Are you looking for the love of your life? While there is no guaranteed formula for success, here are 10 tips that I found useful:
1. Stop Looking. Have you ever experienced losing something, spending hours looking for it, only to find it once you stop looking? It’s the same with soulmates: Once you stop trying so hard to find “the one” you’re far more likely to meet him or her.
2. Stop Trying to Please People. This is especially true for many women, who often try so hard to make someone else happy that they lose themselves in the process. You want someone to love you for who YOU are, don’t you? Not for becoming someone else.
3. Lose the Sleaze Factor. I’ve seen so many women shorten their hemlines, wear push-up bras, and sport low-cut tops, who then wonder why they attract the wrong men. I think a lot of women do these things out of fear that no one will find them attractive. Sure, you’ll attract people this way, but rarely ever the right type of person.
4. Improve Yourself. I met my husband when I “gave up” on men. I had decided to simply focus on “better-ing” myself. Et voila! He showed up when I least expected it…but was at my best (or at least trying to be).