Mary’s Rescue: A Happy Ending for This North Korean Refugee

Editor’s Note: This post comes to us from the wonderful folks at Liberty in North Korea (LiNK), an organization providing protection and aid to North Korean refugees. Read the story of Mary’s incredible journey below.  

LiNK, or Liberty in North Korea, is the only full-time, grassroots organization in North America devoted to the North Korean humanitarian and refugee crisis. LiNK provides protection and aid to North Korean refugees hiding in China and, utilizing a modern-day underground railroad through Southeast Asia, rescues refugees and helps them to reach freedom. LiNK’s global grassroots movement seeks to raise awareness of this crisis and mobilizes the international community to take part in bringing about effective change. Below is a rescue story (written November 24, 2009) from LiNK’s Vice President Justin Wheeler. 


by Justin Wheeler

As I set foot in China, many emotions invaded my thoughts. I guess you could say I was somewhat nervous. My last visit to China involved being detained for a day on suspicion of helping North Korean refugees — an “offense” punishable in China with up to three years in prison.

Despite my apprehension, as I landed in China again this September, I was excited at the prospect of meeting with more North Korean refugees who had been forced into hiding. Thankfully, I was able to visit refugee shelters without opposition, and there I heard many tragic stories — one of which I simply have not been able to forget.

Mary is 27 years old. It has only been a few months since she escaped from North Korea, as food shortages in her village claimed the lives of her entire family.

Unsure about how to cross the river that divides North Korea and China, she hired the services of a broker to escort her across. When she reached China, a peculiar exchange took place.  Money was traded between two men and before she knew it, Mary was ushered off by an unfamiliar Chinese man.

China’s “one child policy” has resulted in a dramatic disproportion between the male and female population. By 2020, more than 24 million Chinese men of marrying age could find themselves without spouses. This, along with the increasing number of North Korean refugees, has led to high volumes of sex trafficking along the China-North Korea border. Over 80 percent of North Korean women are vulnerable to trafficking.

Mary described her “marriage” with her Chinese husband: “I am treated well, but I work seven days a week farming. At least I am able to eat.”

When I asked her what her dream was, she responded eagerly, “I want to finish my education of course. I had to drop out of school in the sixth grade. Hopefully, I will go on to university and then teach, but I don’t think this will be possible since I cannot go to school here in China. I’d have to try and escape to South Korea, but I can’t afford that journey right now.”

When she talked about going back to school and living in South Korea, her expressions were for a brief moment bright and hopeful. But her tone quickly deflated as she shook her head and told us, “This will never be possible even if I worked for the next 10 years. It’s just not an option.”

As I left the shelter that night, Mary’s words stuck with me and I couldn’t help thinking of the hundreds of thousands of other North Korean refugees hiding in China who are left feeling the same way — that they simply have no options.

The journey Mary spoke of involves traveling thousands of miles through a modern day “underground railroad” that goes from China to a Southeast Asian nation that will allow refugees to seek asylum or resettlement. The cost of the journey quickly adds up, and on average, can cost $2,500. Mary cannot afford such a journey and will continue to live in fear of being sent back to North Korea where her punishment may involve torture, imprisonment, or possibly execution for having left North Korea.

Although North Korean refugees are caught by Chinese authorities and repatriated weekly, we realize that we have the opportunity to change that fate. We’ve decided to help by offering Mary an option: a way out of China. But we aren’t going to stop there. We will attempt to help others in hiding by bringing 100 refugees to freedom as soon as possible. It’s going to take all of us to make it happen, but many small efforts by many people are all we need. Together, we can literally change the course of their lives.

*Mary’s name has been changed to protect her identity.

Mary has since been rescued and is now being protected in LiNK’s Southeast Asia shelter. She is awaiting resettlement to the US this fall. Learn more about LiNK’s work in rescuing refugees here

photo credit: thanks to LiNK for the photo of *Mary who needs to keep her face hidden for safety reasons

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Beng Kiat Low
low beng kiat5 years ago


Peter B.
Peter B.5 years ago

thankyou for this article Nicole

Nellie K A.
Nellie K. Adaba5 years ago

Great story

Nellie K A.
Nellie K. Adaba5 years ago

Great story

Vivien Tarkirk-smith
Vivien T.5 years ago

Michelle Hesse, the reason the US rushed to free the Iraqis from Hussein but do nothing for the North Koreans is simple. There is no oil.

Kerrie G.
Kerrie G.5 years ago

This is a very enlightening story. To know that this happens in this day and age is scary. It sounds a lot like a story from one of the world wars.

Jane L.
Jane L.5 years ago

would love to continue hearing about Mary's story once she lands in US - how she sees America from behind her eyes.

Em Hardegree
Em Hardegree5 years ago

Does LINK ever partner with Free the Slaves? They work to stop slave rings at the system level (as opposed to buying individual slaves) in an effort to bring freedom to more people.

Rana Sinha
Rana Sinha5 years ago

Glad to read that things went well for her.

Yi D.
Yi D.5 years ago

Some more essential measures should be taken like banning such "peculiar exchange" and help those single man with finding wives. Chinese government should concern this.