhaps Cofresi sees parallels between the supposed WMDs in Iraq and the less-than-concrete proof of chemical weapons in Syria. Perhaps, after losing her uncle, she just knows the pain these types of attacks bring. Either way, to vilify the young woman for calling for fewer deaths in an event honoring the senseless deaths seems more like propaganda than anything Cofresi said.

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12:38AM PDT on Sep 21, 2013

Oh, Margret ... I love your "innocent" question - LOL!! She would have gotten lots of praises as being patriotic and doing the right thing in supporting the CMIC (Congressional Military Industrial Complex) a.k.a. as the warmongers, gangsters, murderers, hypocrites, et al. But now ... as she basically asks for peace she's no good. Imagine peace would break out?!? All the money which they thought to have secured already? What a horror and waste! But I'm almost sure they'll find somehow a way to still go to war - they unfortunately always do.

Unless ... unless ... we, the people, keep standing in their ways. This seems to be the only path left and we MUST go it. Personally I believe that the only good war is the one which is NOT fought.

BTW Uri wrote an excellent article - I've never seen one by him which was not excellent ;-) - you may want to read it: "Stolen Wars" ( You may also want to read the previous one: "A Good War" (

Hav a good day!

7:10PM PDT on Sep 20, 2013

I wonder what the Papassos and others would have said if Brittney had said something like, "President Obama, I support whatever you do in Syria." or "President Obama, get rid of the evil Assad regime."

1:46PM PDT on Sep 20, 2013

she is free to oppose war and others are free to criticize her for it.. freedom goes both ways!

6:08PM PDT on Sep 19, 2013

It's a freedom of speech. (You can criticize as long as you can but I will say whatever I want) Good for her. Thanks for sharing.

9:38AM PDT on Sep 19, 2013

Kudos to those Americans left who actually speak out in truth to fact. Manipulators on all sides would be wise to learn from their bravery against criticism.

5:26AM PDT on Sep 18, 2013

Good for her! Even if you don't agree with her it is her right to speak out against what she believes is wrong.

8:58PM PDT on Sep 17, 2013

Last I heard this was America and all people have the right to free speech without vilification. Kudos for speaking from her heart.

11:22AM PDT on Sep 17, 2013

Thank you Care2 members for the great comments.

7:18AM PDT on Sep 17, 2013

thanks for sharing

7:18AM PDT on Sep 17, 2013

Free Speech isn't just for adults!

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