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10 Tips to Find Your Soulmate

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10 Tips to Find Your Soulmate

Are you looking for the love of your life?  While there is no guaranteed formula for success, here are 10 tips that I found useful:

1.  Stop Looking. Have you ever experienced losing something, spending hours looking for it, only to find it once you stop looking?  It’s the same with soulmates: Once you stop trying so hard to find “the one” you’re far more likely to meet him or her.

2.  Stop Trying to Please People.  This is especially true for many women, who often try so hard to make someone else happy that they lose themselves in the process.  You want someone to love you for who YOU are, don’t you?  Not for becoming someone else.

3.  Lose the Sleaze Factor. I’ve seen so many women shorten their hemlines, wear push-up bras, and sport low-cut tops, who then wonder why they attract the wrong men.  I think a lot of women do these things out of fear that no one will find them attractive.  Sure, you’ll attract people this way, but rarely ever the right type of person.

4.  Improve Yourself. I met my husband when I “gave up” on men.  I had decided to simply focus on “better-ing” myself.  Et voila!  He showed up when I least expected it…but was at my best (or at least trying to be).

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Michelle Schoffro Cook, MSc, PhD, RNCP, ROHP

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Michelle Schoffro Cook

Michelle Schoffro Cook, MSc, RNCP, ROHP, DNM, PhD is an international best-selling and 17-time book author and board-certified doctor of natural medicine, whose works include: 60 Seconds to Slim, Weekend Wonder Detox, Healing Recipes, The Vitality Diet, Allergy-Proof, Arthritis-Proof, Total Body Detox, The Life Force Diet, The Ultimate pH Solution, The 4-Week Ultimate Body Detox Plan, and her new book The Probiotic Promise. Subscribe to her free e-magazine World's Healthiest News at to receive monthly health news, tips, recipes and more. Follow her on Twitter @mschoffrocook and Facebook.


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2:40PM PDT on May 30, 2012

Result-oriented article! Thanks for sharing.

10:46AM PDT on May 30, 2012

thanks for sharing.

8:43AM PDT on May 30, 2012

good hope

1:18PM PDT on Jul 15, 2011

Thank you

4:59AM PDT on Jul 12, 2011

It's hard to find an intellectually compatible man. I have graduate degrees and I'm an avid reader, but for some reason OKCupid keeps sending me matches who barely got through high school, work in manufacturing, and have few interests outside of NASCAR and custody battles with their trailer trash exes. Sorry to sound so harsh, but... I thought I set my match criteria high enough to exclude the ne'er-do-well illiterates?

7:26AM PDT on Jun 6, 2011

thanks will pass it on

11:58PM PDT on May 17, 2011

You got my vote. Well said, In life there are many things which we should leave on supernatural power.
What is a soul mate

6:07PM PDT on May 10, 2011

i agree with this (:

1:29AM PDT on Apr 1, 2011

Great tips, thanks :-)

9:56AM PDT on Mar 22, 2011

Thank you. I may find someone who will be my soulmate. I hope so.

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